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Millenniumlady:
Use the both guys to your advantage


Keep joe guy for assignments and handout test and other class stuff



While use the new guy for your finances phones,clothes,eateries wigs


And please stay in school hostle that way non of them can bother you with sex cause they can't gain access to girls hostel and you ever visit any of them reduce your sexual conversation with joe guy and learn to keep your phone private.....Hope it helps

As she is going to carry out your advice, she should also get ready for the repercussions. Because gal 6:7

Donshaga:
Most guys don't know how to text girls and spark attraction.

If you're you're among those guys that don't know how to woo women when texting her on WhatsApp or Facebook.

Don't worry man because in this post you'll learn the Top Best Ways to Text Women That Get Her To Like You & What To Text Her In Certain Situation.
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WARNING: This informative post is quite long and not for lazy readers , if you're that type then leave this post now
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Alright... let's roll..

#1 Blame Her For Trying To Seduce You:-

This is an extremely powerful method of texting girls because this buy into that frame of mind and conditions her to start pursuing and chasing you.

Use this technique throughout all of your interactions (including face-to-face) and watch the attraction skyrocket.

Example:
HER:"Guess What!"
YOU: "You want to get me drunk so you can take advantage of me ? You're so naughty :p


HER: “How are you?”
YOU: “what in bed?….jeez you’re too forward! :p”
HER “haha that’s not what I meant!”
YOU: “yeah right...you're so bad”

HER: “Guess What!”
YOU: “Let me guess....you want to grab a drink and get me drunk so you can take advantage of me? You are so bad!!

HER: "Ok , good night, I'm going to bed now"
YOU: "Hey, slow down girl..we just met I can't go to bed with you yet"

#2:Cocky & Funny:-

Women know that cocky guys are usually confident guys. However, cockiness alone can appear rude and arrogant, and most women don’t want to date that type of guy.

Try to mix cockiness with a touch of humor as this is very effective, and will set you apart from the average (needy) guys who try to seek her approval. It also jokingly sets the framework that she is chasing you, which baits her to play along and agree to that role.

YOU : Stop it ..*smiles*
HER: Stop what ?
YOU : "Thinking about me.. you'll get to see me again soon enough"

YOU : "Congratulations!"
HER : "for what?"
YOU : I was just thinking of you . Congratulations

YOU : So are you in love with me yet ?
HER : lol..no we've just met.
YOU: LOL.. You're really good at playing this hard-to-get thing, but just give it a few more days.*smiles*

#3 Bait & Switch
You essentially bait her into thinking that you are saying one thing — like being totally overly into her — and then switch to something else — like teasing her or being cocky.
It's like lowering her attraction for a moment so that you can increase it even higher

Example:
YOU:“I can't stop thinking about...........*smiles*”
HER: “me? ”
YOU: “No. Lollipops. Why would I be thinking about you? jk :p

•I know it’s wrong, I know it’s too early and I know I’m probably being desperate, but I really have to tell you this, I can’t hold it back any longer. You’ll probably think I’m insane, that I'm going too far, and you might even despise me a little for saying this, but please understand that I’m only doing it because I think it’s right, because I can’t hold back my true feelings any longer….I think Tiwa Savage is really really hot."
Note: This works great especially if she’s told you who her female crush is . Just replace, “Tiwa Savage” with the name of her female crush.

#4 Interesting Questions;
•If you knew you had a week to live what would you do?” “
•Would you rather have a guy who is a great kisser or a great dancer?”

•“Would you rather have a guy that is an amazing lover or has a lot of money?


#5 After You Have Slept With Her
YOU: “Stop...
HER: “What ?”
YOU: “....distracting me....I keep thinking about last night. Bad girl

•YOU: “I can't believe...”
HER: “What?”
YOU: “How incredibly sexy you were last night ”“


#6After You Got Her Phone Number During The Day;

The first text you send a woman after you get her number should never be boring or generic. It should be fun and interesting, string up emotions inside of her and baiting her to reply back.

“Hey, it's John nice meeting you today!” is an awful first text and is what most guys send. If you can, include a playful nickname that uses callback humor — recalling something funny from when you met her
Hey [Nickname] + crazy/random/cool/fun meeting you just now.... + [Bait Question/Statement] + [Your Name]

Example:-
YOU: “Hey Talented Tanya so crazy meeting you just now....do you always do that to guys you just meet? -[your name]
(Note: This will drive her crazy wondering what she did to you)
HER: “Haha do what?”
YOU: “Totally distract guys when they’re innocently minding their own business lol.

