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Pipedreams:
I have no kid yet

My advice is don't be violent with her because some wives can make someone commit domestic violence.

Pipedreams:
Yes bro. I just simply left the house. A bad wife kills. Just like living in hades

I understand your situation better but stay by your kids.

Pipedreams:
Yes bro. I just simply left the house. A bad wife kills. Just like living in hades

I have a daughter and I don't wish my daughter to treat her husband that way. We should always put ourselves in a situation before before making a judgement. There is no man that will be happy when his home is upside down. I realise it is very dangerous when u are too cool with your wife. You see family members advising you to have patience for your wife. You will have this till she go out of hand.

Pipedreams:
am in ur shoes bro. these karashikas of this generation are something else. i am also seeking divorce too

He who that in the same shoe will understand me and the situation better.
I repeat it, if devil want to destroy you, he will send u a bad wife. That is one of the reasons I don't just conclude when I read story about husband beating his wife. I don't support it but something triggers a reaction expecially when a man can no longer manage his temper.

Oyindidi:
Judging from your write up, you don't seem to me as a serious husband.
Sorry oga, you just said nothing

your post can't surprise me because you are a woman as well. women are always in support of their fellow women especially when they are single.

.you can only understand this situation when your son is in the same situation like me.
And u don't expect me to come here to spill all what happened me and my wife but to hear different option from people concerning what am facing.
For your information am not a trouble maker man that is why I'm surprise about how my wife is acting.

Only God knows when last I have heard marriage topic in church. All what they preach now is heaven and hell as if satan is the creator of earth.

AntiWailer:
Just take a break first.


Leave the house and make surdoese u still send up keep for a while.


If she no send u after 6 months to 1 year then it is over.

My kids is what am considering. The irony part is when a wife does are evil, no one will hear but wen the man start his own, the whole world will hear and will start condemning the man. This is a very serious issue in me now.

PSTEMMA1960:
my question, do u have any lady u intend marrying soon？if the answer is no, then u can take a break without divorcing her..

hmm another woman for where. The one that hook me for neck still dey there.
I see a wife being a church goer doesn't mean she will be a good wife. I wonder what our pastors preach now.

Now i know is golden to have a good wife. The worst thing that can happen to a man is to have an evil wife.

PSTEMMA1960:
u don't jst decide for a divorce over night, my advice 2u is to take a break and think about what u intend doing..

did u nt friend the lady b4 marrying her？i believe u did, u saw all those signs bt choose to ignore them..

marriage if full of different challenges, even if u chose to marry another lady tomorrow, she will still have her own bad side..

once again, take ur time and think about it, don't make any decision when u are angry or over excited..

Thanks very much. I just don't decide now. I have been patient enough and is like my patience has turned to foolishness. Over over 2yrs now, thinking she will change but still the same. I involved pastor to talk to her but still with the problem. before it turn bloody I just get to move away. It is long story people will not understand.

I greet you my people. I am fed up with my wife and I have tried all possible way to make it work but is as if the situation vis getting worse.
All other parties have been involved to counsel the party but not worked.
pls I need a process to file for a divorce and I need a lawyer advice.