₦airaland Forum

majekdom2:
is there actually something like " enough money" do you think money can be the only problem in a relationship .

we are talking about money here... not other wahala... besides, money also take a larger percentage of relationship or marriage wahala
also, there is something called enuf in marriage ....

exthar87:
really,u better stop that, pray for an understanding husband and pray for humbleness..there are families where the woman is the breadwinner still u won't know

I think everyone is free to ask for whatever he is she wants
I have my reasons for wishing that...no matter how humble the wife is.... the husband is always feeling somehow when the wife is richer.... I'm talking from experience ooo.... even when pple outside do not know.... something is always going on inside....
I pray the head will always be the head in every aspect in my marital life...

slimmy05:
shut your trap. You can't even afford a better lip gloss. Look at your brown hair looking unhealthy. You obviously lack treat. You need a hairdiva to assist you with some hair journey. Where do you work? With that meager stipend you earn? Stop biting more than you can chew.

thought I reminded u to take your medication before visiting nairaland today....

ferdimako:
haha u don't want big money from yourself. Amazing.

abi.... I no want Money issues

ayswags:
But you ladies want equality now,Now it's time to share expenses and we are hearing stories that touch.You can't eat your cake and have it

lolzzz.... we have different pple with different ways of life .....not all wives refuse to share expenses......besides, Where there is enuf... money won't be a prob

slimmy05:
look at this thief. You'll know a locust when you see one. Only folks from broke background will wish for this. Parasites.

I can't argue with You since u judge so easily.... it will only take a strong man to beat my salary in my area of discipline....
also, no sensible lady will wish to earn more than her man...it causes wahala... I repeat, I don't pray to be richer than my husband, simple

eunisam:
I askd:Will you as a woman summit your salary to your husband to make him happy? 60% said YES ane 35% said NO. 5% Said it depends. source:my whatsapp broadcast.

to those that said Yes....are they married?.... if NO, then your statistics is wrong cos things are easier said than done....
I'm single but my prayer is to have a husband whose salary will be far far bigger than mine such that my salary will mean Nothing to him.... only a weak man will demand his wife's salary with authority ....

I vote temigracie and jeninmma.

Bode2:
dear, just live by your principles, ethics and ethos and don't be swayed away by corrupt and inordinate practices of the world. I pray God help you

Thanks

tpia6:
what about nursery school and daycare.

lolzzz...can u remember any?

Suffy:
i for like marry u! it seems we are compactable

compatible??... really??
are u Sure... think twice ooo... lol

Certifiedboss:
Chaiiiii.... Gloria, marry me pleaseeeee

lolzz... u are Funny

Suffy:
u don marry? u don marry?

NO... y did u ask

Certifiedboss:
Most Nigeria girls expect you to drop money for them whenever you visit them even when you shopped for them while you were coming.

most times I wonder what relationship is all about... is it about money...??
is it about gifts??...
only few of us understand that the answer to those questions is NO

kayClt:
permit me to ask d other ways to get to ur boyfrnds hrt? is it by sleeping wit, washing his cloths, cleaning or buy demanding? I really want to know becos to me it doesn't make ani difference.

see... no matter how we argue this we'll always see things from different perspectives
we ladies are really getting it wrong when it come to relationship....
different pple with different way of life

FUTA no be beans especially all departments in school of earth and mineral sciences (SEMS)....generally ,all over the country, it's really hard to get first class in courses like
geology
geophysics
meteorology
...and related courses

slimmy05:
go and have a hairdo. Gutter bread wants to feel among. Malnutritioned pale looking rat

I know your type.... pele, I guess u need rest... this will be my last reply anyway... you can say whatever u like...

slimmy05:
getaway lowlife locust

I can see u are frustrated.... pele..

symbian03:
Before nko? I'm a boy and not a girl you may decide to call me your boy friend as well which is gonna be just perfect. Happy new week

hmmmmm.... nice one.. happy new week too

Certifiedboss:
I'm happy you used "Hope"... It means expectation of things you're not sure of. I'm happy you're the type that don't go in to relationship and expect things from the guy. But I know you will agree with me that most of the girls here that are saying they can't cook for bf are the type that expect the boy to take care of their needs

