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FORGIVENESS
If only you understood;

the emptiness, sleeplessness, and aching you cause yourself because you are judging a soul / person blindly, keeping malice, giving ridiculous attitude and grieving unnecessarily, all because you want revenge, retaliation or to see another suffer.

If only you understood;
You will be more wealthy, healthy, most peaceful and blessed.
Make that first move to forgive no matter the wrongs and live a life for yourself.
"To do your conscience is to be a free man but to do the conscience or bid of another is to be a slave"
_Georgeline Ezioma

So I talked with her today and she was so shocked, awaken of what she was going to do without thinking twice. She says I'm a saviour to her bcuz she almost made up her mind but can now see reasons not to.

What did I do?

I just told her to talk raw over the phone with her husband in a closed room and have him confess how much he misses her,(make him feel emotional and conjitional) that will reassure her conscious and subconscious mind dat some1 loves and misses her, as well as make him feel what she feels.

Again, I advised her to remind the eatery guy that she is married and will appreciate if he respects that and if possible, she should start learning a skill so she have someplace to go each day as well as some people to talk to, even if it means not telling the husband for a start, for her emotions sake.
Idle mind is a devil's workshop.

Well said all of you but this is no joke matter. D salon is in front of my house. I am disturbed not to help.

I was in a salon when I overhead a young pretty lady (probably in her early 20's) complaining to another friend of hers about going crazy with the distance between her and her husband.
The story is that the husband travelled outside the country for perhaps work or school but they are Formally married and he got her a nice place to stay with a car, no children yet and he doesn't want her to work. Now, it's been over six months he promised to get her visa or come visiting at least though they still communicate on daily basis. She said and I quote "I have emotional needs and need them to be met urgently"
Now, she seems to be considering a guy that have been so caring, understanding and friendly to her since they ran into each other in an eatery. She even feels like telling the husband to permit her to befriend an opposite sex but I think she is depressed and not reasoning well or probably taking wrong advise from her friends. I have never been in her situation but can imagine the loneliness and anxiety.
My salon lady says, she always comes to her shop every evening to cool off, so I'm seeking better advise to share with her when I go there today . Don't be quick to judge her please but be understandable with her situation and give your word of advice. We have the opportunity to help now.
Thank you.

I have only been able to feed my snails with pawpaw, vegetables and plantain leaves since 3weeks now, but wondering what more combination or species of feeds & veges, can they be fed.
Aside pawpaw, tomato and watermelon fruits, what other fruits too can they consume and it won't harm them.
Do snails eat orange roughage, onions, spirogyra or pepper?
More ideas please, please be sure and sincere.

I Started my snail pen last week and today I found snail eggs of different sizes {some are very tiny while others are big} and I was wondering what to do next. Do I separate the eggs from the general pen or leave it till it hatches? Again, I want to know how long the eggs stay before hatching?

Tnk you all for your good advices and suggestions,

I have started picking up wild snails in my environment as of yester night

but I still want to know how long it takes these snails to mature and lay eggs?

I will love to embark on rearing of snails in my house as I can't find any reasonable, paying job to do now but want to do something and work for myself. I will need people into this farming to please share ideas with me and everyone interested in this line of farming too. I have done a lot of research but needs practical farmers to share their realities as well as state how to start with small capital of say #40k.

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Home economic teacher - zobo and rice
Economic teacher - Mr Understood,
Biology teacher - euglena or tentacles