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Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Online Paid Surveys-do They Work? by GeneraVieve: 3:15pm On Nov 02, 2023
weezydee:

Zap Surveys
Cash Camel
Survey Spring Cash
Good afternoon...pls like how much can one make from this site
Crime / Re: I Have Been Passing Through Hell Because Of My Mum...your Advice Is Needed by GeneraVieve: 11:24am On May 14, 2023
TsbAfrica:
this question is strong abeg I am a Capricorn and I can relate with OP so why did you ask abeg ... I need to check sontin... Becasue e be like Capricorn come collect gbas gbos for woman hand.

Op focus, no let another person talk scatter road for your eyes .... FOCUS!!!! When e pure your mama go carry your talk go AIT dey sing your praise... FOCUS!!
Please can you explain what a Capricorn is?
Crime / Re: I Have Been Passing Through Hell Because Of My Mum...your Advice Is Needed by GeneraVieve: 11:23am On May 14, 2023
YoungBlackRico:
Your only mistake was going back home after service. That was a grave mistake
That was my biggest mistake,I regret coming here.

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Crime / Re: I Have Been Passing Through Hell Because Of My Mum...your Advice Is Needed by GeneraVieve: 11:14am On May 14, 2023
Victor2707:
Your mother loves you, and you are too emotional.

You are comfortable in her house.

Leave her house.

Get a menial job.

Rent a room with what you salary can afford, and start from there.

You are alone in this world.

No one will help you.

You must to learn to survive on your own.
You call this love? Do you know they are people that would have been pushed to go into crime because of this pressure she is mounting on me. I have something doing that is giving me small money. I have savings, I plan on starting small business soon that will increase my earnings,I am learning some skills. Why is she giving me pressure,she wants me to be a millionaire overnight. If it was that easy let her make the millions.
I would understand her if there is work out there that once you apply they employ you immediately and start paying you 200k. If I should go back to my work of 25k she will not let me rest.

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Crime / Re: I Have Been Passing Through Hell Because Of My Mum...your Advice Is Needed by GeneraVieve: 11:06am On May 14, 2023
PoliteActivist:


I really felt for you reading this. I can tell it is authentic, not all these stories people make up here.
I want you to bear this in mind: every great person goes through a period like this. You also go through a period when someone or circumstances or shame will try to throw you off a path you know in your mind is your path to success. It is your defining moment. Your mum means well - she wants to nag you into taking risks, into doing something big. But it is people like her that cause people to carry drugs or such and end up in jail. Use her nagging as motivating fuel, but also guard against people like her. Maybe NLFPMod will move to FP for more advice.
Thank you very much for this,I really appreciate. My mum doesn't mean well for me at all,even if I should get a job of 150k,she will still complain that it will take time for me to buy a car,I don't know if she has wants me to go illegal, imagine comparing me with a my relative that is into fraud. What pains me the most,is that she is a leader in one of church programs and she preaches about being good and avoiding crimes. I have stopped going to the program bcus I don't like hypocrites.
All that is in my mind is to hustle harder and leave here soon. After that I will cut all ties with her.

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Crime / Re: I Have Been Passing Through Hell Because Of My Mum...your Advice Is Needed by GeneraVieve: 8:53pm On May 13, 2023
Ofemmanu1:


Are you a Capricorn?
I don't get you
Crime / Re: I Have Been Passing Through Hell Because Of My Mum...your Advice Is Needed by GeneraVieve: 8:24pm On May 13, 2023
Ofemmanu1:


Where is your dad?
He died four years ago
Crime / Re: I Have Been Passing Through Hell Because Of My Mum...your Advice Is Needed by GeneraVieve: 8:23pm On May 13, 2023
Aigbedion141:
Bro, You are a man!
Listen and listen very good, whatsoever situation you find yourself that crumbles or diminish your self esteem or reputation should be fought against.

Do not be draged down by situations, rather it should be seen as a tool for motivation.

There is limit to what people can do in your life. By people I mean family & friends.

Leave her house and Chase a life. and please note you are still on a wrong track.

You can't acquire does skills at once with the way you are planning to learn it, rather focus on one.

Believe me they are all lucrative.
Choose one of the skills, find a mentor, learn from him, be an expert, build a name and a brand..

Then enjoy...
Thanks for the motivating words and your suggestion,I think I will focus on python now,then learn video editing later. Thanks once again.

