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Quinn22:
And if you don't have money to open your own business nko? What next?

**laughing in spanish"**
but I think that's why its meant for tough people, see, there has never been money, even if someone dash u one million naira today and a business idea of 200k comes in, there will still not be money because that's when excuses will come,"what is the probability of me getting the money back sef" "what if the business crashes" AND off you go, to BLOW it out as usual, but I can give you testimonies of people who even borrowed just to start a business and today, their creditor back then is their employee today, that's what makes the difference, ma

eezeribe:
I am happy that Robert Kiyosaki has inspired you...
I will choose financial intelligence over intelligence quotient,any day,any time.
If you need more of his books(15 in number),Holla at me(free of charge).

Big boss abeg, help me send am, pls, my gmail is generalasam@gmail.com

ismart:
I am almost done selling a product i bought for 35k, 25 pcs and making me 180k in return. Next is to buy 50 pcs and rinse again. I was hinted last night that someone wants 76pcs of the said product and if all goes well, I would be 300k richer when the deal is sealed and delivered. When you tell people they think you are talking nonsense.

Pls enlighten me sir. I promise to be loyal...show me the way!***winks***

jordanriverz:
i know but, you know how it feels when u love someone deeply....its hard to let go

but what do u do when the guy doesn't esteem u the way u love him, see. U had better thank God that this happened and move on. See, I am a guy and I can tell u specifically that there is no way I can love a woman without letting her know my house, not to even talk of a a two year relationship, by know h shud av known his relatives and the important people on his life but how will u, when u don't even know where he sleeps, see!...that guy(His actions portray him as a guy not a MAN) is not worth your love, Package it for someone who will be willing to sacrifice everything he has for YOU.

mployer:
And who told you that is the criteria for God's mercy in marriage?

IT IS. God will never overlook or entertain immorality from any of his children, he wont beg u not to break the virginity but the fact that u broke it meant u've asked him to go to hell and you don't care about his instructions, its only when the going gets tough after marriage that u will call upon him and only to realize there is blood on your hands.....If u said it is not?. Will God turn a blind eye to sin?. Will you still call on him after doing that and expect him to answer?..am referring to Christians here, and any married Christian, Godly lady can testify to this, so its beta u keep shut if u don't understand what am talking about

IT IS. God will never overlook or entertain immorality from any of his children, he wont beg u not to break the virginity but the fact that u broke it meant u've asked him to go to hell and you don't care about his instructions, its only when the going gets tough after marriage that u will call upon him and only to realize there is blood on your hands.....If u said it is not?. Will God turn a blind eye to sin?. Will you still call on him after doing that and expect him to answer?..am referring to Christians here, and any married Christian, Godly lady can testify to this, so its beta u keep shut if u don't understand what am talking about

with respect, You missed number 5,6,7,8,9,10 and 11 outrightly.....our moral values are on the verge of dying already, encourage our girls to maintain some purity, what you just wrote up there can frustrate someone and God wont take it lightly with you.
I stand with ladies maintaining their virginity anytime, any day...I wonder how the mods can even move this to frontpage self....what perception do you want us to have about nairaland, then?

Geraldyne:
Hi,
I've been single since my first relationship turned toxic and recently I met a guy, a student like me who's so into me...we got talking and I found out dat we have a lot in common and a relationship might work for us..we were friends for over a month till he recently asked me out which I accepted since I like him already...he's nice,loving and caring...
Fast forward to two nights ago, he called and said he had something important to tell me about himself, that he's so in love with me and don't wanna get hurt when I get to leave him if I found out that ugly part of him, I got scared and told him to meet me up and tell me face to face which he did last night, he said he's a very deadly cultist and has killed a lot of people who stood in his way,he also said that he's a Lord or whatever and said many creepy things that scared me..he showed me d marks all over his back and I got goosebumps instantly,he was crying while saying this and I cried too..
I told him that I'll see him later and I've been dodging his calls since,had to leave school early today so he won't see me..
Right now,I have a lotta things running through my mind and am confused..
Should I continue this relationship knowing that am dealing with a deadly cultist or should I quit while it's still early??
fellow nairalanders help me

Thanks..

