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yup yup, why LOL. So many have been destroyed physically and psychologically with fear of not paying tithe!!!

pweetiedee:
Really?

This is not funny!!!

pweetiedee:
Lol

Some of the herdsmen are Christians too. They are also paying tithes.... It will be wrong for pastors to condemn their members you know LOL

MrMcJay:
How many of your Pastors condemned the fulani herdsmen attacks?

Do you remember how they were quick to respond when the FG wanted to impose a term limit on their leadership? Now that herdsmen are killing their members, they're all deaf and dumb.

Please ignore them. How many of their daddy GOs condemned Fulani herdsman? Beside, what has this discussion got to do with Fulanis, it is their usual mischievous diversionary tactics....

Some of them can't feed properly, they are so foolish that they would give the little crumbs they have to their GOs who never knew how they feed in their miserable lives. It is only in the developing world that this nonsense makes sense because their brain is also developing....

Please don't moan at me oo! Just hold on tight to your chain.

PrecisionFx:
Daddy freeze didn't open his mouth to condemn the fulani herdsmen for the killings that they have done......

Seriously, Are u unable to use ur brain to reason

Omo 'badan ki ni soo TBH IB is a better place IMHO compared to places I have been in Nigeria ie Lagos, Plateau, Kaduna, Ondo, Osun except ABJ. The rest I that have not been could not stand IB...

Lawlahdey:
Yeah, once in a while.

Kilode Why these creative abuses on one person?

0ldirtybastard:
You've always been a negative bastard since the creation of time with your left-handed reasoning. Were you abused as a child?

I like your view on this! Money for sex should never have been in the equation in the first place. Sadly, the reality of of poverty makes such situation ubiquitous....

Heloct:
I wouldn't know anyway. But I believe both should come when you are way comfortable with yourselves.

If a lady is comfortable to ask money in a relationship, then, she should be comfy to gladly accept sêx.

If a guy should be comfortable having sêx with a lady, then, he should be comfy to give if she asks..

Whatever rocks their boat.

It still baffles me why people find it easy to be asking for money. I still find it difficult to request from my parents let alone one guy like that. Everyone needs money and the best way to get it is to work for it or just ask people you are comfortable with. I hate asking for help. This issue of sêx for money in a relationship isn't something worth discussing at all.

Your sobriquet says it all... If you can't understand my view no point in clarifying.

menstrualpad:
I insist that not everyone here is emeshed in endemic poverty.

I am not talking about poverty here. But only subtly highlighting how she sweetened that her story.

What she bought is irrelevant to me as that is her prerogative to share if she wants to...

menstrualpad:
Not everyone is emeshed in endemic poverty. And you are yet to ask her what she bought.

I understand that it is doable if you are doing well in business or in good job but the way you tell that story was what baffled me.

Buying a car is not like buying a purewater and your story sounded like that. Buying a car involves more effort than just reactive snap decision if you get my drift...

alexialin:
Well if u are doing well in buisness and u have a saving culture? Buying a car is not a huge deal.

Hey, you still going on this matter. I have been out and about, just got back from shopping mall Greenhithe.

Lagos is a savage man land. Years ago some ruffians tried manhandle a female friend passing through Oshodi just because she wore a tight fitted knee length t-shirt gown.

Imagine if your mama was not there you would have been telling a different story today. Always be wary of Nigerian gatherings of more than 3 men - they can easily lose their inhibition/sensibility once they see a passing girl in skimpy or sexy dress.

I understand it does happen in carnival but police do arrest culprits and many were arrested for sexual offences during recent concluded Notting Hill Carnival.

Lalas247:
lol I have given up hope
Hence y when I travel I don't stay in Lagos long you know what .. I experienced in that Lagos market hian
Fear catch me oh thank God for my mama
So we were doing some shopping getting bulk items
And the traders could see my tattoo come n see the market traders (men) trying to grab me all I was hearing was "pretty girl like you why? " " nine why you do this to your skin " "fine girl you just ruin yourself " "you are fine but grabs my arm mark of the beast"
Lol last time I ever steeped foot in that market though my mum shouted at them in Igbo dunno what she said and they smiled begged her n left saying they were just teasing ahhh

But you know what it does happen at carnival tho.. that's why I avoid it like plague .. dem fit rape u seff you won't know .. you turn round see like 10 guys who will you hold Biko

I am sorry they would not understand because of their barbaric Nigerian mentality. If they dare try that nonsense in London or other part of UK na prison and deportation straight after spending time in prison...

