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WHATEVER YOU DO IN LIFE, YOU CAN'T RISE ALONE, I mean, it's impossible for you to reach your goal, reach the top and become successful all by yourself ‼️
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LET ME DRIVE YOU THROUGH THE ANALYTICAL CONCEPT


Growing alone is like being against yourself because when you came to this world, you were birthed by an incubator (your mom), and another - your dad!

Both of them teamed up to have you and it's natural phenomenon that one can't have you alone - that's naturally!

Why?

Because FOR SOMEONE TO BE BIRTHED, NURTURED AND RAISED SUCCESSFULLY, HE OR SHE MUST BE A PRODUCT OF A COLLECTIVE EFFORT OF TWO PARTIES known as parents!
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Follow me❗


Now, if you came to this world through the process and productive efforts of 'team-play', and collective effort of more than one person, what makes you think you can grow alone?

It's a serious issue, isn't it?

Look, no matter how gifted you are, no matter how powerful and intelligent you are, no matter how graced and elevated you are, YOU HAVEN'T GOT THE RIGHT THING!
Infact, you haven't started working into the Powerful dimensions of purpose you're created for IF you don't get coached, mentored, helped or get lifted by a more influential party or personality.


YOU'RE MERELY WORKING (STRUGGLING) WITH THE TIP OF YOUR POTENTIAL; and if you're not well guided, you'll think you've reached your goal, until someone opens your eyes to understand that there are many hidden realities not known to you, and for those to be made known, you'd need the help of someone or certain persons.


They could be;

YOUR MENTOR
YOUR ROLE MODEL
YOUR TEAM
YOUR PARTNERS
YOUR ASSOCIATES
YOUR INSIGHTFUL FRIENDS & COLLEAGUES
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No matter what, the point is, you really need at least one of the above to become successful and purposeful in life, and until then, you're merely swimming in the pool of your potentials.


And, if actually you're at the starting point of discovering your purpose, the first you need is a MENTOR, and not some team, partners, associates or even a role model.

Why not a ROLE MODEL, but a MENTOR?

Because by their functions and roles in your life, A MENTOR IS CLOSER TO YOU THAN A ROLE MODEL? Do you agree with me on this?

And their pictorial different is, a MENTOR can't mentor you without knowing WHO you are, while someone can be your ROLE MODEL without his or her knowledge - you only admire such person (s), yearn to be like them and imitate them.

So at the initial stage, go for a MENTOR!

And, why do you need these guys above?

Because, THEY CAN SEE WHAT COMES AT YOUR BACK which you can't see. And when such things come to destroy your castle, your back is already watched out for and secured by your MENTOR AND OTHERS.


SO WHEREVER YOU SEE A SUCCESSFUL PERSON, HIS STORY WOULD BE THAT HE OR SHE STARTED FROM SOMEWHERE - mentorship and coaching processes to reach where they are today❗❗❗

You can't do it alone; seek for mentorship, and guidance as soon as possible, THERE'S NO MORE TIME TO WASTE

Do not procrastinate;
procrastination is your enemy!

Do not look down on this, and think that you can do it alone, it's pride! And it awaits for your downfall.

MAKE A MOVE TODAY. If you're not sure how to start, hit my DM as soon as possible!



Remain valued and purpose-driven


©Onyeuche Godson
Young Mind Motivational International

HOUSE CHORES ARE FOR WOMEN ALONE!


That's what most men say!

Let's enjoy this together; kindly read.
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Women have been known for their nature of making home a wonderful place to be, taking care of children, themselves and their husbands.

As a result, house chores or "home works" having been deliberately tagged on them, or should it be said that IT IS ACTUALLY THE RESPONSIBILITY OF A WOMAN TO TAKE CARE OF HOUSE CHORES, WHILE MEN TAKE CARE OF OTHER THINGS.


It is religious to think that women are naturally responsible to take care of house chores, while men shouldn't.


Well, having made this phenomenon doctrinal and die-hard to the core, to believe so, a real man shouldn't be limited or held back from doing house chores - this is if this notion were to be fact; but it isn't.
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It is sad to the core that while women strive to get themselves motivated to do what men do, most men slack back claiming right of paternity, authority, head and especially, believing to be placed above women without trying to reach half of what women endure or engage in.

I'm not trying to be bias, but just to drive a point.

However, it is true and acceptable that men are the head of the house - men should however manage this position with understanding, wisdom and respect toward the opposite gender (be it your wife or any other).


