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cynthiafred67:
@Op
Pls Don't do it if u don't love her.

We Love each each other. I'm very sure of her sincerity, She is a very nice black lady.

Thanks you all for you honest reply.
But i got to tell you something you must get to understand is that i have real feelings for this lady it is crazy but we have nursed the relationship to this height where we are so attached to each other. I am not a yahoo boy so this is not a Maga kinda thing as some people who have shared their opinion think. I am very close to her family, Mum Dad Sister, Aunt, Cousins as i talk to them all on the Phone.
She has visited me here twice in 2011. April and August. She is no white lady but a black american.
So to some extent we both know ourselves to certain levels, for me to come post this thing her goes a far way to tell a very sensible person that that i am not an opportunist but just looking for for reasons thoughts from fellow nairalanders.
So it it very dicey for me because we have so built so much emotions and love for each other but that is not to say that if she ask me to come to American that i will just jump on the bandwagon. I am not scared of her Personality because i know she is of a great character.

Crown Prince:
Enters d tread with my crystal ball,roll it up and down,shakes head,*repeat sequence thrice*thanks d oracle,then face d desperado:''op,you are embarking on a journey of no return''. I see two short guns in that woman closet. Be careful with your smart moves''.
Turns away mumbles,dis children of nowadays are something else.

Thank Bro she has visited me 2x here.

@freecocoa How do i get the thread from SWALLU?

we met on facebook. That was in Sept 2010. She has visited 2x last year

This is no naija Boy thing i never expected a thing of say will you love to come to America? Thant was the Moment that change my Life and left me in this state of confusion.

I am new here, though i do visit nairaland every now and then to get hot news thread but i just became a member because i really want to know what you guys here think. And who is this swallu?

I have an American Lady who is older that me with about 15years . She wants to help me to come to America. But since i don't have a basic University Education she wants us to use the K-1 Visa. The K-1 Visa is a visa that allows an alien fiance(e) to an American citizen to enter into the States and marry his/her partner within 90 days.
  Please i am so confused, but this is a very golden opportunity to leave as a come from a very humble background and really needs to hustle and help my family. As a matter of fact she would have started the process already but i told her to hold on because i hadn't made up my mind. I swear this is crazy.

Suggestions are welcome.

Thanks.

I have an American Lady who is older that me with about 15years . She wants to help me to come to America. But since i don't have a basic University Education she wants us to use the K-1 Visa. The K-1 Visa is a visa that allows an alien fiance(e) to an American citizen to enter into the States and marry his/her partner within 90 days.
  Please i am so confused, but this is a very golden opportunity to leave as a come from a very humble background and really needs to hustle and help my family. As a matter of fact she would have started the process already but i told her to hold on because i hadn't made up my mind. I swear this is crazy.

Suggestions are welcome.

Thanks.