₦airaland Forum

Naya261:
My brother-in-law is a pastor with his own ministry. He’s been married to my younger sister for 14 years, but he’s a pathological liar who fabricates and exaggerates things effortlessly.

For example, if you eat at his house once or twice, he’ll claim he’s the reason you’re alive that without him, hunger would have killed you.

I stayed with them for 4 months in 2014 after youth service, learning a skill that should have taken 2 years. I left early because of his behavior and rented my own place by December 2014.

He now tells people he “rescued me from the village” when my father abandoned me, but I was 27 at the time, not a child that can be abandoned.

He claims the food I ate in his house for 4months (Aug–Dec 2014) was worth over ₦2 million. In reality, I ate once a day (dinner) because I left home at 7am and returned at 6pm except on Sundays, when I ate twice.

He says he no longer wants to be married to my sister, and my family has accepted his decision, but he’s slandering her: claiming she has sex video chats with men for money, has a boyfriend, and that she has even poisoned him once, causing him to pass out and come back to life, none of these allegations he can prove

My sister has been staying with me for over 3 months, but he's telling his church members that my sister is currently staying with another man.

Recently, he called my father asking for a meeting to reconcile, but I told my father the marriage must end. He keeps pleading for reconciliation.

I don’t know what he really wants from my sister.

😂

Lol. Pastor? Of all people that came to marry your sister? 😳

Babatunjo:
Hard to do though. Most men are not emotionally sound enough to walk away.

Value your attention. It is oxygen for women.

Pathetic!

The day men will learn to walk away and emotional detached from women, that's the day the world will change because women will literally start kpaing themselves, having known they live for attention and validation

Remove rigging, Tinubu wouldn't have been the president in the first place. Man is complete failure

Tinubu urchins, where are you people?

Free one million is waiting if you can prove where the mannequin is from

Nigeria needs a business man who can think outside the box and not a self acclaimed accountant degree holder

Exactly why you must be different from those men.

Make her wonder why you're so different and wouldn't chase her and simp for her but would rather walk away.

How do y'all date?

As a man, Knack a girl till the point she asks you what are we? Knack her till she already assumes you're both dating and that you're already her bf and she's your gf. This is how to win women

If a man cheat on you, women cheat back ok? This is how you'll end up

yommen:
Sebi, that's how your sister is living with a guy she is not married to yet. Ehn. You go dish out that kind advise now.

Does your sisters bills guys and give them her to to in exchange for it? But when asked to go and live with him it becomes story!

Besides girls do sleep at a guy's house. The op must have had guys she goes to sleep and live with in school. The okoko man is just the type women call intentional man. Meaning a finished man.

Girl wey everybody dey enjoy... E reach his turn he wants to privatised her to his property. What a joke

samuelson06:
Let him marry her lawfully. Stop promoting fornication.

She's not interested in marriage with him but wants to keep enjoying the benefit.

Besides what do you mean fornication and lawfully? The ones she had been doing with other guys nko? Why didn't they Marry her?

Okoko men are known as intentional men

You billed him, he always delivers and you constantly give him your to to in exchange. Now oga doesn't want his money he has been spending on you to waste hence the reason he wants you close for more piping. What's the fuss about?

lightwind:
I never knew he was Igbo guy

Does he sound Yoruba to you?

Dude always spoke Igbo in most of his movies

lightwind:
He should just retire all this police officers and put in new fresh intelligent police officers

Not this.

He should endeavour Nigeria police is being trained by Germany or France police. We need professional policemen on uniforms and not touts with guns roaming around

Owontime:
I guess you're not from Akwa Ibom,for your information we are not Igbos,we are Ibibios and Annangs.
We don't play stupid politics, we play politics that benefits us. Akpabio is the next president in 2039.

Next president of where?

APC will lose next year and akpabio will be sent packing. So what next president are you talking about

Atiku keep embarrassing himself every election year.

His mates who were VP are relaxing and enjoying, look at osibanjo but no, Atiku wants to Kpai in aso rock. The man Atiku will never be president of Nigeria

This IGP is very d@ft.

When obi enters as Nigeria president by next year, I hope he cleans up the mess in the useless police sector.

atobs4real:
This is really commendable.
We are waiting for those South Africans.

What is commendable about this non.sense?

Dude, SA hosted the world cup in 2008 abi 2010 when Spain won it. Can Nigeria ever dram or hosting such? Even in the next 7000 years? Nigeria can never!

SA and Nigeria are not on the same level. They're by far miles ahead of Nigeria

This is Face me I face. This one is just the upgraded version of the house.

Likely for students or probably stores

It ought to be cheaper than that so as to attract more interested applicants.

Rufia is always giving it hot to these politicians

The female student seduced the rev father

Konjiboii:
Please house I need permanent solutions for the removal of stretch marks, any suggestions will be highly appreciated.

Just make money and eat healthy, you won't even noticed that thing on your body

That's not possible.

My unsaved contact can't see my profile

SonOfDSoil01:
give us the name of Yorubas appointed in those state and share us a link……while I will give you a thousand Okoro’a working in Lagos civil service and holding elective post and in oyo and other Sw states we are not falling for this stale gaslighting anymore……lessons will be learnt in 2027

U don't have Google on your phone to search for the names?

iyke484real:
Thank you very much for this comment. Honestly, this is one of the perspectives I needed to hear because I have been judging myself harshly since the incident happened.

A man must learn to fight to defend himself but not this type of fight.

You're a strong man. Weak men allow their emotions controls them. But the strong man? He controls his emotions knowing what the outcome would be.

Highest form of maturity is staying calm and still in conflict and confusion. You did well I must say.

Christistruth00:
You can call us whatever you like we don't care anymore as long as you stay out of our Lane and we stay ot of yours.
Before it was not a big issue
But Betty Akeredolu and Okey Onuakalusi
really really spoilt the ground

Is this how you people want to fight SA? 🤡

I told a south African that in Nigeria, the 3 main tribes don't like themselves and can kpai themselves at any given chance.

An Eastern was appointed you want to Kpai yourself. A Yoruba has been appointed in positions several times in Enugu and abia and nobody made a fuss about it. What will you now do if it was a black SA that was appointed by adeleke?

Dude use Google and educate yourself.

The former gov of abia state did it and Enugu gov also did. Educate yourself oga.

Joining efcc and DSS are strictly by connections. Do you know anyone at the top?

placeofallure:
What do you mean "Y'all"?

Do you have in your family - daughter, cousin, sister, aunt or niece that would kiss portable for handouts?

If smello Portable kisses my corpse, I'd wake up and smack him!

Beautiful girls are baby mamas to him . Who then is you?

SeunDeCraze:
Africans will remain in darkness till eternity

Not Africa but Nigeria

MarkNsukkaBread:
Go and collect some more

What will I suck? I love it when it goes down well with sucking

Example of I get big cassava - Tekno

Primistine:
No wonder she was sharing cake to y'all. By the time you learn why it's already too late.

She shares cake more than girls With nipples