•: “So cool meeting you just now....are you always so friendly? -[your name]

#7 RESPONDING TO TESTS
Examples of tests from women via text are, “I have a bf,” “I want you to take me to dinner,” “I don't sleep with guys on the first date,” “I'm not that kind of girl,” “can I bring a friend?” or she may just not respond at all.
Here are some examples of how to respond to a test to show that you are unaffected;

HER: “I don't know If I should hang out with you ”
YOU: “Hmm and here I thought you said you're the fun-loving, adventurous, live-by-your-own-rules kind of girl. You're making me wonder now.”
HER: “I am that kind of girl….you just seem like a bad boy ”
YOU: “Ok prove it.....when are you free next week ?

•Do you text all guys like this....or just guys you are attracted too?”
•Well your still my favorite little brat……well your at least in the top 5”
•“That’s minus 2 cool points :p
• “You are too adorable….what are we gonna do with you

#7 If She Doesn't Respond Your Text

YOU: “Hey I saw a cute little cat the other day and it reminded me of you. Hope you didn't turn into a cat. If you don't reply I will assume the worst.”
HER: “haha no I've just been super busy with school”
YOU: “hmmm....well I'm going to call you in 5 minutes just to make sure this isn't the cat texting me...”
Note: Then you can just call her

•OMG did u get kidnapped into white slavery or something? Holla back

#8 :Funny Answers to Common Questions

HER: “What have you been up too?”
YOU: “Oh not much just busy fighting evil terrorists and rescuing orphans from burning buildings, you know the usual”

HER: “Who is this?”
YOU: “Your future ex-husband. You just weren't spontaneous enough for me in the bedroom -Chris

HERl: “How was your day?”
YOU: “Well, your evil step-mother had me locked up in the castle. But I broke free. Now we can live together happily ever after.


That's it guys. Now you know how to flirt over text.

Till then
-Chris

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speechless.

The best advice as regards to this case is within you ma. Just sit down, breath deeply and think about it and you will surely find the solution.

Osagyefo98:
Abraham had a side chick who he has sex with God didn't condemn him but blessed the fruit and encouraged him more in life..


David had many side chicks but still a man after God's heart..


Solomon had multiple wives and side chicks but God still blessed him with wisdom...

Jacob married two wives, married first one and still dated the second one yet God blessed him.


Samson upon all escapades with Delilah, God still gave him chance

Even Pastor Wilson, sucking ministry of Ethiopia..

It is only in Africa that will turn the Bible upside down with un related analysis in real life...God has thought of Good for us and not evil..


He said to Adam I had created all these for you to enjoy....Let's guide ourselves on what we write and stop misleading people


Check Op life, and discover many amorous relationships perfectly hidden from people

Sometimes I even wonder why most of the Nigerians who claimed to be God's own Messengers always preach about sex. My question is sex our main problem in this country or in this life? Whereas there are enormous sins such as; lies, hatred, killing, discrimination to name a few, other than sex which are deadly to human relationship with one another even to God and we are here talking only about sex always. We should stop using our own intelligent to preach the words of God rather seek for God's spirit to speak to people through us. Mind you @ OP that, all sins are equal and who is guilty of one sin is guilty of all sins.

Powerintoxicate:
who said the yorubas are scared of it's own country? The igbos can't leave together and hate each other. Even the anambra man feels the ebonyi man is inferior to him. An anambra person doesn't want to marry an igbo person outside anambra and you say you love yourselves. What a joke. The average igbbbo man is a traitor dishonest and wicked. That why the British hates you guys. The yorubas have the coastline oil cocoa intelligent people well educated and brilliant administrators and you think they don't want to be on their own? The last time igbos held these are presidency they were killing each other over the position. For the first and only time in Nigeria history Nigeria had 5 Senate presidents in eight years. Wicked people

Thanks a lot. well said

Osagyefo98:
We as parents must determine so as to guide our daughters.

What an elder sees while sitting even if u climb Manjaro, u can't see that..

I pray that you such parents will not face the wrath of God in the end.

superlightning:
my dear brother, you deserve better in life than that thing you called your ex. Make a good name for yourself and your people, you will see ladies of all tribes rushing to you like sugar-loving ants.

