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Fubra is such a very weak man.

No stamina to challenge wike. So pathetic

Sonnobax15:
. All lies. No hospital would do that. Abi na Dem wan help the man pay the money if the money don accumulate?

It is true because another woman there confirmed it.

According to them, it's either the new hospital management implemented that or it's part of government policy. More reason he was regretting that if he had known he would have gone to a private hospital.

Sonnobax15:
He should be happy his wife gave birth to their child successfully and another man's child didn't die during the process of childbirth.

People wey God bless no just know wetin God don do for them

Yeah, we told him this too that alot of women died along with their child during child birth but his was successful.

Dude no even send us at all. He said he was eargly expecting a son. I guess he already has a way of celebrating the delivery if it was a boy child.

Sonnobax15:

Na better bomb dey inside that your guy head.

Whether a girl or boy child,the one wey go disgrace you go disgrace you irrespective of the gender.

As for the part of being extorted by the hospital,why can't he take his wife home and let her be going to the hospital to be receiving her treatment. That'll at least reduce the cost of the hospital bed he's paying for.

According to him, the hospital refused to discharge them until all tests and results along with the necessary medications have been given

Sonnobax15:

Na better bomb dey inside that your guy head.

It so sad.

He said he has been married before but divorced. According to him, the first wife he married didn't have womb. That he didn't know until a day to the marriage when rumours has flown around and someone told him about it. He thought it was a joke, he then told him his family and finally asked the lady about it, at first she denied it but later admitted it was true.

That she did abortion for her ex boyfriend and that her womb was removed while the abortion procedures took place.

This is the main reason why he was so sad after his wife gave birth to a female child.

My business associate came to my office and we congratulated him on his wife safe delivery and his new baby girl arrival. But we noticed he wasn't happy and asked what was wrong, first he complained about the hospital and its numerous extortions. It's a federal government hospital and he kept saying if he had known he would have gone to a private hospital instead.

His wife has been in the hospital for 2 weeks after she delivered and each day he was asked to pay #10k for the hospital bed, excluding numerous tests and other expenses because his wife delivered through CS.

This is the craziest part, he said his wife gave birth to a female child and although he thank God for the successful delivery but why a female child? That he is afraid of what is going to become of her because female child nowadays can do and undo, he made mention of the way women nowadays dresses, the sex and finally pregnancy that'll follow suit and that no matter how you talk or train the female child, if she wants to go and have sex, she'll still do it regardless without you knowing at all.

The guy went on complaining and rambling with so much pains in his face. I even tried encouraging him to take the baby to his mother (that is, the baby's grandmother) when she comes of age so the old woman will train her but other guys there said that would be worst because the old woman will spoil and pamper her too much.

Why is it that most men don't want female child?

israelmao:
He didn't love you in the first place you do.That is just the hard truth.If someone you thought you were so close and loved could go to that extent you are yet to find the true love.

She didn't love him either because she's used to men simping for her.

Keeping a guy waiting for 2 months is a sign she never wanted him in the first place. Meanwhile those 2 months she was entertaining other guys and visiting them, until they dumped her, she then suddenly remembered this one.

He did well.

You didn't forget to ask for your tfare money

No we don't.

Plus size women always look good on clothes but if they pull it off, you'll just get angry immediately.

Meanwhile the ones in the picture are irritating. Give me thick girls and semi curve girls anyday anytime twice on Friday morning

Goodman024:
Yes, we both work. Her work doesn't involve any stress though. It's a local government job, they basically sit in the office from morning till evening.
And of course, I work. I work from 9am to 5pm, Monday to Friday.

Washing her clothes is an insult to the brotherhood. Oga is she the first woman to get pregnant? Our mothers were pregnant of us, still went to farm, markets, served our fathers food, wash etc. all these Gen z girls are being spoilt and pampered too much. Social media is spoiling things.

Why wash her clothes? What kind of insult is this? She's just manipulating you because she's pregnant. After delivery she'll continue manipulating you to continue washing her clothes and cleaning the house for her. This is a taboo. Is your mother still alive?

