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007inc:
U see why a cone headed Yoruba man can’t understand the Igbo business ideology.....
Go to Onitsha, Nnnewi, Aririia, Alaba Intl, Ngwa Rd Aba etc. The Igbo operates from kiosk n small shops but in actual sense , they got warehouses bigger than ur entire village . That is the pattern. That is why they are controlling the Ghana Market and SA market.... Like I said Go to Nnewi n see , don’t waste ur life on NL hating on a blessed tribe , go meet them n learn so ur family will escape poverty

It's not so much about tribe tho my brother. Knowledge is a blessing. Ghana itself is not a bad place for business. And 1 million dollar is not that much

Slawormir:
Damnnnnn niggarrr
You are not alone son

It happens to every niggarrr

Na post-coital dysphoria

But the degree of that sadness after sex with the woman depends on your closeness, relationship and intension towards her

First off, the real reason as in the real the reason you feel this post cortial sex whatever is simply because you don't know why you are doing what you are doing. Hard to accept but it's relatively the truth. Not the sexual act itself, but the real reason why you are doing it. Post cortial disorder or whatever is another name for emptiness because that is obviously what you feel after the sexual act and reason thus, your engagement was basically to satisfy your sexual organ pleasures or as others put it nature playing tricks on your mind on behalf of your generative organ. Like it or not, an hour later you will feel better, a month later I can't say. Love or marriage is a different thing entirely.

Secondly, there are more than one reason a man have sex with a woman, choosing your reason before you engage even before HELLO will give you the fulfillment feeling that you are suppose to enjoy after the sex itself afterwards.
Now to throw in a bit of theological consideration before you eat yourself up and continue, sex in itself is considered the original sin, the feeling you as a man gets is the faded remnant feeling still present in your DNA(soul) The same detest the first man felt after laying with the first woman. That deep shame of descending to the realm of men from being a God that u are naturally Having said this,
Thirdly I will advice you choose your battle next before you engage as their are more than one reason besides just plain why a man lays with a woman
therefore, are of three kinds, maids( easy girls, unripe pawpaws, crush, girl friend or whatever name you have for it) Next is women twice married(or as per our generation have more than one guy) , and public women ( unhappily married, marriage seekers, and set of drifters) lastly the least inclusive is a woman be previously or currently married to another man, but reserved for special occasion.
Now these special occasion or reasons is different but it is as when you the man thinks

1. This woman is self-willed, and has been previously enjoyed by many others besides myself. I may, therefore safely want her though she may belong to a more higher caste of women

2. This is a twice-married( have more than one guy, slay Queens etc,) woman and has been enjoyed by others before me; there is, therefore, no objection to me having some too
3. This woman has gained the heart of her great and powerful partner and exercises mastery over him, who is a friend of my enemy; if, therefore, i succeed in having sex with her and united with me she will cause her husband to abandon my enemies
4. This woman will turn the mind of her partner, who is very powerful, in my favour, he being at present disaffected towards me, and perhaps intent on doing me some harm.
5. By making this woman my "friend or bestie" I shall gain the object, property, business or whatever it is of some friend of mine, or shall be able to effect the ruin of some enemy, or shall accomplish some other difficult purpose.
6. By being united with this woman, I shall kill her husband, and so obtain his vast riches which I covet
7. The union with this woman “is not attended with any danger, and will bring me wealth, of which, on account of my poverty and inability to support myself, I am very much in need. I shall therefore obtain her vast riches in this way without any difficulty.
8. This woman loves me ardently, and knows all my weak points; if therefore, I am unwilling to be united with her, she will make my faults public, and thus tarnish my character and reputation. Or she will bring some gross accusation against me, of which it may be hard to clear myself, and I shall be ruined. Or perhaps she will detach from me her partner who is powerful, and yet under her control, and will
9. The partner of this woman has violated the chastity/right/honour of my woman I shall therefore return that injury by seducing his own
10. By the help of this woman I shall kill an enemy of a king(vice versa a rich or powerful man) who has taken shelter with her, and whom I am ordered by the another powerful or rich man or king to destroy
11. Someone I love is under the control of this woman. I shall, through the influence of the latter, be able to get at the former. For these and similar other reasons the wives of other men may be resorted to, but it must be distinctly understood that is only allowed for special reasons, and not for mere carnal desire.. Canal desires is what makes you feel like a sinner or feel detest after the act itself. Sex is an accomplishment of desires, before the act a woman desires towards you is low while yours as a man is high, subsequently later on, a woman desires gets higher while the man own gets lower, unless you both belong to a different class, this not by social status but by your prowess as their are 3 types of classes of union “the hare man, the bull man, and the horse man, according to the size of his John Thomas , woman also, according to the depth of her kitty kitty, is either a female deer, a mare, or a female elephant” unfortunately some failed marriages, unhappy relationships are all symptoms of simply not understanding this. There are many more that I can talk about but hope this helps in depths enough as I do not know how old you are, but hope this helps