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Crime / Re: I Have Been Passing Through Hell Because Of My Mum...your Advice Is Needed by GeneraVieve: 8:03pm On May 13, 2023
RoadMozart:
I'm sorry for all you've passed thru. I know how hard it is for fresh graduates there and I know what they face back at home.

My advice for you is to disappear for a while. All your mom needs is space. You can travel to see some family members and friends outside the town and from there lookout for something better.

Anyway, would you mind if I sent you an email?
I would soon disappear,and I will be gone from her life forever,what I have seen at the hands of my mom,my enemies won't show me. I couldn't state all my experience in order not to make it long. I remember then when I had no work,she uses food to punish me,maybe if there is plate to wash,I have a young bro that is suppose to do that o,she would punish me for it. I would go to bed hungry. By the grace of God I would complete the money for rent by next month.
You can send the mail

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Crime / Re: I Have Been Passing Through Hell Because Of My Mum...your Advice Is Needed by GeneraVieve: 7:58pm On May 13, 2023
eTen94:
Stay strong and stay focus, God will surely see you through
Thanks

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Crime / Re: I Have Been Passing Through Hell Because Of My Mum...your Advice Is Needed by GeneraVieve: 7:57pm On May 13, 2023
WhereMyLoud:
This too shall pass. Tough times dont last but tough people do. God will visit you soon in Jesus name. Amen

The skills you are trying to acquire are very valuable and will help you in the future.
Thank you very much. I know God will do more,he has started already,by his grace I will overcome and I will tell it as a story one day.

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Crime / I Have Been Passing Through Hell Because Of My Mum...your Advice Is Needed by GeneraVieve: 7:11pm On May 13, 2023
Good evening nairalanders
Please I need advice,I have been going through emotional and psychological trauma at the hands of my mum,neglect my mistakes please.
I finished school last two years and went for service after service,I came back home to try and get a job but couldn't. After trying for months without success,I decided to try on this jobs that pay low like pos,barman,security,etc. Luckily for me I got one that requires selling travelling bag. I started it even though the pay was small. When I told my mum about it,she asked about the pay and I told her,she said I should quit it. I told her I can't since I don't have any other job,she started insulting me that how will a graduate be collecting 25k. I told her it is just for the mean time that something better will come out. She insulted me and called my elder siblings and they too insulted me. Note before I got this job,I was facing insults from every corner bcus I was jobless,then I didn't have 100# to buy card and If I ask my mum she will insult the living out of me. I have lost count of the times she called me a corpse.
So I started working and I started using salary to do some biz and I was able to to raise good money from last year till now.
I had to stop work because it was stressful and I didn't have time for other things. So for about two months I don't go to work. I started learning python,Forex and video editing. I dedicate some hours to each of them everyday. My mum started complaining that I should go and find work that how would I stay at home from morning till night,I explained to her that I am looking at the future,skills I can learn that will be beneficial to me later in life and not stressing myself for 25k. She started complaining,telling me that my mates are riding cars, building house and getting married. I told her that I will achieve all this soon. Recently my relative who is 2years younger than me,a guy of 21 bought an expensive bike and decorated his apartment,my mum will always compare me to him . She will say he is ambitious and I am not. This guy is into fraud and she knows it.
Something happened recently that has kept me indoors and I don't know if I can ever go out because of shame. My mom came back from work and started shouting loudly(she always does that so everyone around will hear) that I don't work and she is tired of feeding me(I feed myself and sometimes buy foodstuff for the house). That I am lazy,that I sit around the house doing nothing,that I should pack my things and go. That I must leave the house. I came to her and was trying to calm her,she said I should stop telling her to keep quiet.i went to my room and started playing gospel song,she came in and started shouting that I am playing song for her,that I should go to my own house. I have been ashamed and can't even leave the house because everybody heard all she was saying. Nobody knows what I am passing through bcus I hardly discuss with people. I am an Introvert.
It is only God that has kept me going,I have begged my mum to just give me latest July I would have gotten enough money to leave. It hasn't been easy, I have thought of taking my life because the shame is too much. I cant walk with my head up. She lies and gossips about me to our neighbours. I don't know what I did to her to be getting all this. Most times I just stay and shed tears. I just need prayers from you guys. Please pray for me,all this would soon end by God's grace.

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Religion / Re: Man Requests For Past Tithe Donations To Dunamis Church (video) by GeneraVieve: 10:42am On Feb 10, 2023
Gastrocnemius:
To be candid, I usually reason this thing sef.

