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Career / Re: Interview Questions And Possible Answers. by Godwin10123: 1:30am On Jun 03, 2016

Career / Re: Interview Questions And Possible Answers. by Godwin10123: 1:25am On Jun 03, 2016
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Career / Re: Interview Questions And Possible Answers. by Godwin10123: 1:21am On Jun 03, 2016
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Career / Interview Questions And Possible Answers. by Godwin10123: 1:15am On Jun 03, 2016
You went for an interview and the Boss asks you ''Why should we hire you''? and you start lamenting and tell them how hungry you have been,how broke you are and how the salary will help your life!...Is that what you said?
Naaaaa,that is so wrong!...Consider the following:

What do you think?

Politics / Re: Akinyemi Agbede Running For U.S. Senate by Godwin10123: 9:55am On Apr 24, 2016
Hope this man and other Nigeria will not be pushed into canal for contesting for senate in their land grin

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Politics / Re: Rivers Rerun: Amechi Is A Boy We Brought From Gana- Wike by Godwin10123: 5:27pm On Mar 22, 2016
I don't think there was any special tactics my Gov Wike against Amechi's APC. The truth is that the people have already reject Amechi and APC.

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Politics / Re: I Never Referred To Obasanjo In My Speech – Saraki by Godwin10123: 3:50pm On Feb 03, 2016
The fear of baba is the beginning of ...... Go ask GEJ
Politics / Re: Blame Jonathan For N'delta Militancy Attacks - Oshiomhole by Godwin10123: 7:01pm On Jan 20, 2016
Whatever made OshomoIa hate GEJ Iike this must be very serious.This hatred pass Jesus and Satan.
grin
Politics / Re: Apostle Johnson Suleiman Prophecizes Fulani Attack In Benue And Speaks On Biafra by Godwin10123: 1:28pm On Jan 10, 2016
;DLooking for Easterners trouble
Family / Re: How Some Ladies Are Destroying Their Marriage Without Knowing by Godwin10123: 6:10pm On Jan 07, 2016
delishpot:
Typical......to the average Nigerian only the wife has a role to play for a marriage to seem to be working.
No advice is ever given to the husbands except to just sit back and enjoy the services of their wives.
Odiegwu, I pity women sha.

Pls if u know the roles/duties of a husband, just tell us so we can learn. No man is an island
Family / How Some Ladies Are Destroying Their Marriage Without Knowing by Godwin10123: 10:39pm On Jan 06, 2016
How some Ladies are destroying their Marriage without knowing

If you are one of those ladies who no longer respect people who are older than you because of the things you see in social media then you can't be my friend; I will keep you at bay. Respect for ones elders is one of the cardinal principles I learn from my parents and I live by that. Many marriages are failing today because women want to be equal with men blindly, hence there is no peace on many homes.

Read this interesting eye-opener from a married woman...

When I got married, I was amazed at the instant, overwhelming sense of responsibility I felt to love and care for my husband. Suddenly, a huge part of someone else’s well-being and happiness was largely affected by my choices and actions.

Women, we need to be careful about how we are caring for our husbands and marriages. Don’t let the small stuff ruin the things that will bring you the greatest happiness in life.

Here are just a few ways you might be unknowingly destroying your husband and killing your marriage.

1. Living outside of what you can afford
A wise old woman from my church congregation once advised: “The best thing you can do as a wife is to live within your husband’s means.”

Wives, show sincere appreciation and respect to your husband by carefully following a budget and making the most of what you have. Be wise about your finances.

Constantly complaining about not having enough to fulfill your lavish desires or racking up astronomical amounts of debt for yourself and your husband is a poor way of saying “thank you” to a faithful spouse who works hard every day to provide for the family.

Yes, you may not have enough to buy that deigner shoes or bag you’ve had your eyes on recently, but your husband will love and appreciate the fact that you honor him and are grateful for what he provides.

2. Constant negativity
You hate your hair, the messes around the house, the neighbor across the street, your dumb co-worker, the old dishwasher, and everything in between. As soon as your husband walks through the door, you launch into action and dump every negative and angry thought that’s crossed your mind.

Can you imagine having to carry that burden? Negativity is draining. Men like to fix things, and constantly being hounded with complaints makes it difficult for him to help solve your pains.

If there is one thing I’ve learned from marriage is that a good man wants you to be happy, and if he can’t help you do that, it makes him unhappy.

3. Putting everything else first
When your children, mom, best friends, talents, or career in front of your husband, you send a clear message to him that he is unimportant. Imagine having that message sent to you every day for many years. What would that do to your self esteem?

