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efficiencie:
Bro you can make it. You have to get close to God. Forsake any known sin that you commit. Check online for MFM deliverance prayers and start praying them every morning and every midnight...others have made it and so can you. Good speed!

Thanks alot

MedicH:
Not everyone will succeed in life. There will always be poor and very poor people

Jesus said something similar.

I'm ready to relocate

Nwaotu10:
I am also facing the same issue. My suicide day has been scheduled. I've lost the battle already.

God help us. But suicide is not an option bro.

shege45:
dust your Cv, find a school around and start teaching. Start from somewhere. I was depressed like you some years back and I even wrote a thread that made front page here on nairaland. I started from small but I never depised the days of little beginnings. Today, I am
Not yet where I want to be but I am very very far from where I was. Start from small even if na 30k salary, dnt just be idea

Bro you guys are making it seem like I'm not making an effort. Trust me I am. I've tried my hand in many things but no show. I'm not idling away. It's not a normal occurrence. I thank God for your life.

ThothHermes:
Done.

thanks alot sir

ThothHermes:
I've responded

Replied

God is in control. Delay is not denial

immortalcrown:
Sorry, I forgot to add the link.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YVruyotCeGo

Thanks alot for this. Soo true. I wept!

immortalcrown:
Listen to this song from the beginning to the end. You will sound like the singer at the end.

Which song pls?

descarado:
You alone is responsible for your success and failure.
It starts with your mind.
Some had it worst than you.

When you start listening to your inner man cos it knows what u can or cannot do. Positive mindset is 50%, the rest are layered on top of it.

Thanks alot sir

Acidosis:
1. The truth is that majority of the genuine deliverance pastors are actually broke and poor - implying that your key to wealth does not lie in the hands of any deliverance pastor.

2. Maybe it's time to change the way you view and your idea of "success." Success means different things to different people. You see those broke deliverance pastors, many of them are actually successful in their own rights.

3. If success, according to you, is getting a job and making some cash, then it's time to focus your attention on getting a job. What efforts have you made in that regard? Have you sat down to ask yourself whether the course you studied in school is the problem? What efforts have you made in terms of getting an in-demand skill?

4. Being a graduate is no longer a direct ticket for employment. Over 85% of youth corp members today do not know the meaning of "quarter past 6." There's a popular video on Facebook with millions of views where corp members couldn't answer that simple question. Your potential employers both home and abroad have probably seen that video so it's time to dump that graduate mentality.

5. Why didn't you apply for the F-G NPower program in 2020? N30,000 is almost of no value today but, at least, over 500,000 graduates get that money every month from the federal government without doing anything in return.

6. Maybe it's time to take information gathering very seriously. Information is power.

Thanks for your words of encouragement. It's very much appreciated. Yeah I applied for Npower but I've never been selected. I don't know why. Would have really gone a long way. Thanks once again

pansophist:
Understand life as "cause and effect". I don't think there is anything wrong with you, but maybe you're not willing to go low enough. Youve mentally pinned yourself on a level economically and unwilling to be flexible.

Can you be a bus/Uber driver? Can you sell something on a busy road side? If you're so broke to even feed, then can you go to major market and sell your strength (eg offloading containers)?

I know people like you, schooled individuals that feel frustrated because they don't have work, but think doing something they consider menial insults them. Some are ashamed to do menial jobs, but not ashamed to beg. Lol.

Most of us in the university was trained by our parents who did menial jobs. I know an okada man with his house in his village, and an akara seller with children in university. Many times, people suffer because of their ego.

I also did menial jobs but not the physical tasking one's cos I had an operation not too long ago. Also I've sold fuel, Hawked okrika, sold bread in traffic when I was in Lagos and done other menial jobs but for how long? If I start to remember everything I get teary eyed. But I'm hoping on God to turn my situation around. Thanks for your comment.

ibechris:
U just reminded me similar thing.