Now, the fact is, if you're a real man who is virtuous, wise and actually a leader (the head of the family in any area), you should put yourself in the shoes of women, to understanding how important you are in your house, in order to take up house chores being WHAT ANYONE CAN DO.

Hence, it is important to understand that a leader you are, you should have it in mind that you should operate beyond the ideology that a women should have the responsibility to do house chores. In fact, it is not wise to let that proceed out of your mouth.


Be a leader by example. Isn't it cool to have yourself teach your wife how to handle some house chores? Isn't it noble and prominent of you?

Well, it is.

And, there are few men out there who still understand that women do not have the sole responsibility to take care of house chores, but house chores are what anyone can do - either by men or women. Such men are appreciated.



Dear man, be a good man to join your wive and female-others to do house chores - it is never created for women alone.

What do you think about this?


©Onyeuche Godson

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Oh wow! Haven't hard of him but thank you for telling us about him will love to read his story..

HAVEN'T MET HIM YET?

His name is TIYO SATRIO from INDONESIA.

He's got no limbs, and depends on others to take him around. But, is he beaten or swept off his feet by his unfortunate state?

Let's find out together.

Good news is;

1. He Writes; holding the pen in his mouth

2. He plays video games; controlling the pad with his chin

3. He keeps being happy even when alone

4. He plays by himself after school until his teacher picks him up.


TIYO isn't bothered by his "limbless" little body, neither is he mindful of other people's completeness. Instead, he takes it to heart that he's got life in him - he's among those who are alive today; and has hope of better tomorrow. HE DOES THINGS BY HIMSELF.

IF TIYO CAN DO THE ABOVE, WHY DO YOU WORRY YOU COMPLETE MORTAL?


Why kill yourself because of that little challenge that you've got now?


Being happy is a matter of choice. Tiyo Satrio has made that choice despite his condition. And if he could be thankful for his life, you should be much more thankful to God.

THANK GOD FOR WHAT HE HAS DONE IN YOUR LIFE - PRAISE HIM NOW!

IT IS TIME TO TALK TO YOURSELF!
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©Onyeuche Godson
Young Mind Motivational International

Being in the CHILDREN'S MINISTRY for 11 years, one thing I've learnt is, CHILDREN ARE SAD THAT THEIR PARENTS DO NOT KNOW THEM REAL GOOD.


Some kids would say to me; "Uncle Godson, my mother doesn't take me seriously. Each time I try to explain things to them, they would say, I'm just a kid".

So they can't express themselves, and they're sad.


I have studied children over the years and can write series of books about them.


LET ME SHOW YOU 3 POWERFUL THINGS I'VE LEARNT ABOUT THEM:
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1. Children are not simply children because they do not have understanding or they're low in the head. Most of these kids are smarter than you have assumed. I stay with kids often.


They are rather Children because they're still under your care for guidance, because certain realities are still cumbersome to them; so they need your help to grow, and not that they're some little things without worth or value.

So make sure you're careful how you deal with them. They understand the slightest move you make, and they won't tell you unless you're friend with them. Some of them had corrected my mistakes often - I didn't know they observed.


They had the courage to discuss my mistakes with me because they know I love them and would always give them listening ears.



2. They need to be told the truth sometimes. Tell them bluntly what they should know. Some of them know you lied to them some time ago.


They would always tell me; "Uncle Godson, do you know my father lies a lot?"


Sometimes, I feel bad because they shouldn't be saying this to me. But then, I realized that the attention I give them made them trust me, and hence, they feel comfortable to share anything with me (and I pray not to betray their trust).


In fact, some of the things these kids share with me can't be said here.


And what I learnt is, those are the things they wanted to share with their parents, but unfortunately, these parents do not give them listening ears.


I keep teaching parents HOW TO LISTEN TO THEIR CHILDREN; very important.


PARENTS, listening to your children isn't what you do simply by smiling to them, nodding your head in agreement and telling them "I've heard you".


They need your intelligent, dependable and satisfactory response - make them feel that you've solved their problems.



3. CHILDREN need you to be their friend. If you're a parent, your kids should have you as their first friend, trusted and caring - so that they don't make wrong friends outside the home.


They need company and friendship; and if they don't get that from home, they will be desperate to get it elsewhere, and what if your children get into the wrong hands?


Most of them became my friends and Children because their parents are failing them.


Have I shared with you how that a kid didn't want to go home with her mom after meeting me?