Put your husband first! Although it sometimes seems counter-intuitive and counterproductive, I think you’d be amazed to find that it’s often the key to the greatest happiness in marriage. So many couples get divorced these days, because of neglect and to a large extent disrespect.

If you choose to put him first, you will find a lot of joy.

4. Withholding physical affection
Men crave and need physical affection with their wives. When you constantly decline intimacy, it wears on them. Sex should not be used as a tool to control your spouse; it should be viewed as a sacred tool to draw you closer to one another and to God.

It is a great blessing to be wanted and needed by a loving, romantic husband who wants to share something so beautiful and important with you — and you only. Even though you might not always be in the mood, it’s worth it to give in (unless you are sick) and spend that time bonding.

5. Not speaking his language
Don’t waste your time giving subtle hints that he won’t understand: Speak plainly to him. Be honest about your feelings, and don’t bottle things up until you burst. If he asks you what’s wrong, don’t respond with “nothing” and then expect him to read your mind. Be open to your man and grow your marriage.

http://www.olufamous.com/2016/01/how-some-ladies-today-are-killing-their.html?m=1

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Politics / Re: See What Senator Ben-murray Bruce Said About Naira-dollar Co-efficient! by Godwin10123: 2:47pm On Dec 19, 2015
My good Friend let's be realistic those senator will not settle for nigeria assembed SUVs besides govt should be cutting down on expenses.
ehissi:


My Good man, have you ever heard of Innoson motors? Or the fact that companies like honda now have assembly plants in Nigeria where some of their flagship brands like Accord and civic are assembled?? Even pegeout, Volkswagen, Kia,Hyundai and Nissan as well do same!!

Its good to be informed oh; that way you can make sense of commonsense; don't you think??
Politics / Re: Re-electing Jonathan Would Have Ruined Nigeria’s Future – Tinubu by Godwin10123: 9:39am On Dec 19, 2015
Because your likes and the north would have made it ungovernable for him
Politics / Re: See What Senator Ben-murray Bruce Said About Naira-dollar Co-efficient! by Godwin10123: 9:24am On Dec 19, 2015
Professor of Common Sense speaking, hope the proposed SUVs for the senators has been cancelled. It also contributes the falling of naira because Nigeria do not manufacture SUVs.

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Politics / Re: Jonathan Govt’s Response To Chibok Girls Case Unimpressive -buhari by Godwin10123: 4:28pm On Jul 08, 2015
Here comes the wailling wailler! All abt complaining of GEJ as a reason 4 his failures. I remembered he promised to find the girls. GEJ was incompetent while u re a competent four star General. Oya!!! produce the girls.

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Politics / Re: Aregbesola Must Go Live Protest In Osogbo This Morning. (photos Attached). by Godwin10123: 10:15am On Jul 07, 2015
E bi like say the juju don dey fade.

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Politics / Re: Buhari Is Clueless On How To Solve Nigeria’s Problems – Balarabe Musa by Godwin10123: 8:34am On Jul 07, 2015
Even the North preach revolution! Very interesting.
Politics / Re: Africa's Top 10 Problems: Not The Ones You Were Thinking About! by Godwin10123: 7:57pm On Jul 06, 2015
I feel so ashamed! Only few people made comment over this write up, but if its about igbos and yoruba or PDP and APC everybody will be gushing out slaver from their mouth.
We allow these divisions to impede our success and progress. Its a shame!!!

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Politics / Re: Kano High Court Orders EFCC Not To Arrest Kwankwaso by Godwin10123: 6:06am On Jul 03, 2015
Interesting!!! This is how we will fight corruption. Abi
Politics / Re: Iweala Replies Oshiomhole, El-rufai; Denies Spending Oil Money Without Approval by Godwin10123: 10:09pm On Jun 30, 2015
I wonder how a committee inauguarated yesterday will on same day accused somebody of stealing, embezzlement etc when they have not held an official meeting as a committee or thoroughly gone through the reports and investigate, giving each person fair hearing. Member of NEC have not acted maturely.

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Politics / Re: Iweala Replies Oshiomhole, El-rufai; Denies Spending Oil Money Without Approval by Godwin10123: 10:08pm On Jun 30, 2015
I wonder how a committee inauguarated yesterday will on same day accused somebody of stealing, embezzlement etc when they have not held an official meeting as a committee or thoroughly gone through the report and investigte, giving each person fair hearing. Member of NEC have not acted maturely.