During my depressed state in 2011,I met a lady who was far older than me online and I complained of no job she was ready for us to marry then but I refused because I just left camp to face the real world.

After some time she asked me to do some prayers at mid night and she was specific about the midnight prayer even after I had met a pastor who told me how my uncle has tied our destiny including my elder brother.

But I ended up listening to that God sent of a lady...ever since that singular prayer,my life turned around for good.
Without boasting,I am 39yrs this year...I, alone knows what God has done for my family through me.

I,personally do not believe in prayer without individual effort,I don't also believe in most pastors but God in heaven.

Try this and see what God will do for u.

Prayer is key.

Your testimony is touching. God continue to bless you. Yes you are correct. Faith without work is dead.

ThothHermes:
You are right. Stagnation and delay is a curse. People who experience it often have dreams of seeing themselves in their secondary school, former house, and other places they have been. It has to be dealt with spiritually.

Exactly. My situation is far from ordinary.

ThothHermes:
They are not big files. Less than #200 data will do it. I can send you the airtime if you want.
Drop your number and airtime.
Also download "Spiritual Intelligence" and "Complete deliverance" if you can.
Your life will change I guarantee you.

Good evening sir. I was banned. Can't post my number here to avoid being banned again. Just sent you an email. Thanks

henrimoto:
be positive about life, even at difficult moments of life. Come what may, just be persistance in your endeavours. Creat a dream, believe. Focus and never stop trying. Build a strong relationship with God, listen more to spiritual/deliverance messages, NEVER STOP PRAYING TO YOUR MAKER.- GOD

Thanks alot sir. I appreciate. I'm really trying my best but it seems not enough but I believe God will make a way for me soon or send a helper.

immortalcrown:
Last last, pastor go tell you say you get "calling". Meaning God wants you to become a pastor.

Guy, I understand your situation. But do not give up in hoping for a better future. At least, be grateful to God that you are not battling a serious illness.

I just want God to break the curse of stagnation in my life. 5 years no job. it's not ordinary. I thank God for good health. God bless you

I need a job please or assistance.

Hardy123:
Okay. Goodluck.

Thanks

Hardy123:
Who are you voting for next year?

I'm Obidient sir

Chioma4eva:
This is a really sad situation.

thanks for your concern.

Hardy123:
OP do you have PVC?

Yes I have

dododawa1:
BRO,you should know everyone is going through HARDSHIP due to this present government,you can not relet, keep trying and d end Will be GULDER.

Thanks Soo much

henrimoto:
Have you thought of the sugestion ?... You are close to hatchery road?

Yes I have and yes I'm close to hatchery road.

dododawa1:
staying in one place for long,try others states,e.g LAGOS,PH and ANAMBRA.

I was in Lagos 2018 job hunting and applying here and there but no show. Couldn't also cope with accommodation as the friend I was squatting with was very cold and made it plain that I over stayed my welcome. I'm ready to move to any place as long as there is accommodation and also job opportunity. Thank you

Rozross:
Keep praying and working hard, don’t compare your life with others , some men started living a meaningful life at 40(May it not be your portion) and have surpassed those that started earlier. Just live right, pray and work hard and you’ll come of your situation successfully. It is well with you

Thanks alot ma'am

culf:
easy on yourself bro, its a good thing you're not relenting. please stop comparing yourself with others, you might be the one to sustain them tomorrow, God will soon come through for you. just be diligent with whatever you're doing and anytime you have opportunity to learn any skill, please don't hesitate.

Thanks for your kind words sir. God bless

Moh247:
Insha Allah your helper shall locate you, you will look back and smile

Amen. Thanks alot.

budaatum:
Did you note what I said your problem was? You seem to think you can be delivered by others instead of putting in the work to deliver yourself.

Anyone who claims they will deliver you will just further enslave you, so you should consider whom you deliver yourself to or you'd compound your brokeness.

Thanks sir. Your point is well noted.