Her reason was that, no one plays with her at home the way I do. They think she's not supposed to talk, smiled at or have around - this they did with the notion that they're giving her good home training.


Some of you parents think that when you play with your kids, they won't respect you ever. So the best way to handle them is to become a sadist with them.


NO, NO, NO. That's wrong. The way you treat them is the way they'd follow you.


I'm a "CHILDREN-PERSON". So I can confidently tell you that if you play with them, they will love you more. All you need do is to always set your priorities wisely - know what and what not to do while playing with them.

When I'm really busy or not in the mood to play, they know. I communicate that to them, they understand me well, and they back off.

My children do not disrespect me, and I can play with them as though their fellow kid.


The secret is, SHOW THEM WHAT EVERY CIRCUMSTANCES AND SITUATIONS should be. Define your boundaries with them, be strict when you should, discipline them when necessary, sit them down and explain why you did what you did; talk to them as you would talk to a fellow adult.


Then, smile at them, appreciate them, apologize if you have to, and tell them you care for them.

Then, be sure for a better parenting!
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#SIDE NOTE: If Children run from you unnecessarily, you need JESUS CHRIST. Go for a retreat immediately.

It's a sign that something is wrong with you. Because they are a model of God's purest form of humanity and humility.


IF THIS MESSAGE MAKES SENSE TO YOU, KINDLY SHARE, LIKE & TELL US WHAT YOU THINK; let's Advocate for our children. They need us to communicate this to their parents.


I'm your friend,

© Onyeuche Godson
YOUNG MIND MOTIVATIONAL INTERNATIONAL- YMMI

If you're a BUSINESS PERSON Who wants to take his or her business writing to another level beyond some scanty and boring stuff, THIS IS FOR YOU.


You know, writing is a hard work.

But, it's also a simple work.


It's hard if you don't know what you need to drive it through.

It's simple if you know the techniques, art and intelligence behind the job.

You see, if you're writing for your BUSINESS or BRAND, you can easily steal readers' heart into your world with these tips you're about to read


1. KNOW YOUR AUDIENCE:

The question you need to ask while writing to promote your business or develop a lead is, WHO AM I WRITING TO?

To have to bear those you're to in mind. You need to understand that you're not writing for everyone, but someone out there who is potentially interested in what you're selling; talk to that person directly, and avoid writing to random persons out there.


2. MAKE THE WRITING PERSONAL:

This simply means that you need to drive a strong emotional connection with your readers or customers or audience.

Show them that you have them in mind, and you're in to help them solve a problem or give them value to create a good life. For instance, if you're writing to promote skin or beauty product, you could say;
"Our products are the best; we have improved rapidly to ensure that 'YOU HAVE THE CUTEST SKIN LIKE A NEW BORN'

You simply brought them into the picture, to show that you have their interest at heart.

Avoid saying; "This product is the best, and it can make anyone get the best out of it"

With this, "anyone" could actually mean anyone, and not the person who might be reading at the moment.

But when you bring them into the picture, it creates a good bond and emotional connection to drive them on. So, they would start imagining their skin being the cutest, because you're talking to them directly.


3. AVOID JARGONS, BIG WORDS AND COMPLEX SENTENCES:

Most content writers make the market bad by trying to impress with big words and sentences that never have a fullstop. This would only turn off your potential customers, and you wouldn't want that to happen. So, simply keep it short, simply and expressive.


4. BE FLEXIBLE IN EXPRESSION:

The person you're writing to is not seeing you - it's hard to convince someone who is listening to you through writing. So you must possess some flexible points and ideas to have them knocking on your door.

And for you to become expressive and lively in your communication, you must learn how to make your writing flow in style, with soft tones and mild relieving expressions that could make them smile while reading.

Do not turn a comedian or joker while trying to do this. You must master the art of doing it; if not, you'd ruin the business.


5. AVOID CLICHÉS, REDUNDANCY & TAUTOLOGY:

Anyone word, sentence, expression you repeat in different ways or manner can be called tautology or cliché (overused) and the act of doing so is redundancy.

Repeating ideas in your writing is offensive - a good reader would simply turn off from your writing, and wouldn't be motivated to read more. So avoid them.


6. BE NATURAL, and Write in your own voice:

Sometimes, most writers are overly conscious of their writing, thinking that it would help them become careful, to impress and to produce some quality contents.

And by that, they commit errors, sounding awkward, and writing in a voice that isn't theirs.

Don't be too conscious to write some "professional something", it would put you in a corner to think, and write, with a continuous thinking before you could write a point.

