Darlynn:
Hi dear, we're still awaiting the result from the urologist. I've started preparing my mind for ivf because I've been doing a lot of research on it. I'm even following the ivf thread here on NL to get information. It can be hurtful to a man's ego when they get this kind of report, so its important for you not to show too much worry/concern towards him cause he might start feeling down. All the best,dear.. let me know how it goes. #BabyDustEveryone

Hi dear. Thank you very much. While we visit the urologist and run the necessary tests, can i get the link to the IVF forum? I try as much as possible never to feel depressed before DH as he is already worried about the whole thing. I believe we will conceive our own babies. Babydusteveryone

Fvine:


Hi Dear, you're welcome to the thread. may your stay be fruitful and short. Sorry you're going through this, I pray the good Lord surprises you soon. Zero everything as you put it is not the end of the world. He should see a Urologist that will conduct further testing to determine what could be holding the sperm back. It could be an atrophy (blockage) or Varicocele or whatever but do know that there is always a way out. Finding out the root cause will help you determine a solution, if its something that will require surgery or what drugs, antibiotics and/or supplements can help out with.

At the worst cases of Zero counts, IVF with ICSI and TESE can be done where they use a fine needle to go into the scrotal sac of the man to extract sper.m from the production source because most times at least a couple of sperm can be found there. This option is for couples who are bent on having their own Biological Kids. There are options of fathering with Donor Eggs, Donor Spe.rm and even adoption but I won't even go into this controversial and touchy zones.

Its human nature to be sad, cry and be depressed, cry small if it will make you feel better but don't over cry like you have no hope. But in all of this God has the final say if you believe in God or He who holds the Higher Power in whatever Religion you practice and if you're an atheist then the best Dr. / Medical Art you can find it is. So do all you can and pray all you can or just Do all you can. You ain't hopeless, so don't be depressed, depression won't help a thing rather it will spoil things. You need to be strong for your husband. If you're depressed, imagine how he will be feeling. He needs your support.

We're always here for you to support and comfort you whatever your TTC journey is. You have a kind e-family here, you're not alone. Kisses and Hugs Sis. Do take good care of yourself and your Hubby.

Darlynn:
Same with DH.. ours is obstructive azoospermia resulting from testicular torsion. i think both of you should go to a urologist for further investigation as to his root cause. best wishes dear