Thecuriousone:


I’m never going back but it’s very difficult especially with my last. I has the best and worst relationship with him but I know better than going back.

I don’t understand your last line.

Oh sorry. I mean why don't you get one of your friends to set you up with a guy that they know? They are more likely to be trustworthy that way, because they hopefully won't want to ruin the relationship with their friend also.

Abso1uteZero:
Yup. Its the same in every country really. The average european knows close to nothing about Nigeria etc

Sometimes that's true, but where I grew up we learnt about lots of different countries.

Abso1uteZero:
Why should they teach Nigerian kids American history? Wetin consign pounded yam with macaroni and cheese.

So they know more about the world around them?

KidDarkness:

Are you on any medication? Try yoga for back and shoulder pain. Wearing the wrong bra size will increase the pain

Ah no meds, but sometimes take paracetamol when it's very painful.

That is good advice about yoga, I'll check out some YouTube videos.

It's quite hard to find bras the right size unfortunately

He wasn't ambitious and seemed quite derogatory about women.

KidDarkness:

Try laying down with your back to the bed. Go for frequent massages. I can only imagine how jogging will cause a lot of discomfort

Thank you for your advice. I shall have to enquire about massage parlours. I've never been.

Mandela27:
You're a disguiser

You own a scum bag!

What does that mean, I'm a disguiser?

KidDarkness:

I heard the back problems can hurt like hell. Your health matters. Try not to reduce em' too small. Guys like something we can hold

Yes it's quite painful. Even simple going jogging I'm unable to do .

KidDarkness:

Reducing the good looking, eye popping and beautiful gifts God gave to you is telling Him that He did a bad job.

I think they will still be beautiful if they were smaller and my back didn't hurt so much though.

My clothes also don't fit me correctly. I just don't want them to be so prominent or hurt my back. That's all.

1stbest:
American School or in Nigerian school where teaching history where forbidden

That sucks. Good on you for getting educated.

Mandela27:
it's a sin to use condom because God didn't create it,we're supposed to fvck and give birth-Go to the world be fruitful and multiply!

but it is much worse to abort a whole baby in my humble opinion.

1stbest:
They are native , the natural indigenous of America , not this white peoples you are seeing today.

Correct, they still own a lot of the land too. Do people not get taught this in school?

Thecuriousone:

Different places. Same story. It only gets worse with individuals yet it boils down to the same thing.
I honestly give my all relationships but it feels these guys do not like good girls.
I’ve tried abstaining for a while to see if I am the problem but they keep coming back because they seem not to find my type and suddenly remember how lucky they were but then it’s the end of the road for me with them.

I don’t find it easy to quit but when I do, there’s no going back.

Yes! Don't go back to the guys that hurt you before.

Some men can be terrible, but there are a lot of nice guys out there too!

Can a friend set you up with a guy that they trust maybe?

Seadesh:
they re call red indians

Incorrect, they're called Native Americans

Thecuriousone:


Ok, thanks. I’m a lady BTW

Oh goodness. I'm sorry for assuming. Where are you meeting the guys?

Thecuriousone:

A lot. I’m one that puts in my all when it comes to relationship but it feels like these days guys love the bad girls more

sorry to hear that. Where are you meeting these girls. Maybe try searching them out in different places?

Thecuriousone:
These days I feel so lonely, I miss being loved yet I’m scared to give love a chance once more.

What happened before that has left you weary of love?

Thanks, this seems to be America though. Do you know if there is one in Nigeria?

Also I'd like to go for the reduction to fit into clothes better.

itzvictor219:


What else are you girls after if not money?

A personality
Humour, ambition, passionate about something, kind, Good fearing...

Hi,

I'm wondering if anyone can recommend a surgeon for reduction surgery? My back pain is getting too much!

Can anyone who has had this surgery tell me their experiences?

Thank you in advance.

Arakonedo:
Doctor in the house, pls what drugs that can be used for the treatment of - ( Acidity)
Too much of Acidity my body
Thanks

Were you told you had this?

In your stomach? If so, a Proton pump inhibitor would help. Omeprazole, esomeprazole, lanzoprazole etc.

itzvictor219:
Wait oo but why do girls look down on those that don't have now forgetting that the tomorrow of the said guy can turn for the better

Is not all girls. What else are you bringing to the relationship apart from money?

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. You're probably attracted to people, but you might not have met them yet.

ChildOfDoom:
The breath of life, the fresh air we inhale, the peace of mind, the promise of tomorrow, the experience and advice of elders amongst other things are what we take for granted in our quest for quick wealth, no matter the dubious means.

I have blown my shot at having a free life to think and plan for the future. All I think of is my pending doom. I have lost sleep. How do I raise 250,000 naira within the shortest possible time before WASSCE starts (to pay for the candidates money I gambled with). That way, I am saved from my imminent arrest. I don't want to flee Warri to another place (like I did from Benin due to my indebtedness). I have nothing and no one to rely on elsewhere.

My saving Grace is that WASSCE may be delayed till a month time, due to late registration process for 2021 caused by COVID-19. I will make the most of the days I have left. I hope people learn from my story and thread with caution......

So you were in debt in Benin and now you have done the same where you currently are? Have you learnt nothing? It's very hard for people to give you any funds if they think that you will just do the same again.