Don't do this. Simply flow naturally as though you're talking to a friend, but be professional.


7. GOOD STORY IS A POWERFUL LEAD:

Good storyline is a powerful limelight. If you tell your potential customers a brief or short story, yet catchy and interesting, you've brought them into the ball game.

They would starting thinking the way you're thinking. It makes readers to think you're the right person, if you tell the right story; - it bonds them to flow with what you're advertising to them, especially when the story solved a problem relating to your brand and product.

If you can do the above, your business content (writing) would be a journey to catch a big fish. No good content gets turned down. So drive your brands and products with quality writing.


Practice more of reading experts and write more, you'll perfect the job.


What do you think about these 7 POWERUL WRITING TIPS?


© Onyeuche Godson

1. Strive for GLOBAL (healthy) competition. Don't fold your hands and end up being known just within your community. Let the world hear you, let them know you exist!

How do you make this happen?
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2. Don't be comfortable with your achievements and status, no matter how far you have gone. Keep pressing forward for more success, value, impact and greatness.

3. Make sure you have a functioning social media presence - with lot of value, and with the ability to shine your light to the World. Don't joke around social media. Don't post information merely for criticism, hatred, gossip, fights and their like. Make sure your social media handle is a place you dish value to the World.

� Note that; if you must travel abroad someday for some engagements or appointments - studies, Business, visit, tour, ceremonial appointments, etc, YOUR SOCIAL MEDIA IS A SPY HOUSE TO DETERMINE WHO YOU REALLY ARE, and your ugly activities here can jeopardize your chances of having a visa to travel. So be careful!
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4. Read, read and read! Don't think reading is outdated. No, it's not. Read informative and educative books; powerful mysteries 'of becoming' is hidden in most of them.

Again, Listen and follow great presentations from trusted leaders, and those who have got value to extend. Get more value and more sense. Don't fold your hands and watch others grow.

5. Sacrifice, dedication, persistence, courage and Passion should be your amour and watchwords - keep doing that (good thing) you do; someday someone somewhere would connect with you.

6. Never despise your little beginning; a mansion isn't built in a day! Grow intentionally and continue to learn; it's a gradual process!

7. Replace your mediocre friends (empty vessels) with people who have like minds as yours. This is because who you mingle with determines where you'll end up. Eagles don't mingle with chickens. So if you must be an eagle, mingle and learn from eagles.

8. As a young person, don't frown at failure. It's a good thing to fail REASONABLY, because it would help you gain stamina for success and greatness. But don't keep failing. Learn when you've failed once or twice. And, giving up because you once or twice failed doesn't worth it. Go back and learn from your mistakes.

9. Set goals and make sure you reach them. Challenge yourself, and keep working it through resultantly. Don't just start doing things without target and goal setting; without them, you'd simply run in shadows.

10. Don't neglect the ministry of prayers - always make sure you acknowledge God (ALMIGHTY) in all you do, and allow Him step into your case. Don't struggle it on your own. Love God and live.
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HAVE YOU REALLY DISCOVERED YOURSELF (PURPOSE) IN LIFE❓

If you've not, honestly, you won't be able to succeed with the steps above. It is for those who know where they're heading to in life.

If you need to discover your purpose, kindly seek for help to know THE REASON YOU EXIST HERE ON EARTH.

Do have a purposeful life.

Kindly share, someone can see LIGHT in this piece of message.

Your friend,

© Onyeuche Godson

How Did Some Small Businesses Grow During 2020 While Others Failed?

If you’re looking to grow your business without spending on advertising, hiring, or injecting more capital, you might be interested in knowing how 5,000 entrepreneurs have done it during 2020.

But before going into that you should be aware of the #1 simple reason why most small businesses fail…

You probably understand what effort and passion for your business look like, as most owners have no problem working 16+ hours a day.

The reason why they fail is because of a lack of knowledge around different areas of managing a business - you simply CAN’T know it all

But what if you could have all the answers you need to be successful? A detailed route to growing your business without making mistakes…

Most entrepreneurs who did GREAT during 2020 got helped in managing their businesses.

It’s not about spending more money or hiring “professionals” to give you an unfair advantage.

But instead, connecting with other entrepreneurs, or mentors, who are already successful at building businesses that stood the test of time...

...and are willing to help you for free.

That’s how you can get all the knowledge you need to make smart decisions and bring clear direction to your business.

If that interests you then the MicroMentor network is the place to start. A platform where all entrepreneurs can find a volunteer mentor who can aid them in growing their business.