Lalas247:
Men you are the first person who gets it
Abeg tell them oh
Lol your ppl no dey fear sha I dey tell them that 24 that the guy got for yansh pressing was small .. he now fears God

Yes that is the correct end in UK. It falls under sexual assault by touching (section 3 of SOA 2003). The guy was even lucky his prison sentence could have been up to 10 years..

Lalas247:
Well a guy grab my ass on the street
He did 24 month in prison ... take note true story
That's 2 years for an ass squeeze

Yinmu! Na so e easy to buy car just like that.

Beside, how did he grab and kiss you just like that?

alexialin:
Am not lying.

av not experience such anyways.

And I will not experience it.

I was only grabbed and kissed Quickly once at a busstop while I was waiting for bus Very early in the morning, and the guy ran away as fast as his legs could carry him.
I was so furious, shocked in fact everyone around me were shocked.

I had to enter any bus available, and that's the reason I bought a car.

I had to choose between having a huge bodyguard around me when am. Going out or get a car
But I chose buying a car instead, quickly the next week.

Mehn it was terrifying. I can't even comprehend.

Try it in London or any western world and I promise prison sentence and deportation will be your end if you are caught. Don't you know that is a terrible crime and thing to do...

Melvyn11:
I can grab any girl ass anywhere. Whats d highest thing she can do.

You are not bad looking. But you seem to be making a ludicrous inference here albeit with no evidence. Do you know something more than reported here.

folakemigeh:
na wa o, probably the Rev Father might have had a shady dealing with them which went bad..


Anyway, i pray he gets well soon.... Getting shot by a Gun is not "chesting" 10 rounds of cane ooooo

folakemigeh:
A Celibate

Celibate in what sense? Are you suggesting back passage usage

folakemigeh:
Proud Semi-Virgin

What does this mean?

Damn f..king hilarious ... You!!!

NwaAmaikpe:



In my unbiased honest opinion based on biblical commandments.

I believe it is a sin,
Sex is an iniquity whether inside or outside of marriage.
The Bible says in Psalms 51:5;
"Behold, I was shapen in iniquity; and in sin did my mother conceive me."

The Bible also says in Exodus 20:8
"Remember the sabbath day, to keep it holy."

So your wife is right, sex on the sabbath day is not right.
If you must have sex with her on the Sabbath, make it holy by either lubricating her with anointing oil,
tying a mantle or her neck, speaking in tongues instead of moaning or burning of incences in the bedroom.

But I'd advice you not to take this lying low with your her because it's either;
She's a fanatical dumbfvck who was rightly described in Proverbs 14:1 as
" the foolish woman who plucketh down her house with her own hands."

Or

She's getting the D from someone else and isn't fascinated by yours anymore.

Shallom.

Morning Nairaland,

I have been a silent Nairaland reader for a long time and then decided to create an account today!

While the above is good news in itself for Nairaland owners as they stand to gain more than I do - this is because for everytime I waste here writing or reading translates into money for them...

What stood like sore thumb in my face in the first post attempt is the warnings or is it Rule to observe that Nairaland wants you to abide with while posting on their space. Nairaland went by saying "Please Observe The Following Rules" without anywhere highlighting whether there are consequences for failing to abide by them.

It is worrying for me or puzzling how Nairaland often fail to enforce these warnings - is it that it not worth their time or just window dressing to fit in with corporate niceties?

I have in my various times read a lot of comments that have fell fowl of these rules. As an example, there are times a lot of articles have been derailed, people have been making xenophobic, homophobic, ethnic/ tribalistic comments, not to talk about religious zealot warriors in their pageantry display of their warped superior religious comments etc.

So guys, please share your thoughts on these rules and what experiences you have about those that have flouted the rules. And as a new entrant, what is the best way to avoid these undesirable elements?

I am not a fan of many of the rules because some are nice but some are not fit for purpose.

For ease of discussion the rules are below:

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