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I guess the reason why I kept the faith was because of FEAR. My mummy said that if I TOUCH a woman she will get pregnant. Pregnancy means no more scholl. I love schooll. I had a choice either concentrate in school or mess around. I chose to stay in school.
At age 21, I had my first girl friend in the university. I didn't know what to do with a girlfriend. the fear of pregnancy was topmost on my mind. we broke up. reason? she said "Gabuuu, you are a fine guy but no action"
During my NYSC days the babes kept coming ( I take style fine oooH) but as usual, no action.
meeeeeeeeen!! I was afraid to make a mistake.
Towards the end of my service year, i met this girl from the east, who was a fine girl but no action. We became very good friends and because we had a common feeling (Fear) we trusted each other.
One day we decided to give it a try and see how things will turn out. We used precautions of course! you wont beleive what happended, she got pregnant! so, we got married.
\My case is exceptional and if I am to walk this world again I can assure you that I will make love to a woman by age 18. I missed out on a lot of things.
Maybe that is why the Almighty compensated me with the most adorable woman on earth.
Keep the flag flyin
Gabuuu

Babaycute. I assure you that keeping the thoughts of your heart pure is possible. Just like learning how to ride a bicycle or drive a car.
simply select the kind of books you read, or the programme you watch and the kind of people you get attracted to. mind what comes forth from your lips. It is a gradual prosess. So many have done it, and I know you can do it.
But this one thing I tell you. Sex is beutiful and sweet if done with some one you really love. The icing on the cake is lovely kids, who either look like you or your partner.
Every time I see my kids (especially my daughter) I am glad I waited.

It;s so funny that you want to stay away from sin and yet you limit it to only kissing. My dear friend Nature does not know joke (If you play with fire, it will burn you) neither does it know when you are applying halve measure or full. Kissing leads to sex. Thinking of sex also leads to kissing then sex. and sex is what you want to avoid. Right? Then 'keep the thoughts of your heart pure' that way you are sure to make heaven.
I pray for strenght for us all in our journey through life.
Gabuuu

I sorry for you all. This topic is serious.
The event as described, is a spiritual matter and those who are still awake in the spirit know that the trumpet has sounded. For those who are waiting for it to happen physically, YOU ARE ON YOUR OWN.

graillife.
I am assuming that you have read the message and living the message. from the reponse you got ,that should give you a fare idea of the amount of work that is required for mankind to understand what you are talking about. we give thanks to the Almighty for his garce.

In our present day society, we have lost our intergrity, to cover up for that, we always insist that we "try it out" before buying. we run a pre-paid system in everything we do (TelePhone, school fees, petrol, supermarket, Cybercafe etc). That monster is now in the marriage institution.
why would you even think that having a baby before marriage (Pre-paid) will guaranty you a happy marriage?. dont be fooled. If he loves you as he claims he should be able to wait (Post-paid).

Hello,
If you are looking for the "Perfect Woman" to walk into you life then, you are are making a big mistake. You, my dear, are the one that will bring out what you want from the woman you marry.
with a woman in your life, you need patience, Truck load of patience. Now you know why old wine cost so much.