Simply sign up, browse your industry for a mentor that fits your needs, and reach out to them privately for help. Entirely for free.

Click the link to find one today.

https://www.micromentor.org/?

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© MICROMENTOR

It is called INTELLECTUAL IMPRISONMENT

Have you heard of this term before?

Maybe not.

It's all about WHY YOU STRUGGLE TO BECOME SUCCESSFUL IN SCHOOL/COLLEGE‼️

Don't suffer this!

It's for student who are desiring to become what they would study or what they studied in the Higher Institution.

Listen up!

� INTELLECTUAL IMPRISONMENT is when you are forced to study what you do not intend to study in the higher Institutions, and by that, you struggle to make achievements and success in your academic journey.


It could be that your parents, guidance and friends forced you into this, and want you to study what they WANT and not what you actually NEED to study.


THE QUESTION IS
WILL THEY HELP YOU STUDY?

NO, YOU'VE GOT TO FACE IT ALONE; that's the hard truth!

So the best way to enjoy your studies is when you voluntarily choose your passionate course of study, which you are naturally endowed with

~ Note the word PASSION; If you do not have passion in that course of study, be guided.

This is the way to academic success, than studying courses you don't have confidence to study.

Another word is CONFIDENCE. If you do not have Confidence in that course of study, be careful!
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People are not academically successful because of this issue. They can't be freed unless they trace what course best suites them and NOT THOSE THEIR PARENTS WANT THEM TO STUDY.

Hear this! It doesn't necessarily mean that you're poor in the head or dull. But because you have no PASSION and CONFIDENCE in that course of study!
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� Dear #PARENTS, please do not force your wards into courses they would not be able to study; unless you don't want their success.

Many parents have failed in this - making choices for their wards when it comes to academia - while your ward wants to become a Medical Doctor, you force him to become a Lawyer.

Such won't help. Let your ward make his or her choices and come out in flying colours.


We want all students to become successful students all over the World.

Let's share to help people reach this value.


© Onyeuche Godson

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If you're having a chat with someone who is elder to you, or older than you; DON'T DO the following:

✍️1. Don't start a chat with "guy how far? How are you doing, or how you dey"?

It's disrespectful.

✍️2. Don't refer the person to as "dear", especially if you're not both of the same age grade, or if it's someone who isn't an acquaintance.

Make it formal; "Okay Sir/Ma. It's alright Uncle/Auntie, or Thank you Sir/Ma" Sometimes, say; "Okay, I got it, It's alright"

He or she is not your mate. You need to respect such person.

✍️3. If you must start a chat with someone, be polite. Start with a compliment; "Good day Sir/Ma, good morning to you, Greetings to you, etc"

Some of them have kids like you at home, and especially you MUST learn that it's bad to be careless while dealing with people.

✍️4. Your response should show that you're trained or being trained. Don't open your mouth wide and respond with; "Yeah, cool, na so, sure thing, my guy, hmmm, I dey observe"

What are you observing?

SAY things like; "Yes Sir/Ma, Okay. I'm with you, That's true, Acknowledged, Exactly, etc.

✍️5. After the chat, show that you come from a good home; even though you don't come from one, pretend as though you're cultured. Don't always expose your family even on this platform.

✍️Don't suddenly cut the chat and disappear like a Spirit especially if the person is some friend with whom you're dealing on formal things.

If you must go, politely say things like;

"excuse me, I have to go now, it's urgent; I beg your pardon", "May I go now, I've got an urgent call; let's chat soon" "Kindly leave a text with me here; I'll definitely get back to you, I've got a low battery", Kindly let me go; I have something to attend, it's time"

✍️The above are just a case study. There are several others you can place in your head that aren't noted here.

#Respect, #Honour and #Loyalty are wonderful when used well.

Make sure you don't insult friends by the way you chat with them; either subtly or obviously.

✍️Let it still occur to you that such Person is not your mate. If you were to chat him up one-on-one, I'm sure you won't use those words. Don't let Facebook and other chat medias make you think that everyone is your schoolmate or homemate; BE CAREFUL.

✍️Even though you're chatting your mate or some younger folks, BE KIND TO THEM. THE WAY YOU ADDRESS PEOPLE MATTERS A LOT

- IT'S CALLED "GOOD MANNER OF APPROACH" AND "DISPLAY OF COURTESY".

Thanks for reading.

Does this make sense to you?

©Onyeuche Godson.