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andromida:
Perhaps you should check if you secretly feel its wrong to sleep with a man you are not married to amongst other reasons you may feel its wrong to be having sex. Search your mind why you go numb during sex could also be you don't even like the men you slept with so you were unable to open up yourself and you just felt you had to do it to keep a relationship anyway search yourself.

Yes I feel its wrong and I feel very guilty about it for days,mayb this is why.

emilyone:
Were
you circumcised?

No not at all.my mother was and she she suffered for it in her marriage and decided not to make us go through the same.

Thank you so much ellapius.yes I have climaxed before and I usually climax with self-service. It used to be good but the feeling is now so flat.I will teach my boyfriend on how to touch me to make me feel again.but I also feel my mind has been conditioned to just one way and if its not done that way then nothing. I also want to uncondition my mind but don't know how.

Pls I need more advice.73 views and just one reply, help a sister out of her pains

Mods I beg of you not to move this topic to another section, this is the only place I can get mature replies to a problem weighing me down.

Dear nairalanders, I have a sex problem.90% of the time i dnt feel anything during sex.I started sex in my late 20s and prior to this I used to mastubate. Actually this year makes it the 18th year of this act.I have tried to stop it but no way.its like my body is now used to this and when I started sex there was no feelings. I have lost about 4 guys that walked away because of this and the pain was unbearable.

its like my mind will just freeze during the act which makes me not to feel any/much sensation.I have enjoyed sex with just one guy and climaxed just once in my life with another(but through genital stimulation). Has anyone ever been in my position, how did you overcome it. Pls help me cos I'm a wreck right now and I'm afraid to enter another relationship because I don't want to get dumped again.

that's all the more reason why I don't want to give in. Becos of the way men are the decision to have sex or not should come from a woman.so whatever happens , she's fine with it

my boyfriend of barely 2 months is stylishly asking for sex, even though we agreed no sex. but what is disturbing me is that he's yet to get a job and still lives at home and he's in his mid 30's.if I get pregnant I don't knw what will happen. He might tell me to abort or deny me yet I knw if I dnt give in we will break up.