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Progressivegee: It's not a care job, we are both professionals and when she got the job she told but I just finished a project. I tried all I could to get funds and I even borrowed.. I still owe some of my friends till date. The main thing we paid was IHS and Visa fees which I closed all my account and borrowed to be able to contribute. She was never the breadwinner and that's been her mentality from Nigeria because I was doing well in Nigeria. It was just unfortunate that when she got the job I was really broke cos of the project I just finished which she's aware of. It's just her mentality that man must take care of everything and that's why she's being using that as a leverage. I came here also and I got my first job within 2 months with a pay of 49k thinking all will be well. As everyone suggested, I will continue till next year February hoping there will be a change. Thanks everyone. Cc. Jlaw1 Justwise Dygeasy 2 Likes |
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AirBay:Trust me I've had this discussion but not leading to anything good, we talked today and i had to beg her again that this is much. Her responsewas I'lltake energy and council tax when im done with the loan, and i asked when is that "she said i dont know for now but by december or next year February". I created this new account to speak it out of a heavy heart. You won't really understand how worried i am. I'm even looking for weekend shift in care home or factory to get more funds. It's funny and this is the only avenue to share the worries 2 Likes |
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justwise: How long bro? This is the 7th month. Anyways, thanks |
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Lexusgs430:I know but she's not wise as she claims, I'm just not doing anything because of the environment we find ourselves and my dependency on her. I really pray i get sponsorship. 1 Like |
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justwise: Yes, I want to join but she said i shouldn't worry. I asked the amount but i never got response when my insistence was much she said circa 15million which is not true cos its not care work that you'd paid for COS and the coy paid our tickets. |
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bigtt76: Tbh, she said she got some loan. Getting job too no easy. Im searching really hard for higher pay but ain't coming. I can't really cut cos we've got kids. |
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Elders and dependants especially male I need your advice please. I'm a dependant who is also working in uk. I appreciate my wife cos she spent over 70% of the funds we used while coming to uk and also took care of home for 2 months before i got a job. I was lucky to get a good job in Manchester 2 months after I got to uk which is a midlevel role in my career path as a systems engineer. My wife has refused to do anything at home cos she claims she wants to rest and I should be grateful that she brought me here. This is leading to serious arguments cos after paying rent, bills and food I'm left with almost nothing infact I had to borrow in the last 2 months because I bought some home appliances in our newly rented apartment. Right now, I'm so confused because it's more like I am just working to spend and her money belongs to her strictly and she means it. I am careful cos I'm bound to her visa and I am even begging her to take just bills but she refused. This has been on for over 7 months and i can not boast of 2k savings even with 49k salary. How do I manage this? Just confused tbh cos she's also working full time even grossing more than i 3 Likes |
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