Some people will suffer on earth and still end up in hell. They might have lived a righteous life but one silly mistake will end them up in the bottomless pit.

What about one should enjoy his/her life on earth to the fullest and know for sure he will end up in hell. At even, you will not lose at both ends
My brother which enjoyment person wan enjoy for earth. There is no enjoyment here on earth,what may seem like enjoyment to you isnt really enjoyment,strive to make heaven at all cost. It isnt difficult at all,every commandment of God is for our own good.

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Phones / Re: Items For Sale by GeneraVieve: 4:18pm On Jan 26, 2023
Aleem26:
Location?
Lagos
Phones / Items For Sale by GeneraVieve: 2:46pm On Jan 26, 2023
Play station 2 slim(all accessories except memory card).....15k

Play station 2 fat(all accessories,14games,two pads)....15k

Dstv extra view(two decoders,you can watch different channels)... 20k

Standing fan....12k
Romance / This Girl Has Been Disturbing Me,what Should I Do by GeneraVieve: 9:04pm On Jan 22, 2023
I have a business i am running currently in lagos,but i want to expand it so that i can increase my daily profit. The problem now is that i have no money to expand as i spent heavily to set up the place and running it. I spend daily on fuel bcus my area lacks light most of the time. I even spend on repairs and other things. I havent used loan apps before and i dont know if they will give me the amount i need since it is my first time.
I have heard about some microfinance banks that give loan like lapo but i have also read some negative reviews about them. I dont know if it will wise to try them out. I can repay the loan since i make profit daily and more on weekends. I just want to expand my business so that i can get more profit from it. Please if you have idea how the loan thing works with lapo kindly share. Or if you know any other better way i can access a loan.
Thanks
Sorry about the subject

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Nairaland / General / Re: Happy New Year 2023 Nairalanders by GeneraVieve: 12:13am On Jan 01, 2023
Happy new year everyone.
God did it

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Family / Re: House Clearance Sales.. Come In Here!!!! by GeneraVieve: 3:49pm On Dec 30, 2022
olamilarks:
your contact?
Which of the items do you need
Technology Market / Items For Sale by GeneraVieve: 8:19am On Dec 30, 2022
43inches LG tv......60k

30inches tv......30k

Playstation 2(13games with all accessories).....13k

Location lagos

Serious buyers only.
Family / Re: House Clearance Sales.. Come In Here!!!! by GeneraVieve: 7:12am On Dec 30, 2022
4lorunsho:



Is it smart ?
60k for smart?
Family / Re: House Clearance Sales.. Come In Here!!!! by GeneraVieve: 8:52pm On Dec 29, 2022
kyinusa:




Drop Ur contact
Which of the items do you need
Sports / Re: Pele Is Dead by GeneraVieve: 8:03pm On Dec 29, 2022
Rip
Family / Re: House Clearance Sales.. Come In Here!!!! by GeneraVieve: 7:28pm On Dec 29, 2022
Olumighty123:


Sell the ps2 for 10k

Modified: I'm the guy that called you, maza maza is a long way from me, try and consider
Chat me up lets talk better
Family / Re: House Clearance Sales.. Come In Here!!!! by GeneraVieve: 5:49pm On Dec 29, 2022
GAZZUZZ:


Remove the receipt how much?
It is 55k last
Family / Re: House Clearance Sales.. Come In Here!!!! by GeneraVieve: 5:49pm On Dec 29, 2022
edoman2016:

I am interested in the 43inch LG tv. Where is ur location bro? And ur phone number to contact you. Serious buyer
I stay in festac lagos...09013065727
Family / Re: House Clearance Sales.. Come In Here!!!! by GeneraVieve: 5:25pm On Dec 29, 2022
43inches lg tv for sale.....60k(comes with receipt)

32inches tv for sale......30k

Fat ps2 console(13games with all accessories)....13k

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Family / Re: House Clearance Sales.. Come In Here!!!! by GeneraVieve: 6:51am On Dec 29, 2022
alsheex:


Let's see the play station. Where is the location
Chat me up 09013065727,location is maza maza lagos
Family / Re: House Clearance Sales.. Come In Here!!!! by GeneraVieve: 6:44am On Dec 29, 2022
Olumighty123:


Slim or fat? Where's your location?
Fat.location is maza maza
Family / Re: House Clearance Sales.. Come In Here!!!! by GeneraVieve: 10:15pm On Dec 28, 2022
Olumighty123:


Games dey installed on the ps2?
Yeah 13 games

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