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Ricchcream:
Why must you marry before leaving to study overseas? Is it a requirement, or just your brother's suggestion?

I suppose, from your account, that your brother is the one taking care of you, and by extension, your girlfriend, financially. Does he know about her? If he does (which he in fact, should), have you intimated him about latest developments?

Whatever you decide to settle for in the end, don't beg for her love, you will have to keep doing that for the rest of your life with her, if you do.

Take my Advise, I don't need it.

Thanks. I appreciate.

missimelda01:
You only told us the things you did for her, what of the things she did for you?
Did you notice at any point in the relationship that she was acting uninterested?
Marriage is a huge step, did you both have marriage in view while dating?
Parents have huge influence on some people, maybe she's one of them.

In conclusion, it's not advisable to convince someone to marry you.. move on with your life, you'd find someone else who'll feel the same way about you.

She usually give me sex whenever she wants, she also cook for me occasionally, which I cooked more for her.
she also gives me fruits which I did more than that.
In 2019, I noticed she was acting uninterested but went on to tell my male class mate that she has made her mind to be with me while waiting for her parents conclusion.
In the beginning, she was even the person that brought marriage up.

I have not even gone quarter of what I did for her which she usually tells me that she doesn't have any to give me in return.

Johntitus:
Hahahaha... You're your problem. How can you shoulder the responsibilities of a lady you've not married? Sha, no too much money dey shack you.

is not that I have too much money but it that she was my first love! Thanks

milliman:
That's really sad to read but no matter how dark the night gets sun will always shine when the time is right. Let her go there is no compulsion in love you no fit do am but force

Thanks man

My Love Experience

Good day NLanders

I'm a medical student, and gf ( not sure what to call her now) is in MLS. We are both in same level (500l).

It all started in 2015, when we gained admission into the University. We began to read together and subsequently I started teaching her. Later on, she made me to read and susummarize her course topics (which I did for up to her 300 level) for her as she usually found it difficult to read with textbooks and understand the contents.

Months before my 2nd MBBS examinations, I began to notice changes in her attitude and behaviour towards me, up to the point that she told me that if I did not pass that examinations that, she will forget about me. But as God may have it, I passed successfully.

Financially, it started right in year one as I celebrated her and her mummy's Christmas from my own pocket. It got to a point that I usually give her her money almost every day (for up to 5yrs) Whenever, I'm traveling in any of our vacations, I usually give money for upkeep until I'm back.

In 300l, I bought her gift worth almost 30k and also celebrated her birthday which she demanded I get her 'point and kill cat fish' that cost 9k.

I usually pay for her textbooks and seminar work as we are all in medical school, I really do a lot for her, as she always told me she would never leave me right from yr 1 to 500l after which she started telling me, their people from Anambra will not let her marry people from Ebonyi State.

She's has known this for all her life, but decided to bring it up just now, when I'm beginning my marriage plans with her, She's started giving me unnecessary excuses in one form or the other.

In 400L, my elder brother told me that I should leave my medical school here to go and study the same medicine abroad. Because of her, I told him that I want to finish my school here since I am already in 400 level. That after my MBBS degree, I can then go abroad for my Masters degree...

This January, my elder brother told me that since I would be graduating in 2022 (which supposed to be 2021 but due to strike before the 2019 election) which is two years time, that I should be planning to get married before I leave this country.

This made me to ask her again if we are ending up together and she told me that she has to seek for her mother's consent, and would give me a feedback.

Before, she travelled (this is just before the lock down) as she was complaining that she does not have any money on her to eat and she want to go and learn how to plait hair which will cost her #8,000, I gave her #16,000. The next day after collecting the money, she told me that she received a call from her mother that she must come back to her State and she travelled with that money without learning anything.

Yesterday by 8:24pm, I called her to tell me the outcome of her mother's discussion with her. She told me that her mother insisted that she cannot marry an Ebonyi man, and she cannot go outside her mother's decision.

In conclusion, she told me that she cannot marry me.

Well, as expected, I'm bracing myself up for insults, (I really don't mind this right now) but amidst the insults, pls advice a brother who's fighting emotionally.

thanks

How many months and his baby is learning how to speak already? By the way, good one for him.

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My brothers and sisters is that you
Where are your clothes and shoes?
Where is your car and why are you not in your house?
What about your first and second degree from that big university?
Where is your passport and visa?
Where is your husband or beautiful wife and those lovely kids of yours?
Why aren’t you with your ATM card sir/madam?
Where is your anointing oil,wristband and breast tag?
What happened to your open teeth and dimples?
Where is your iPhone 11 Pro Max � and Samsung galaxy fold�?
Where is your bank statement and deposit alert?
What happened to your hairstyle ?
What happened to your Brazilian hair?
What happened to your sexy clothes?
What happened to your Coca-Cola bottle shape?
When last did you rob cream and what perfume or cologne are you wearing?
When last did you brush your mouth?
Won’t you like to see a movie �?
Wait you mean your protocols and security aren’t here?
Where is your make up and nice nails design?
Where are your spiritual sons and daughters?
What about your spiritual parents?
So you mean you are here alone?
It’s all vanity like King Solomon said.............!
If all you are empowered with is not used for the right reasons......!

Brothers and sisters we can all see that these questions and more others can’t be answered by the end product of flesh who’s new residential address is the grave.....!

Live life with this consciousness and the world � will be a better place void of pride,strife and hatred birthed from envy....!

Love God and love humanity this is all that matters.

amid this critical period that Nigerian citizens are , Mr, president has not been able to do tangible and meaningful thing in order to Better the life of the masses. Imam, thanks for making our president know his worth.