Dude, seek advice from her asap. No mother will watch her son washing his wife clothes. She'll tell you you're under spell or JuJu that she herself was pregnant of you and still played her role towards your father.

What you normalized in your relationship is what will always continue. The choice is yours!

Oju4190:
What do u mean dat her job is a local Govet job. Dat DEY are sitting all day doing nothing?

You and know exactly what the OP is saying, so why the pretence?

If it was Tinubu, the would have made sure he borrowed at least 500b$ before leaving there

Chisave:
Oga the issue here is not she not willing to pay. It is about the guy deliberately willing to steal.

People like you will still criticise girls for willingly dating Yahoo boiz and rich guys without verifying their source of livelihood.

The issue here is about honesty which is a red flag for me as a guy as well. If I am your friend and you tried to cheat another person of N200, I will most likely cut you off not that I can't pay the N200

After ranting why couldn't the girl pay the said 500# as she brought it to his noticed and he refused? It simply means she's broke and poor. She cannot pay ordinary 500# but she followed him to go and buy food that she will eat from as if she's the one paying.

Broke girls are not my spec. They irritates me so much.

Atiku will never be president of Nigeria.

They said it is the turn of the South , but the Dubai man keeps fooling himself every election year

Chisave:
Is that english is si difficult to understand or you lack comprehension. You didn't see she called his attention to the mistake but the guy doesn't want to pay

As the guy refused to pay, so what stops her from going back to correct the error by paying it with her own Money so they can be justified? Broke women annoys me alot.

The guy paid for the food remaining 500# and yet couldn't pay it even when the guy deliberately refused. so what's the essence she's dating? To be a complete liability and parasite? May I never come across broke women like her. Broke women irritates me alot

This one has sense more than sim card

We Yorubas hereby disowned this actor and labelled his report as fake news.

Avoid broke women Una no go hear.

So why couldn't go back to pay the remaining 500#? A broke doesn't have anything to offer. Instead of asking the guy to go back and pay, why didn't she go back and pay with her own money? Broke women irritates me alot

Classicals:
The OP is right. But most of the people supporting him are making the wrong point.

If you typically eat in buka. You shouldn't be impressing a girl by dinning with her at more expensive places. You have to make her understand thats your level.

But it's honestly not the best.
There is no way someone responsible will trust you enough nowadays to rush into a 1st date in your house & straight enter kitchen. Unless the visit was circunsntancial and it won't be long.
We don't need to bother with food then.
There is an extent to which intimacy has grown before cooking comes in.

Those parks are usually teeming with people too much in close proximity for a deep conversation when getting to know each other.

Yes. Na poor man mentally of both the man and woman to be focusing on food. Choose good environment but order very little.

You need to learn game or perish.

Women are way hornier and have a very high sexual urge far more than men. You need to understand the difference between lust and being attractive. The moment you meet a girl she immediately categories Which place you fit in, in her subconscious mind based on your energy levels and your confidence. The bad boys are the fck boys, they're the ones she lust after, this is where I belong. They invite her over to their houses because they already know that she wants to be fcked, they don't waste in what they want.

The aka nice guys are the Mugus who she places as boring. These ones take her to restaurants, bukas, eatery joints etc, they do everything within their power to impress her into liking them, worst still, she'll never give them her cochies because they're mugus and always hiding their true intentions which was to smash her. They'll keep spending and spending while she goes on to visit the bad boys back to back with a very hot smashing.

Dude, learn game or perish

pneumaticos:
This is a trained lady...the most important there is your vision for the marriage and your assignment

If you can't answer that, you are a fool and if she accepts you like that, she is a big fool

Oga, the OP should simply asked the lady if she's a virgin and watch her insult him.

Only a foolish man will answer such nonsense questions from a lady. Imagine a woman asking Elon musk those stupid questions. The thing is.. the non virgin girl don see the op finish, she wants to use the guy for retirement after enjoying her youth very well hence the reason she believes she's doing the op a favour by marrying him.

Pathetic! May I never have a friend, let alone a family member like this op

Kennitrust:
Good day my follow Nairalanders.

