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Politics › Re: Oyebanji Visits Freed Eda Oniyo Kidnap Victims by Gotocourt: 10:10pm On Jul 05
The government is complicit
Romance › Re: Men, If You Ask A Woman “How Are You?” And She Answers “I’m Not Fine”..... by Gotocourt: 9:41pm On Jul 05
Sorry ehhh, me see no dey feel fine angry
Foreign Affairs › Re: Mourners Pay Respects At Khamenei’s Funeral, Call For Trump's Death by Gotocourt: 9:40pm On Jul 05
Burial after three months, Omorr Nawa oooooo lipsrsealed
Foreign Affairs › Re: Mourners Pay Respects At Khamenei’s Funeral, Call For Trump's Death by Gotocourt: 9:38pm On Jul 05
Shey wuna don kpai Benjamin Netanyahu angry
Foreign Affairs › Re: Mourners Pay Respects At Khamenei’s Funeral, Call For Trump's Death by Gotocourt: 9:37pm On Jul 05
Calling for Trumps death grin
Foreign Affairs › Re: Nigerian ‘Drug Dens’': FG Faults South African Minister, Khumbudzo Ntshavheni by Gotocourt: 9:01pm On Jul 05
Weak Nigeria undecided, very anyhow country.
Foreign Affairs › Re: Trump Says ‘one Shot’ Could Strike Iran’s Leaders At Khamenei’s Funeral by Gotocourt: 9:00pm On Jul 05
HacheNoire:
Anyone can say that! It’s very easy to say!

Requires no skill!
Iran 🇮🇷 that couldn't take down any USA aircraft carrier undecided
Crime › Re: NDLEA Arrests Nigerian-British Grandma With 13kg Cocaine Hidden In Plantain by Gotocourt: 8:51pm On Jul 05
Chachalogo:
This grandma was definitely been used by those/someone very close to her. They should ask her who those that packed her bags were. Someone very very close to her put her to this.
She knows, investigation will burst others.
Politics › Re: How Fake Agency ‘DG’ Adeyemi Outsmarted Federal Officials To Secure CBN Accounts by Gotocourt: 2:20pm On Jul 05
This is Client vs Azaaman📌
Politics › Re: How Fake Agency ‘DG’ Adeyemi Outsmarted Federal Officials To Secure CBN Accounts by Gotocourt: 2:19pm On Jul 05
President Tinubu is complicit, how did they get budget angry


This is state capture 🤷🏿
Politics › Re: IMF Claims Incorrect, No Shadow Budget- Taiwo Oloyede by Gotocourt: 2:11pm On Jul 05
Sirianese:
Oyedele is a very dishonest individual
This administration will stain your white 🤷🏿.
Politics › Re: IMF Claims Incorrect, No Shadow Budget- Taiwo Oloyede by Gotocourt: 2:10pm On Jul 05
You go explain tire, shey d former minister is out of the way grin
Travel › Re: Reasons Why Brain Drain And The Japa Trend Will Continue In Nigeria by Gotocourt: 1:42pm On Jul 04
Japa oooooo, even motayoayinde dey Europe.
Family › Re: Relationship Dilemma by Gotocourt: 1:25pm On Jul 04
Gentlesoul2021:
Good day N'Lander

I need genuine opinions on a relationship dilemma.

My younger sister is 31 years old. She's highly educated with a master's degree, works with an NGO as a Programme Coordinator and Mental Health Counselor, and is also a skilled fashion designer with equipment worth over ₦2 million. She's hardworking, focused, and has consistently supported our family. Her job has taken her across different states, exposing her to diverse experiences and opportunities. Above all, she's deeply committed to her Christian faith.

She recently met a fellow church brother who has expressed serious interest in marrying her. However, he left school after Primary Six and works as a traditional window louvre fabricator. While there's absolutely nothing wrong with learning a trade, he has had opportunities to upgrade his skills to modern aluminium fabrication but hasn't pursued them. Instead, he seems more interested in becoming a pastor or working in a church, though he currently has no clear or realistic path to achieving that.

Another concern is the family dynamic. My mother and the young man's mother serve in the same church unit. On several occasions, whenever he goes out for a job, his mother would call him back or redirect him for other errands, and she would even mention these things to my mother. This has given us the impression that she relies heavily on him, raising concerns about the level of responsibility he already carries within his family and how that might affect his future marriage.

My mother strongly opposes the relationship, believing the gap in education, career progression, ambition, life direction, and even family expectations is too significant. I understand her concerns and tend to agree, but it also raises an important question.

Can love alone sustain a marriage when there's such a wide difference in education, ambition, exposure, career growth, and family responsibilities? Or should long-term compatibility, shared vision, emotional maturity, and the ability to build a stable future together carry more weight than love?

