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Sorry for your predicaments, keep apologizing to him until he sees reason to calm down but no matter what happens, never you resign from your job. If you do not want to remain wretched for the rest of your marital life unless you both agreed to open a business for you. #Saynotohousewife. The kids will be fine.

eezeribe:
It's her fellow women that caused it...
Women in authority are very exploitative and abusive...
Even the wretched ones who are house wives are very brutal to their house maids...

What you said is the naked truth. Most women in authority act like demons, I am a witness to their wickedness. Both single and married.

Sick fellow.

Blonchilli:
How many families can afford surrogacy bro? Is it selfish? Yes. Is it wrong? Yes. Marriage is a partnership and both partners should be able to communicate. I'm not yet married but what I've observed is the cause for most divorce is communication. Yes it's her body but if we're using that as an excuse then it's the man's body too if he decides to go bang every girl he meets and litter the streets with his babies. As a couple when it's wise to stop having children is if my wife has a near death experience. I'll prefer to have her than a kid, how are you going to raise a baby? If that happens then you guys can seek other options like adoption or surrogacy if you have the funds

Sorry for quoting you, I understand you are not married, I just want to inform you that every child birth is a near death experience. Yes it is wrong for a woman to decide to quit giving birth without agreeing with the husband, it also wrong for a husband who knows that the wife do have complications with pregnancy or that they can not take care of more children economically to insist on having more children. I for one agreed with my hubby before getting married that we are going to have only two kids irrespective of their sex, yes we had two kids (boys). I was OK with them but he was not done and kept complaining of wanting a baby girl. Fortunately for him I took in by chance. Yes I called it by chance because I was nursing my 3months old 2nd child, I was sad and devastated, he said I can take it out if I want. I noted the word 'you' and not we in his statement. I went to a doctor and discussed my chances, he ensured me that I can do it but that its going to be very challenging. I let the pregnancy be by choice. Was it funny? No. Did I suffer? Yes. I breastfeed my baby until he was 10month old and my breast milk dried up. I had my
third baby two months after, a baby girl with an emergency CS. I nearly lost my life in the process. I paid a huge price of suffering to keep and birth her, I thank God there was no lost after all. Now tell me, will you say I am selfish if I decide on own never to give birth again if hubby wakes up one morning and want another child? The same man who out of fear refused to sign when they told him that I needed to be taken to theatre immediately for a CS, I was informed and I knew the implication of the delay, I begged the doctor to take me in if he insist on not signing. So when next you see someone saying we are selfish or lazy remember my story and appreciate the fact our circumstances are not the same. Thank you.

How am I sure he did not go into hiding or even kidnapped himself just to keep being in the news.

Chai, see achievements. Aunty congratulations ooh.

Nice write up, but op remove that six months breastfeeding, is not part of natural family planning and never you advice anyone to use that.

Emioga:
O boy na hypocrites full this thread o.To say na woman come here dey talk all this one na you all would have bashed her saying your mum is your world or your family has been their before your wife.smh.well poster no advice from me o cos I'm in the same situation and my husband they stand with his family also even beats and insults me for them.OYO

Hmm my sister, a lot of dangerous hypocrites are on rampage here. Now that the table has turned against one unfortunate man they are advicing him to run for his life where as they will advice the women to keep swallowing the bitter pills being constantly given to them by some toxic in-laws.

Mad and confused people. #ndiuchu

Umu ogwugwu oge & stupidity, why allow anyone to take your nude shots in the first place? Abeg carry your cross alone since you refused to have sense.