Everyday, life opens a new chapter of life to us. My own chapter had been opened and and it read... "it time to get married.

In the church I attended, there I met this girl so mature enough to be taken in as a wife. I approach her for the first time and I started asking her out. Seem she knew my intention, she started asking me about my church life, my family, my business and all that not.

To be honest with her, I did my best to answer every question in the language she could understand.

She seems not still satisfied with my account, she sent me this message at about 5am.
Said until I respond to those questions, she won't have anything to do with me again.

I'm truly confused on wether everyone that finds love 💕 really goes through this rigorous question.

And more about her life, she spent almost everyday in church after work. She said if I'm truly serious, I should also be as serious as she is in going and participating in all weekly activities in the church.

Please help, how do I answer this questions, since it the only options she said can bring us together?

This is exactly what we call SIMPing of the highest order.

Imagine a girl who isn't even a virgin is clearly acting like she's doing you a favour by coming to end her non virgin life with you? Lmao 🤣🤣🤣

She gave you assignments to answer, something she never told or asked all those guys that had smashed her in the past and the one that's currently smashing her.

The fact she sent you that simply means you're jobless and she don see you finish. Oga abort that mission and look for a normal girl to marry. This church non virgin seem bossy. See the nonsense She's even asking you.

Greatdand007:
We brought a nurse in and she check her bp was high

What does nurses know?

My brother take her to a good hospital so a medical qualify expert can check her thoroughly and prescribe the needed Medication

Greatdand007:
Doctor in the house what cause sudden fall in old age my mum fell 3 times today

Take her to a good hospital and have her checked.

Her BP might be high or low and her sugar level must be checked too. Ensure she doesn't walk to a far distance etc.

Parachoko:
But Obidients were claiming Asiwaju is Afraid of Prosecuting their Maister up north

There's no administration who has fought corruption like Asiwaju

His government is also clean

The man has since been released since yesterday.

Ibehchizzy:
Omo I skinny like mad
No be say I no dey chop o
I used to be on super apeti drugs for three Straight months, then I put on a lot of weight close to 13kg extra
But then I was recommended to stop using it to avoid health complications
Within two months I sheded my weight and went back to square one 🤣
Just looking for a routine or diet not too expensive to maintain
Ps I don’t gym

Eat and get plenty sleep and rest often. You'll be amazed how you'll start gaining more weight

Togo is a village in Nigeria. Do people go there?

menaxe:
Something happened in my house this evening that’s been bothering me, and I’d like your honest advice.

My wife went out for a girls hangout. When she came back, she didn’t notice I was in the parking lot watching.

She called the gateman over, brought out her leg, and told him to remove her shoe. He took off the first canvas shoe, then the second. She didn’t notice I was there.

After he removed the shoes, she told him to take them to the cobbler for repair.

I just watched and didn’t say anything at the time. It looked to me like she was overusing the gateman, and it didn’t sit right with me.

Later, I called her aside and told her what she did was wrong but she said she didn’t know it was wrong and didn’t see the issue. I asked her what she meant by “it’s not wrong,” and she just repeated that she didn’t know.

Now I’m confused. I don’t know if I’m overreacting, overstepping, or making too much of it.

Nairalanders, please tell me honestly — is this wrong, or am I out of line here?

Thank you.

Go broke, you'll understand the message you wife is trying to pass on you.

You'll wash her pants and bra and clean the entire house

UBA is the most useless Bank ever!

The day I opened an account with them, I closed it within 2 weeks.

Thanks to Opay and first Bank

As it should be!

After Obi's tenure as the president then it'll be kwankwaso

kedeojo:
Stop dreaming. the best ticket that could have shake Tinubu badly was atiku-obi ticket. you guys just lack political strategy. there is no pathway to igbo presidency in 2027. stop playing nzogbu nzogbu politics.

Atiku will never smell presidency ever again. I'd rather vote kwankwaso than to vote Atiku the greedy f..ool

What happened in 2019 when he teamed up with obi? Dude, Obi can and mustn't be vice to Atiku. Is obi a kid to you?

We're going to be OK!