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Thank you jada27,your advice is the best.
i have been struggling with ladies
given my problems in my marriage.
Pls pray for me.

i know say i don old but i still dey marketable.
but its just a forum for us to discuss.
i am human my brother.
No need to cast a stone pls.

@mahal
hope u are sane,
you could a victim someday
face you sec school education and stop insulting real gentlemen
on this forum.
have some culture and sanity added to your life.
Get born again man

Thanks Guys for your pieces of advice. I differenciated btw the MATURED guys and those layabouts who knows nothing about marriage issues. They all
came up with a hollier than thou attitude.
PLS FRANKIES AND ALMONDJOY should pls take it easy. pls bury whats btw you and be good to one another . Pls i beg.
I have decided to give my marriage a chance.
I talk more to my wife now and though we are not there yet but there is hope.
To you guys who were very fair in judging me, i say thank you.
But formy friends who are fighting online, pls forgive each other.
Peace and Love

My wife is not just into romance/sex. i am and that making me
do what i ordinarily wont do. I am a handsome guy (apologies).
i started the office thing like a fling and now the lady is overwhelmed
and want me to touch her everyday. She is too much into me now.

My subordinate wants me. Though married and unhappy, i feel the urge to give in.

We have kissed and touched the sensitive parts of each other but I am worried. She is very much into me now.

What do i do? Am beginning to fall in love too. Please don't crucify me!

Your advice has been quite encouraging for those who have sent very honest replies.
Right now we do live as total strangers. She does not give sex anymore and i feel like going out to get one.
i dont feel like that would be chating on her. She is one mistake of my life.
I should have known.
Guys its not funny for me.

I found love letters written by a man to my wife.
i didnt ask her about it but took my time to dig further and to my amazement,
she has been in romantic communication with this guy.
when i blew the lid with evidences, she agreed being very close to the guy but
swore that she never slept with him. i am confused and devastated.
why would a married women do that?
As for our sex life, she never yeilds and wen she does, its like fulfilling all
righteousness. I am very disturbed. Should i seek for divource?