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Politics / Re: Revealed: “In Three Years, NNPC Generated N8.1 Trn, Gave Nigeria N4.3 Trn by Godwin10123: 7:03am On Jun 30, 2015
businesslawyer:
Kindly think smart and learn to read thoroughly before commenting. If u read properly you would notice that NNPC was summoned to do a report to the NEC and they gave the figure of 8.1 trillion whereas what is on record is 4.3 trillion do u now understand? Its a simple deductive reasoning.
Which NEC was the Report submitted? Nobody has summoned any NNPC official for any report. NEC was instituted yesterday. They only commented based on the minutes of previous meeting of NNPC and minister of finance comment on the state of the account. I think you need to understand that.
Politics / Re: Revealed: “In Three Years, NNPC Generated N8.1 Trn, Gave Nigeria N4.3 Trn by Godwin10123: 1:06am On Jun 30, 2015
This NEC was inaugurated just 2day and the 1st thing was 2 go on air 2 start crying over missing figure without due investigation. I think this is wrong. They should investigate before coming out to derail nigerians. I believe it too early to label anybody a thief witout giving such fellow a fair hearing. From their statements, investigation has been concluded already. I think Somebody is witch hunting somebody by all means! I'm not in defence of both ministers(petroleum and finance) but I believe that investigation should be thorough and unbiase.
Politics / DEAR MEN And WOMEN Do U Agree? by Godwin10123: 8:33am On Jun 27, 2015
DEAR MEN!
1. When she stares at your mouth, kiss
her.
2. When she pushes you or hits you like
a dummie because she thinks she's
stonger then you, grab her and don't
let go.
3. When she starts cursing at you trying
to act all tough, kiss her and tell her
you love her.
4. When she's quiet, ask her what's
wrong.
5. When she ignores you, give her your
attention.
6. When she pulls away, pull her back.
7. When you see her at her worst, tell
her she's beautiful.
8. When you see her start crying, just
hold her and don't say a word.
9. When you see her walking, sneak up
and hug her waist from behind.
10. When she's scared, protect her.
11. When she steals your favorite cap,
let her keep it and sleep with it for a
night.
12. When she teases you, tease her back
and make her laugh.
13. When she doesn't answer for a long
time, reassure her that everything is
okay.
14. When she looks at you with doubt,
back yourself up.
15. When she says she loves you, she
really does more then you can
understand.
16. When she grabs at your hands, hold
her's and play with her fingers.
17. When she bumps into you, bump into
her back and make her laugh.
18. When she tells you a secret, keep it
safe and untold.
19. Trust her.
20. When she looks at you in your eyes,
don't look away until she does.
21. When she says it's over, she still
wants you to be hers.
22. When she shares this post, she
wants you to read it.
23. Stay on the phone with her, even if
she's not saying anything.
24. When she's mad, hug her tight and
don't let go.
25. When she says she's okay, don't
believe it. Talk with her because ten
years later, she'll remember you.
26. Call her at 12:00am on her birthday
to tell her you love her.
27. Treat her like she's all that matters to
you.
28. Stay up with her all night when she's
sick.
29. Watch her favorite movie with her or
her favorite show, even if you think it's
stupid.
30. Give her your world.
31. Let her wear your clothes.
32. When she's bored and sad, hang out
with her.
33. Let her know she's important.
34. Don't talk about other girls around
her.
35. Kiss her in the pouring rain.
YEAH! I know such guys are hard to find... But they still exist oh..
SO LADIES! If you have a guy who does all these, please don't ever break his heart.
Politics / Re: The Economist Special Report On Nigeria - Economist by Godwin10123: 6:21am On Jun 26, 2015
Story story!!!
Politics / Re: Breakdown Of The N7trillion Deficit Left By Jonathan Administration by Godwin10123: 11:21pm On Jun 25, 2015
Not much of a big deal. FG can handle the deficit by using domestic debt securities or print more money to pay up some debt den mop up excess money supply later. They must be ready to deal with inflation. (I think)
Politics / Re: South Africa Threatens ICC Withdrawal Over Al-bashir Controversy by Godwin10123: 10:57pm On Jun 25, 2015
Why the arrest in the first place
Politics / Re: Oby Ezekwesili Lectures Jonathan's Minister Over Alleged $30billion ECA Fund by Godwin10123: 5:31pm On Jun 24, 2015
Whatever she said is same with what the minister said. Abt 3 billion dollars in ECA, 30 billion dollars in foreign reserve account and 200 billion naira in sovereign wealth fund. So what is the difference? The question shld be 're those amount balance in the said accounts? Buhari administration shld answer dat.

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Politics / Re: Unpaid Salaries; Serving Osun Judge Asks For Aregbesola's Impeachment by Godwin10123: 12:10am On Jun 24, 2015
I'm glad that there is still one reasonable man not bewitched by the Gov'nor.