OK.....since u are now asking for advice..I will ask u some questions
Do u one day dream of living a decent life?
How important are the steps u are taking now towards the above question to u?
Have u gotten to your last bus stop in life
Are you through with your purposes on earth?
Are u willing to abort everything u have planned to become one day and follow this GUY all in the name of love.. knowing the end can be disastrous apart from the guy's enemies using you as a bait to catch him...if the guy successfully graduates..remember u guys will marry each other on DAT o, you will give birth to children o..there is a sure probability this guy smokes, drinks, womanizes and will even most likely turn you to a punch bag someday
I understand that u may be in some kind of fix right now but......My dear COUNT THE COSTS...and don't make the mistake of forcing yourself to continue the relationship because u don't know what the guy can do to you if opt out of the relationship.. pls don't do it..its tantamount to suicide..my final charge to u is if u know you won't be able to continue the relationship again...then turn a new leaf...when the guy sees that u are now morally and GODly sound(advancement in the love and knowledge of God)..that will tell him that u av migrated from his class...and so he won't be able to do anything to u again...How close are you to God....try to be more CLOSER..then u will be able to break the relationship else...u will always find yourself where you took off... what can distance him from u(relations with u) now is that u exhibit some characters that are against his personality.
Shalom.

FTC....nice development...

izicooo:
You would have told us the course you intend applying for in the university but i think a D7 in mathematics for most art courses is Ok but hope you don't have courses like Economics and accounting in mind.

Am very sorry for that, but perhaps you rushed through the post, sir....I said LAW!

bufness:
well well i also had d7 in maths and am a law student, in osun state university, if u can afford a school fee o 125k nd hostel fee of 60k per session, plus a very boring environment

Can u pls specify the year, sir

Guru9ja:
Yeah!! Sure osun state university

a law lecturer from that same uni told me they don't but everyone just keep telling me to try uniosun. don't know if the man is lying tho'

WoodcrestMayor:
Study your jamb brochure...I got in with a D7 in mathematic cos it was stated as acceptable in the jamb brochure.
Wrote Waec again (this time a C in maths)but the result is just in a folder...not had cause to use it.

yea, I did. Only to be informed by a student of that school that the school doesnt accept it. After I got to know from jamb brochure that the school does

Excelboi:
The Christians in our set then, I don't know if they did or had Islamic in their waec but somehow they coped when they got admission. Studying common and Islamic law doesnt mean that all the courses is majorly Islamic. Infact 60% of our courses was Common law courses. Refer to the jamb brochure for further guidance on the requirement... I could have helped if I was still in school.

that's the part that got me scared.........

lalasticlala....please help us move thus to front page, sir
emyo...please, let's have your say,Sir
will KSU accept D7 in.maths for a law aspirant or is maths even among the required subjects at all

Please is D7/ in maths allowed for a law candidate

Excelboi:
They will. They have various types of law. Sharia law, civil law... Opt for civil law.

as far as abu is concerned..am still doubting if they will accept it considering the fact that I dont know anyone there.
but I am 100% sure that Buk does only to hear that I will have to study islamic law along with it left me broken

Excelboi:
Common Law got you covered. It's a rare privilege to study double hons in Law. We had Christian among us then... Abt two of them. No big deal

you know that's a double problem sir
how will I get the credit in islamic studies that among the requirements
2. how will o cope after the admission, attending a class where we'll be taught Arabic and the various things that makes sharia law

[quote author=Excelboi post=54915381]Why don't you opt for mass comm then? You can also try ABU Zaria. I don't think they require Islamic studies for their civil law. [/quote
they don't but am still in doubts as to whether they accept it or not

Excelboi:
Who told u Arabic is required? There requirement is Lit and Islamic, Govt or history. Inclusive of English... Yeah it's combined honours.

I am just worried of what the implications might be later in the future I think u understand?

