Cutehector:
Take her to a nice restaurant, buy her a good food or u can take her somewhr nice, den later bleep her and just after, tell her to get out of ur house.

Raise Your Words, Not Your Voice. It Is Rain That Grows Flowers, Not Thunder..

gentle1010:


Frankly speaking I excluded so many things in that post because I'm too ashamed of myself. I help her wash her clothes some times, cook for her or help her cook. That same job I got for her I back her up too, I don't let work to be much on her, I help her almost in everything, emotionally and otherwise. I pleaded with her to tell me she is tired if she is than maltreating me.

My guy u do all these things! Chaiii!!! dat b!tch bad, it's not ur fault, it's love.

I guess she's your first love. Pls let her go, I knw it's gonna be hard, but I can guide u on how to go abt it, cause u will definitely experience d breaking out pain, because u truly love her & after this u'll be d real man God created u to be....

I still can't fathom why God created that emotion called love, when he had already made man d head, because being d head really don't work when deeply in love.

For how long have u guys been dating?

klark3:

My guy u do all these things! Chaiii!!! dat b!tch bad, it's not ur fault, it's love.

I guess she's your first love. Pls let her go, I knw it's gonna be hard, but I can guide u on how to go abt it, cause u will definitely experience d breaking out pain, because u truly love her & after this u'll be d real man God created u to be....

I still can't fathom why God created that emotion called love, when he had already made man d head, because being d head really don't work when deeply in love.

For how long have u guys been dating?

1yr plus

Op I feel your pain mehnn, I was once in your shoes a few months ago... That girl doesn't deserve your DUMB? as, I called you DUMB because ur case worse.. How u go wash clothes for babe U dey mad ni? abi na love come dey shack you??

Okay.. To the matter, a girl will only start taking you for granted when there's someone who she's feeling elsewhere. It won't be easy because me think she's your first love from your story, but you just have to let her go. There are better and matured ladies out there who will appreciate you for who you are, ain't no time to waste pleasing one asshole anymore

PS: Never accept her back if she comes begging ooo

gentle1010:
I'm 29, in love and have been dating a lady of 25, we met during our NYSC, we love each other and plan to get married. The problem here is that I've not gotten a job but I've been making little money through my hard work as a technician, both in computer and electrical, I got her a small job where she earns 20k, rent house for her and still manage to give her small small money for her up keep. I give her all the natural respects a woman deserves. The problem now is that she doesn't respect me, she take me for granted, doesn't care about how I feel. If she offend me and I try to talk to her about that, she'll ignore me to the core. I'm confused, I don't know what is happening and I've built my life all around her. Please advice me on what to do

That's how gals behave when they are double dating, u simply don't know this fact

gentle1010:
I'm 29, in love and have been dating a lady of 25, we met during our NYSC, we love each other and plan to get married. The problem here is that I've not gotten a job but I've been making little money through my hard work as a technician, both in computer and electrical, I got her a small job where she earns 20k, rent house for her and still manage to give her small small money for her up keep. I give her all the natural respects a woman deserves. The problem now is that she doesn't respect me, she take me for granted, doesn't care about how I feel. If she offend me and I try to talk to her about that, she'll ignore me to the core. I'm confused, I don't know what is happening and I've built my life all around her. Please advice me on what to do

she is trying to move on
she is just looking for ways to break up with you
watch it

Take her for granted too gan. Hia.

Cutehector:
what insolence she chop winch? After all d guy did for her, if na me I go gang rape am. Nonsense.

. Don't u think u r rather too harsh on the said girl judging only from the op's side of the story. He may not be completely sincere abt the whole thing like the poster above u have stated.

queencalipso:
. Don't u think u r rather too harsh on the said girl judging only from the op's side of the story. He may not be completely sincere abt the whole thing like the poster above u have stated.

lol d girl is not here to gv her side of d story.

Cutehector:
lol d girl is not here to gv her side of d story.

Heaven will bear me witness, even when I tried to have heart to heart talk with her she ignores me

gentle1010:

Heaven will bear me witness, even when I tried to have heart to heart talk with her she ignores me

she got other man
Time will tell
watch it

gentle1010:

Heaven will bear me witness, even when I tried to have heart to heart talk with her she ignores me

my broda, some ladies are witches. Forget her.

Cutehector:
my broda, some ladies are witches. Forget her.

she is not a witch just looking out for her best interest
Women !!!!!!!

Look at what people are saying here in the name of advice, he wash cloth, cook n help her cook, etc pls what's wrong about that? The guy is a typical gentle man and every woman deserves that kind of man, just that they are careless and always blind to see true love, they prefer men that take them for shit, beats them up, play around n mks them cry always. I've not seen people as stupid as 90% of ladies, gosh! A man any good thinking woman would be praying for, with such a guy a happi home is guaranteed.
Bro, take heart, I sense a break up, she wants to leave you simply because of your low pocket. But try hanging out with other ladies and forget her before she finaly strikes. Pls don't change who u are, who kws your worth will arrive soon and you'll smile agn

gentle1010:
I'm 29, in love and have been dating a lady of 25, we met during our NYSC, we love each other and plan to get married. The problem here is that I've not gotten a job but I've been making little money through my hard work as a technician, both in computer and electrical, I got her a small job where she earns 20k, rent house for her and still manage to give her small small money for her up keep. I give her all the natural respects a woman deserves. The problem now is that she doesn't respect me, she take me for granted, doesn't care about how I feel. If she offend me and I try to talk to her about that, she'll ignore me to the core. I'm confused, I don't know what is happening and I've built my life all around her. Please advice me on what to do

This means you are about to get dumped.

That's what happens to guys who take on ladies responsibilities that are not theirs because of "Boyfriend Status". Like they say, Nice guys don't last. It's worse for nice and foolish guys!