Ebonyi people are worth being proud of. I'm just as proud of your notable sons and daughters -

1. Akanu Ibiam
2. Sinach
3. Patoranking
4. Tekno
5. Prof ogbu, a renowned US based Anthropologist
6. Dave Umahi
7. Ognonnaya Onu

Keep pushing yourself to greatness....it's in you

Well appreciated. Thanks a lot for your encouragement.

Beneman:
Bro, u are not alone, a lot of persons have experienced same thing. Just forget abt her and move on.

Take a look at this chat below

thanks

JiokezOguguo:
The problem we have in our time today is self decision. Most guardians are wrongly influencing their wards. In as much as its good and biblical to obey your parents, as an adult learn to decide and make choices for yourself.

Bro, be patient on this (you may give a longer time), don't force love. If nothing happens or she by chance never return, then move one. In life their are sacrifices to make. You have invested truly in her life and its a credit, she shouldnt just trade it away just because her mummy said she must not marry from Ebonyi. If she really loves you for who you are, she will return. Her parents have lived their lives, its hers now.

appreciated

Tonytonex:
Move on Bros. focus on your career. forget about her.

well noted

janejive:
Find ur way out ofnthis country when u.graduate n look for a better woman out there. She has been using you all these while. She will regret this in future. God will give you a better woman.

Thanks a lot

Odogwu999:
move on bro, that is life, Even though she tries coming back Bleep her ass off

thanks, appreciated

SonOfEl:
WAAWA people (nsukka - abakaliki axis) are usually discriminated in marriage by the old Anambra state people


NGWA and MBAISE people (Abia south axis and imo area respectively) are being discriminated in marriage by the old Imo state.

That biase lingers till today. However, efforts have been made to degrade such biase today.

appreciated

Chi59:
I have nothing to prove to you. I'm an indigene of Imo state. Go and hang yourself.

my dear, please it Should not be because of me that there should be an issue among us. All of you guys have really done. Every human race is one, be it black or white. My prayers have been that whichever place,, State, country or continent, I would appreciate because everybody on this Earth is one. God bless you all.

Theicecode:
I need to flog sense into you.

Even one can do more than that, I would have appreciated. Every form of insults to me are highly welcomed. May God bless you all who have tried in one way or the other to make me a better person. I must tell you all that I have learnt.

SweetyZinta:
Dear Giwoni,

All the time you were dating, did you guys even get to know if your Genotype matched?

Did you guys discuss your Christian denomination?

Have you guys ever tried to discuss how you will navigate incase of possible obstacle?

Are you an Osu?


I am asking all the questions to determine if she had it in mind to betray you since day 1. Girls are not loyal sometimes.

If i were you, I will work on myself and be the envy of her and her family, if she comes back, I will not take her back. This kinda girl will still not have sense in the future.

genotype and blood group matched.
We both Christians from Roman Catholic denomination
We have discussed that so many times
I'm not an osu.

johnisaola:
have you ever sleep with her, if you did, you are a 60% fool, but if you didn't you are a 100% fool, have you?

of course.

callmeRichie:
@OP too, I hope you see this... bro we are still young aswear. If he's really in his early 20s why should a relationship be his first priority?? That's where he first missed it!

1st Rule: Never get too early into a relationship while you should be focused on your life and future! Both won't add up aswear.

2nd rule: People's opinion of you should not really be your reality!!!
He's brother asked him to get married be4 living Nigeria, and that was why he was too rushy too. Like he's d 1 to stay in the marriage for him abi

I wish you goodluck bro

My brother never rushed to get married rather I was the one who told him when I wanted to get married which we discussed exhaustively. Okay.

callmeRichie:
@OP too, I hope you see this... bro we are still young aswear. If he's really in his early 20s why should a relationship be his first priority?? That's where he first missed it!

1st Rule: Never get too early into a relationship while you should be focused on your life and future! Both won't add up aswear.

2nd rule: People's opinion of you should not really be your reality!!!
He's brother asked him to get married be4 living Nigeria, and that was why he was too rushy too. Like he's d 1 to stay in the marriage for him abi

I wish you goodluck bro

I said late 20s meaning that I'm getting to 30 years very soon. Thanks

Atteraino:
My guy na true talk oo. You know say i no reason am sef. How abt the things she did for you

mostly she tells that she doesn't have and cannot give me what she don't have. The highest she have done for me was to get me four pieces of boxers and three singlets plus one one belt.

