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Hi learned NLs,

I applied for scholarship in one of the UK-based universities to study for my MBA. Fortunately and/or unfortunately, I got only a 50% funded tuition fees, leaving me with 50% plus other expenses, such as accommodation. This could only be funded by loan of about #3.5m as I have no one to sponsor me.

Let me say a little about myself here: I am a 26 years old lady with passion for my career. I lost my dad in my final year at the University, leaving my mum with 5 kids to see through school. I am the 2nd child. We have managed to survive after 5 years of my dad's demise and now I have 2 younger ones left to finish up their 1st Degree.

I currently have a job I love, which pays me 175k per month.

Leaving for my MBA would mean quitting my job and being burdened with a loan, which I hope to repay back as soon as I finish my programme. But I know that I would have greater prospects in my career once I finish my programme.

So wise NLs, I need your candid advice.

Hi NLs,
I'm 26 years old; I've dated a lot of guys and lost count, but this guy is different. Not that he's perfect (nobody is), but I love him just the way he is.
I started dating him about a couple of months ago and he's been so loving and caring. He showers me with gifts and affection, but asks for nothing in return. Not even sex.
Believe it or not, I'm still a virgin and he knows. I'm so much in love with this guy that I'd let him deflower me, if he asks to; but he wouldn't.
Personally however, I always feel like I'm not impacting his life in any way and I'm afraid he might feel the same way someday and call it quits.
This is my biggest fear, because I cannot afford to lose him. He's just too dear!
Wise people of NL, please advise me on what to do.