Excelboi:
Who told u Arabic is required? There requirement is Lit and Islamic, Govt or history. Inclusive of English... Yeah it's combined honours.

that's it Sir u just mentioned Islamic studies now and I didn't offer that, Instead, i offered Christian religious studies

cc olawalebabs, fynestboi, richiez pls help us move this to front page

Excelboi:
Bayero University, Kano

Infact, I would have been through with my jamb registration now till I was told that BUK offers combined law(the combination of Islamic and civil law) and being a christian..I can't go for such not to talk of meeting the requirement which includes a credit in arabic

Excelboi:
Ofcourse you can get admission for Law or Mass Comm with D7, but depends on the Uni. I also had D7 in maths, though I applied tru D.E.... Now I'm done with Uni about to be a lawyer.

please kindly specify the uni, sir

fineyemi:
wow!!!! D7 in maths is OK for art student. In fact my sister is studying law in the university and she has D7 in maths. U shouldn't be scared anymore. Go ahead and apply for jamb and choose either mass com or law. You are good to go with D7 in maths

which uni is that, Sir and by the way, which year did she gained the admission?

Hello, N'landers. I plan to apply for utme next week but there is this weakness in my olevel result and its that I have pass(D7) in maths. I have been making some research lately about universities that accept an art student with D7 in math and the students of those uni have been telling me that their school don't accept and the likes even contrary to what jamb brochure stipulated.
I plan to register for law tho' or even if I will need to change the course. I just want to know how things are.
Eminent Nairalanders, Please, help a brother!!!

Hello, N'landers. I plan to apply for utme next week but there is this weakness in my olevel result and its that I have pass(D7) in maths. I have been making some research lately about universities that accept an art student with D7 in math and the students of those uni have been telling me that their school don't accept and the likes even contrary to what jamb brochure stipulated.
I plan to register for law tho' or even if I will need to change the course. I just want to know how things are.
Eminent Nairalanders, Please, help a brother!!!

never overlook the nature and root of the matter at hand,every other things like the hugs and smile that comes shud only remind u of the inevitable that is predominant and is the Reality.
I have passed thru those kind of situations and i dnt even wish it on my worst enemy.
times when your own dad treats u like an alien far from being a human being not to even talk of being one of his own belly.

accountbalance:
Am happy for you. I am glad you are now fine. I saw your last post where you mentioned your hubby was happy about the baby too.

Please you guys should stop your advice, OP is okay with her man ooooo.

I believe you should delete this thread as it has done it's purpose. Except you still need it for any other reasons, which I don't think it's necessary.

Kindly move on with your life and be happy with your man and your baby.

Lobatan!...Na So my yoruba peepz dey talk

Here's my plan:
*inform your mum about this, open up the whole issue to her just as it is, she should be able to help you.
let her know about the whole issue too,you never can know how great the succour she can offer you when all strings gets loosed
*Adjust your financial capacity, add your baby's expenses to yours and look for something to engage yourself with that can take care of that, i'll recommend two ways:
one,
*Go into business, build that diligently and slowly now with whatever money you have at hand and watch it grow ahead of the time when junior will have been a big boy OR
*Rearrange your CVs and trust God to gain employment in a good company with an awesome pay.
*Move on with your life.
*Knowing that either junior stays with you or Grandma, you can always live a happy life and this time, you will tread with wisdom.

To begin with,i appreciate the op's courage and maturity, it's not easy being faced with such an hellish situation and have people spur insultive words all over you in the name of trying to get advice on NL.
my advice to the op is to brace up and BE PREPARED because a time is coming when the baby will be around. the question that should be asked is what will happen when the baby finally comes and the guy has to face the reality of catering for the family?, will he be there to support you or look back at how he was at the beginning(innocent and burden-less with no form of responsibility whatsoever) and then turn back at you with a fierce bite, lamenting how you brought him into this knowing he was broke at the start and all those issues.
Dear,the truth is, you CAN'T go through that hell, i've been there and i know what its like, just imagine how his reaction to you will be two years from now if you go ahead with him along with that killing look he'll give you whenever he remember the other lady.