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gentle1010:
For months now my fiance has been behaving strange, and I'm bothered, whenever I ask her she says nothing is wrong, sometimes she ignore me, sometimes she act so good and loving. Two days ago, I woke her @ the middle of the night so that we'll talk, to persuade her to tell me what's wrong with her, I told her to sit she refused, I insisteds she must sit down to enable us talk, that I'v been in emotional trauma for months. I refused she'll sleep & pulled her up wheneva she tried to sleep, yet she kept silence on me, the next morning she prepared for work and I locked the door that she'll not go unless she tell me why she torture me psychologically, next she calld her co-worker, she came and insulted me & they both left. She came back later in the evening & told me its over between us, all my efforts to bring her back proved abortive. I love her so much, what should I do?

Please anyone that can help me with a nice strategy, not just 2 win her back, but to know the full gist and advice me should pls add me 08032958661 / 20C7F10D

LadyX:
The first step is to know how you offended her. Talk to someone she's close to, like her friend or sister to know what's wrong.

Are you physically violent towards her? Like have you beaten her before? Maybe it's because you bully her that why she's refusing to tell you because she knows how you will react.

I pet her like mad & I don't beat a woman 4 any reason, though I acted violent but didn't beat her, I was pushed to the wall and that's all I would ever do. She is just a strong hearted type shaa

For months now my fiance has been behaving strange, and I'm bothered, whenever I ask her she says nothing is wrong, sometimes she ignore me, sometimes she act so good and loving. Two days ago, I woke her @ the middle of the night so that we'll talk, to persuade her to tell me what's wrong with her, I told her to sit she refused, I insisteds she must sit down to enable us talk, that I'v been in emotional trauma for months. I refused she'll sleep & pulled her up wheneva she tried to sleep, yet she kept silence on me, the next morning she prepared for work and I locked the door that she'll not go unless she tell me why she torture me psychologically, next she calld her co-worker, she came and insulted me & they both left. She came back later in the evening & told me its over between us, all my efforts to bring her back proved abortive. I love her so much, what should I do?

Cutehector:
lol d girl is not here to gv her side of d story.

Heaven will bear me witness, even when I tried to have heart to heart talk with her she ignores me

klark3:
My guy u do all these things! Chaiii!!! dat b!tch bad, it's not ur fault, it's love.

I guess she's your first love. Pls let her go, I knw it's gonna be hard, but I can guide u on how to go abt it, cause u will definitely experience d breaking out pain, because u truly love her & after this u'll be d real man God created u to be....

I still can't fathom why God created that emotion called love, when he had already made man d head, because being d head really don't work when deeply in love.

For how long have u guys been dating?

1yr plus

rokiatu:
Whip some sense in her brain, show her who's boss. Am not asking you to beat her, but beat her emotionally. Love is nothing without respect.

No matter how much you love a woman don't allow disrespect.

Frankly speaking I excluded so many things in that post because I'm too ashamed of myself. I help her wash her clothes some times, cook for her or help her cook. That same job I got for her I back her up too, I don't let work to be much on her, I help her almost in everything, emotionally and otherwise. I pleaded with her to tell me she is tired if she is than maltreating me.

I'm 29, in love and have been dating a lady of 25, we met during our NYSC, we love each other and plan to get married. The problem here is that I've not gotten a job but I've been making little money through my hard work as a technician, both in computer and electrical, I got her a small job where she earns 20k, rent house for her and still manage to give her small small money for her up keep. I give her all the natural respects a woman deserves. The problem now is that she doesn't respect me, she take me for granted, doesn't care about how I feel. If she offend me and I try to talk to her about that, she'll ignore me to the core. I'm confused, I don't know what is happening and I've built my life all around her. Please advice me on what to do