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Family / Re: My Wife Wants Me To Beg For Intercourse by ginaolo(m): 11:34pm On Apr 16, 2020 |
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Family / Re: My Awkward Fiancé by ginaolo(m): 8:02pm On Jan 01, 2020 |
What do I do please? doitforyou: |
Family / Re: My Awkward Fiancé by ginaolo(m): 7:59pm On Jan 01, 2020 |
So how do I change my mindset? GuestLog: |
Family / Re: My Awkward Fiancé by ginaolo(m): 7:54pm On Jan 01, 2020 |
You don’t understand I love her very much I just don’t know if we are compatible socially. That is the only fault with her. But I didn’t know if this fault will be so huge to the extent that it will affect our marriage . She has social anxiety to the extreme. Very extreme. GuestLog: |
Family / Re: My Awkward Fiancé by ginaolo(m): 7:39pm On Jan 01, 2020 |
She’s fine when around me. But she’s very very awkward around others. It’s very worrying. Xavi2019: |
Family / Re: My Awkward Fiancé by ginaolo(m): 7:33pm On Jan 01, 2020 |
We have been together for a year plus. For how long will this continue? When you marry, in my culture you marry the family and it’s very important that you can relate with each other’s family well. I’m just concerned honestly. HRHQueenPhil: |
Family / My Awkward Fiancé by ginaolo(m): 7:22pm On Jan 01, 2020 |
So i complained about my fiancé some months ago in a different thread. She is super reserved and quiet but I really think it’s going to be a problem despite how much I really really love her. So today as per new year we had family gathering at my friends house, I asked her to come and surprisingly she agreed. One thing I will commend her about is that she has been trying to make an effort to interact more with my family friends despite her social anxiety. So she came, but the whole time she just sat there without even trying to communicate or say anything. I kept on trying to budge her so that she will say a word or two, she tried but she’s just very socially awkward. My family and friends also tried to join her in conversations but she just looked like she didn’t want to be there. We have two very different upbringing, so I think that’s part of why she finds it hard to relate. I know my family will gossip about her and I don’t want her to go through any pain. She’s not a proud girl, she’s just very very quiet around people she doesn’t know. Despite my love for her, should I let her go because of this issue? I’m deeply confused. Please advice me as I want to marry this girl this year. 1 Like 1 Share |
Family / Re: My Wife To Be Is Too Reserved by ginaolo(m): 8:47pm On Oct 13, 2019 |
No I’m thinking she might be too shy to discipline our kids in public maybe. Or she might not be able to stand up for the kids in the future I’m scared of her soft nature, I think people will walk all over her in the future. Simplep: 1 Like |
Family / Re: My Wife To Be Is Too Reserved by ginaolo(m): 3:18pm On Oct 13, 2019 |
I’m being patient but until you are in my shoes you won’t understand. You don’t know the feeling of going to a place where everybody is with their gf and wives and I have to go alone because she wants to stay at home. People are constantly asking you where your gf is, and you have to make excuses all the time. It’s not fair, it’s weighing me down. Pavore9: 5 Likes |
Family / Re: My Wife To Be Is Too Reserved by ginaolo(m): 2:32pm On Oct 13, 2019 |
All I’m trying to say is too much of everything is bad. I want her to loosen up a little, because her nature is worrying Dande55: 6 Likes 1 Share |
Family / Re: My Wife To Be Is Too Reserved by ginaolo(m): 1:46pm On Oct 13, 2019 |
I met her randomly on the road it wasn’t in a social setting. But how do I deal with her not wanting to meet family and friends? It’s disrespectful to me. As a wife you have to be open to meet my family atleast, when they are always asking about her, I can’t keep on making excuses for her na. People think there’s something wrong with my gf even though I’ve told them she is the shy type. ValCon888: 7 Likes 1 Share |
Family / Re: My Wife To Be Is Too Reserved by ginaolo(m): 1:25pm On Oct 13, 2019 |
Bros she can’t even meet my family or friends, she will start misbehaving and panicking as if somebody wants to kill her. This is not normal na and I’ve tried to be patient with her, but her shyness is taking over her. I want someone who will represent me well and someone who will be a good mother to my kids. ValCon888: 23 Likes 3 Shares |
Family / My Wife To Be Is Too Reserved by ginaolo(m): 1:17pm On Oct 13, 2019 |
Hi I’ve been with a lady for some time now but I’m starting to have doubts about this girl. My main concern is that she is too reserved and she doesn’t like to do anything that involves people. I come from a big family unit and she’s always avoiding family get togethers, outings, even to meet my friends and socialise with them is a huge problem. We’ve gone out very few times, she’s met my mum and a few friends, but she avoids meeting them most time. I addressed it to her and she claims she has social anxiety but for how long can I continue like this? All she wants to do is be at home. My family are already starting to get the wrong impression of her and they believe she is proud. I know my older sister is not too fond of her because of her quiet nature and I think this will take a toll on us in the future if we get married. I don’t want a wife that cannot do basic things like go out with me to events or represent me well. I don’t want a wife that will be hiding in the house 24/7. Another thing is that she has some stubborn traits in her. She’s a lovely woman, she’s very kind, compassionate and she motivates me a lot. When she’s around me alone she’s very cool, but when it comes to going out and doing things, she starts acting up. I cannot deal with her shy nature as it’s too much and it’s becoming embarrassing. She’s 24. What do I do please? 26 Likes |
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