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Politics / Re: Amaechi: Wike Should Move To Nollywood, Ex-Governor Responds To Probe Report by Godwin10123: 7:34am On Jun 22, 2015
Interesting!!! Well, allow Nigerians to determine the genuineness of the report. I love it wen politicians fight like dis!
Career / The 9 Worst Mistakes You Can Make At Work by Godwin10123: 9:15am On Jun 20, 2015
We've all heard of (or seen firsthand) people doing some pretty crazy things at work.

Truth is, you don't have to throw a chair through a window or quit in the middle of a presentation to cause irreparable damage to your career.

No matter how talented you are or what you've accomplished, there are certain behaviors that instantly change the way people see you and forever cast you in a negative light.

The following list contains nine of the most notorious behaviors that you should avoid at all costs.

1. Backstabbing
The name says it all. Stabbing your colleagues in the back, intentionally or otherwise, is a huge source of strife in the workplace. One of the most frequent forms of backstabbing is going over someone's head to solve a problem. People typically do this in an attempt to avoid conflict, but they end up creating even more conflict as soon as the victim feels the blade. Anytime you make someone look bad in the eyes of their colleagues, it feels like a stab in the back, regardless of your intentions.

2. Gossiping
People make themselves look terrible when they get carried away with gossiping about other people. Wallowing in talk of other people's misdeeds or misfortunes may end up hurting their feelings if the gossip finds its way to them, but gossiping will make you look negative and spiteful every time, guaranteed.

3. Taking Credit for Someone Else's Work
We've all experienced that stomach-dropping feeling that happens when you discover that someone has stolen your idea. Taking credit for someone else's work — no matter how small — creates the impression that you haven't accomplished anything significant on your own. Stealing credit also shows that you have zero regard for your team and your working relationships.

4. Having an Emotional Hijacking
My company provides 360° feedback and executive coaching, and we come across far too many instances of people throwing things, screaming, making people cry, and other telltale signs of an emotional hijacking.

An emotional hijacking demonstrates low emotional intelligence, and it's an easy way to get fired. As soon as you show that level of instability, people will question whether or not you're trustworthy and capable of keeping it together when it counts.

Exploding at anyone, regardless of how much they might "deserve it," turns a huge amount of negative attention your way. You'll be labeled as unstable, unapproachable, and intimidating. Controlling your emotions keeps you in the driver's seat. When you are able to control your emotions around someone who wrongs you, they end up looking bad instead of you.

5. Announcing That You Hate Your Job
The last thing anyone wants to hear at work is someone complaining about how much they hate their job. Doing so labels you as a negative person and brings down the morale of the group. Bosses are quick to catch on to naysayers who drag down morale, and they know that there are always enthusiastic replacements waiting just around the corner.

6. Bragging
When someone hits a home run and starts gloating as they run the bases, it's safe to assume that they haven't hit very many home runs. On the other hand, if they hit a home run and simply run the bases, it conveys a business-as-usual mentality, which is far more intimidating to the other team.

Accomplishing great things without bragging about them demonstrates the same strong mentality — it shows people that succeeding isn't unusual to you.

7. Telling Lies
So many lies begin with good intentions — people want to protect themselves or someone else — but lies have a tendency to grow and spread until they're discovered, and once everyone knows that you've lied, there's no taking it back.

Getting caught up in a lie, no matter how small, is exhausting and hard on your self-esteem. You have to be authentic if you want to be happy with who you are.

8. Eating Smelly Food
Unless you happen to work on a ship, your colleagues are going to mind if you make the entire place smell like day-old fish. The general rule of thumb when it comes to food at work is, anything with an odor that might waft beyond the kitchen door should be left at home.

It might seem like a minor thing, but smelly food is inconsiderate and distracting — and so easily avoidable. When something that creates discomfort for other people is so easily avoided, it tends to build resentment quickly. Your pungent lunch tells everyone that you just don't care about them, even when you do.

9. Burning Bridges
So much of work revolves around the people you meet and the connections you make. Dropping an atomic bomb on any professional relationship is a major mistake.

One of TalentSmart's clients is a large chain of coffee shops. They have a relatively high turnover, so when a barista quits, it isn't usually taken personally. One barista, however, managed to burn every single bridge she had in a single day. The surprising thing is that she didn't yell or do anything extreme; all she did was leave.

Without warning, she showed up to her Monday shift, told the store manager she was quitting (she had found a better-paying job somewhere else), and walked out. The result, of course, was that every shift that she was scheduled to work for the next two weeks had to be done with one less person, as she provided no time to find a replacement.

She most likely saw her actions as being offensive only to the manager (whom she didn't like), but in reality, she created two miserable weeks for everyone who worked at the shop. She ruined her otherwise positive connections, with every single one of her colleagues.

 Culled from Business Insider

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