Remember, I have not gone quarter of what I have done for her. I don't even want to mention they one I took the risk to represent her for an examinations which her classmates vindicated me but it was only God's grace that saved me from being expelled from medical school. Let me just stop here because if should have included everything as regards to both to each other, I would have been even insulted the more...

[quote author=callmeRichie post=88670184][/quote]Late 20s

safarigirl:
I can't believe people are still making foolish decisions like this in life.

How can you let one useless relationship stop you from furthering your education abroad? How? You think this girl s the only one in Nigeria? The worst is that, you did not even mention any positive impact this girl has had in your life, so, why were you so enamored by her? Was she your first love?

Clean your wounds and move on. Do not allow this girl control your feelings and emotions, don't give her the power to determine how you interact with others in the future. Be cautious, but not closed off, don't become a hard guy, stay true to you. Finish school and go abroad, I assume you're still a young man and have your whole life ahead of you, there will be many more girls.

Yes, she was my first love. thanks

RonaldoVido:
Many Mother's have ruined the marriages of their children or to be children in-laws.

They will always want to lie with God's name. God said, God said, pastor said, prophecy said.

They are all lies. The woman is just trying to manipulate either her daughter or her son to have her WAY or SAY in the marriage.

Any man who conquers the foolish influences of women has conquered the world.

Why didn't Jesus marry ?

Thanks

RonaldoVido:
Okay, since you guys have gotten to this level.

STOP GIVING HER MONEY: If she stays she wants you, if she leaves, let her go. Don't even give N1,000.

DONT EVER MENTION MARRIAGE AGAIN: Your neediness over marriage caused her attitudinal change. Just avoid any marriage issue. If she brings it up, act like you didn't hear her. Then you can regain control over the relationship.

Thanks, well noted

RonaldoVido:
Hungry girls are heart breakers.

Let me instruct you on how to date a hungry girl.

1. Don't give her money : Its not being wicked. It's being careful. In my life, I have helped more hungry men than women. They are both thesame. A hungry person is a destroyer and this stems from resentment and unhappiness. A hungry person takes delight in seeing a happier person cry. It's human psychology. Have you ever seen someone say, " You won't have this, I won't have this, rather we destroy it, nobody will have it ". That is the average mentality of a hungry person.

2. A hungry person is naturally ungrateful: It takes gratefulness to be rich. " When you praise a great man for what he has done, he will do more " . This is an adage, it is true for humans and for God. When you praise God or show gratitude, he does more. Poor people are naturally ungrateful people. A poor person will prefer to grumble than be grateful. Poverty breeds ungratefulness, likewise ungratefulness breeds poverty.

3. Poor people have a sense of entitlement: That girl is just using that state or origin thing as an excuse, she doesn't love you. She believes you owe her upkeep because she is poor and you are rich. How come you never saw this attitude in her all this while ?

4. Never invest in a woman unless, she is your wife, mother or sisters. This one needs no explanation.

5. You probably never bleeped this girl. In this modern world, a girl you have not bleeped, believes there is nothing between you and her. This is the ugly sinful truth.

Thanks, appreciated.

kenochi16:
My brother if you want to know the truth about what she told you just tell her this
That you rejected the offer to travel abroad to study because of her
And since the relationship is not going to work again that your brother has decided to send you abroad to finish your studies.
You'll see her reaction and that would tell you what to do next.

Alright, thanks.

Badb0y4lyf:
Noting do you Bro in life in life you will fall in love you will be heart broken and vice versa and this are one of the precious memories we keep with us cos that what make life worth living

Thanks a lot.

benedima1990:
Will u now kill yourself because she doesn't love u



it's her decision and not her mum



I'll advice you to stop seeing her ,delete her number and that searching else where for a wife

she'll probably notice your change of attitude and start running after u .


am sure she's into someone else but you're just too blind to see it .

Wen a lady is in love , they'll b the one to bring up proposal and marriage topic first

Appreciated, thanks.

Churchill6767:
Na this kind drilling you deserve.

even more self because...

Raeheemwayne:
Deep within ya inner heart - of - hearts you know exactly what you need.

Don't sit and wait for it - stand up and achieve it.

Your Love life - Your cross.
Peace.

appreciated