Yea....I agree with u,some ladies are just so stupid..
when u turn your boyfriend to money making machine then be ready to be his food cooking machine and sex making machine.. ...else you'll be maltreated and start disturbing nairaland with your predicament caused by you...
for goodness sake...BOYFRIEND IS NOT YOUR FATHER....if u can understand that then relationship assault will reduce

symbian03:
I completely understand. But next time don't call them "male friends" they're boys so scrap the male friends and call them boy friends which is what they're

and you are a boy too.... right?

slimmy05:
With your poor looks and your broke bf. I don't know what's wrong with these gutter bread girls of these days. Very ugly and they keep forming. I bet in your house you can't boast of 3square meal, so broke you can't even have a good hairdo.

Sorry, is that the description of all the girls you've met in your life?.... or a. simple description of yourself

nison:
If u're a good cook, den Wot stops u from showing him Wot u know how 2 do best at his place. I don't wanna argue, some of dis debaters do beg 2 cook or even buy food stuffs 2 cook at their bf's place.

hmmmm...now tell me the correlation btw what u quoted and what u posted.....

pasqal09:
Nomabeeee , gloria3389, mondisweets, tahariX
As much as I hate to admits this, you guys were right and I was wrong. I don gree

OK...nice one

Janetozi:
men friends? Not even 1, now i understand. Going to their house one by one will be too stressful. I think u should reduce the number.

lol.. I think u guys should stop thinking otherwise.... I was only trying to say that I don't like cooking in a guy house be it friend of boyfriend

emusmith:
Are you a Learner? Two ways to a man's heart: food is one, and seex is another. I don't support sx though...

lips sealed

UniqueGem:
Auntie!! Pick that chair there, sit down and listen attentively.
First And Foremost, i'll like to notify/inform you that you and that guy ain't in anything serious, he's probably just toiling with you while you think you're having fun. So i think i understand all your input on this discussion.
SECONDLY, A good woman who wants the progress and success of his husband to be (fiance) will NEVER subject to him buying junks for them to feed whenever she's around. She'll always want to impress him with everything she knows INCLUDING COOKING SKILLS. I personally will NEVER marry a woman who always flies with me to eat at KFC or sweet sensation, any sane man wouldn't.
LASTLY; I think the problem of most ladies on this thread is Ego problem. There is no biggy in cooking for a fiance/boyfriend. Afterall the OP who opened this thread said she cooks once in a while. Also, those of you saying there is no boss in a relationship, that explains your egocentric nature. Because there is no associAtion on earth that doesn't have a head. Your fiance is your OGA as far as you're still together.

lolz... Thanks for taking your time to write this but all boyfriends can't be thesame ... besides,I'm not going against his command Cos he never asked me such...
that's all I can say

symbian03:
Which one be your male friends?? abi your boy friendS

lolz....Sorry,I have lots of male friends... cos everything I'm doing including my discipline has to with working with guys... so stop thinking otherwise...

1daboi:
something tells me you can't cook or you don't like cooking

Sorry ur guess is wrong.... I can cook well and I love cooking....

iaatmguy:
what you do during courtship will only change slightly,so girlie wise upand do as he says, going to his house everyfay does not mean u have to cook for me. A good GF will make a good wife , if yoi have the mentality that I have to cook for ur bf the same mentality u have during marriage, #I don't have to cook for my husband all the time he should help me syndrome of jaa babes If you are not willing to do it a thousand and one will do it. WISE UP

for your shikini mind abi....

nekkyontop:
I totally agree with you my dear and that is what I do also. Act as a girlfriend that you are presently. It's not your obligation as a girlfriend to always cook and clean for him. Men should get that straight.

abi ooo

Jonathan doing his own too....
check it here
http://www.pakurumo.com/2014/10/president-goodluck-jonathan-starts-his.html