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steph7: Hi NLders,
My bf loves me very much, but the problem I have is that he says I'm too ambitious and he doesn't like that in a woman. He says I'm rude any time, I try to tell him how he has hurt me even when I'm obviously not rude. He doesn't like listening to my opinions, even when he pretends 2, he does what he feels is rite, even when my suggestion is better. I feel he doesn't trust me esp when I got a job offer and he claimed I must av had an affair with the man offering me the job 4 me 2 get it.
He is waiting for my answer on the marriage issue, NLders. With all these issues I'm not sure if I can marry him, what do u think nlders

Sorry o but that ur guy na control freak. Any man that puts himself first and does his own thing without listening to ur opinion is not going to make you happy in marriage. Trust me,I know what I am saying. While you are still dating its easy to live with but when u are married its choking. yes, disagreements most occur in marriages but respect and compromise is also necessary. Think deeply before you take that plunge.

c-zay:
Pls I need your sincere advice with no scorn. How do I quickly recover from a blow below the belt by my girlfriend when she utterly said that she is no longer interested in the relationship without any peculiar reason(s). All efforts in trying to restore the situation proves abortive.

Move on,men. Get over it. It will hurt for a while since its a bad blow to the heart. Fill ur time with things you love doing. Go out. Have fun. Meet other chics. Try and delete her phone no and email. Just live without her!!!