I'd genuinely appreciate respectful and honest opinions from both married and unmarried people. Please keep the discussion civil and objective—this isn't about looking down on anyone because of their educational background or occupation, but about understanding what truly makes a marriage work in the long run.
My mother strongly opposes the relationship, believing the gap in education, career progression, ambition, life direction, and even family expectations is too significant.
Education › Re: Nigerians Will Start Going To University In Burkina Faso - David Hundeyin. by Gotocourt: 11:24am On Jul 04
This boy Captain Ibrahim Traore and propaganda belike 5&6
Romance › Re: My Observations About Ladies Who Have Passed Their Prime . by Gotocourt: 11:02am On Jul 04
A lady in her early 30s, precisely 31 years old was nothing to write home about sad. Imagine a lady at that age bracket having the mentality that --"men are everywhere" that she doesn't have to respect me simply because I'm in a relationship with her.
Politics › Re: MTN Nigeria: "Don't Punish Us For South Africa's Xenophobia" - Karl Toriola by Gotocourt: 9:56am On Jul 04
Houseofglam7:
When did that one become a motivational speaker?
Baba no wan go back village, e no easy grin cheesy wink


Country people no get joy cool
Politics › Re: "I'll Lead A Revolution Against Fulanis If Attacks Continue" – Prince Erena by Gotocourt: 9:20am On Jul 04
osuofia2:
The hausas are the worst hit in this Fulani invasion, they have literally lost everything, their voice, political influence, cultural and everything.
The Fulani control everything there using religion as a weapon of conquest, Only the Kanuri tribe are standing against the Fulani, and the Fulani don't dare the Kanuri because Kanuri people sef na another strong people and Fulani avoid them.
Even when Usman Dan fodio tried to introduce islam there, they they the Kanuri people told him they already have islam and don't need his intervention, he tried using wars but he didn't succeed because the Kanuri people fought and he fodio retreated
Generational enemies choi
Foreign Affairs › Re: Ali Khamenei’s Funeral Procession Across Iran And Iraq (Photos) by Gotocourt: 7:59am On Jul 04
Northsouth:
I noticed that America and Israel didn't want to Target Iranian government executive precisely like the president and vice, including the speaker

It was only the supreme leader and IRGC they were after

Something deep must be happening

I guess it's because the executive leadership was an elected position by the whole country.
Thet has serving terms

Anyway my guess may be wrong
The mullahs and IRGC hold the power and money. The executives are powerless. The IRGC cult is very powerful.
Sports › Re: Happy 69th Birthday To Bret Hart 'Hitman' by Gotocourt: 10:17am On Jul 03
I thought was the video game 🎮 HITMAN cool
Nairaland General › Re: Fire Engulfs Popular Eke-okigwe Market In Imo State by Gotocourt: 7:48am On Jul 03
Love800:
What do you mean by modern market pls?
Block with concrete decking, well spaced to curtail fire outbreak. that one is shanties.
Politics › Re: Court Rejects El-rufai’s Fresh Bail Bid Over Disputed Medical Report by Gotocourt: 7:37am On Jul 03
waice6571:
One of my friends is among those who believe that funny line of thought. Every politician is a paperweight after the immunity of their office is expired.

No one is bigger than the law of land!
After God, na government 📌💯🙌
Politics › Re: Court Rejects El-rufai’s Fresh Bail Bid Over Disputed Medical Report by Gotocourt: 7:34am On Jul 03
Benbellamor:
Then Mallam should be tried on forgery
That's how it's done in Europe
You don't forge document and present it in Europe and go Scot free

It should be added to his count charges "forgery"

Let's cure his lame madness with original madness

I am sure that Jonathan emboldened him for his fall yakaya
He'll be charged later grin
Politics › Re: Railway: NRC Grants Permanent Operating Licence To Lagos State by Gotocourt: 8:06pm On Jul 02
Make Lagos flooding no carry train oooo angry
Business › Re: Crude Falls To $70 But Nigerian Marketers Maintain N1,200 Pump Price by Gotocourt: 8:02pm On Jul 02
Malali, What's the price of European import marketed at Togo huh

It will crash in 1-2weeks.

Another factor is demand and supply, Dangote is supplying Saudi Arabia due to war damage. Lots of Gulf countries refineries are inoperable 🤷‍♂️.

Russia oil depots has been hit by Ukraine , Dangote about to be richer like never before.
Autos › Re: Why The TVS–Enviable Partnership Could Shape Nigeria's Mobility Future by Gotocourt: 7:48pm On Jul 02
Terrorists fastest mobility.
Foreign Affairs › Re: CENTCOM To Relocate US Bases From Gulf States After Painful Iranian Strikes by Gotocourt: 7:46pm On Jul 02
War brings development
Business › Re: What's One Financial Mistake You'll Never Make Again? by Gotocourt: 7:43pm On Jul 02
I can't tamper with my asset management mutual funds.
Crime › Re: Gunmen Attack NIPSS Again, One Killed by Gotocourt: 6:57pm On Jul 02
WantsandMore:
What do Gunmen need at NIPSS ? Is there like money there or what ?
Over 100 Generals on course.
Crime › Re: Gunmen Attack NIPSS Again, One Killed by Gotocourt: 6:56pm On Jul 02
Omorr those Generals will soon be packed like chickens.

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