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Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Monthly Net Salary Of Federal Government Ministries,departaments, Agencies And P by Gotocourt: 6:27pm On Jul 13, 2023
intergral Yelle Prudent5217

Hardluck folks angry, lost 4M to this scammers. Still fighting to get my money. Any deal that ain't bankdraft or after capturing (fake capturing choke) ain't advisable. Bold scammers are many in Abuja. They will claim to know the president,minister,NASS and alpha&omega. Na scammers Dem b
Politics › Re: Ganduje Congratulates Kano State Governor-Elect, Abba Yusuf (Photo) by Gotocourt: 6:29pm On Apr 01, 2023
APC screaming foul undecided
Computers › Nairaland Change Color by Gotocourt(op): 11:48am On Apr 01, 2023
undecided

Crime › Re: Man Sentenced To 7 Years Imprisonment For Raping 2-Year-Old Girl In Niger State by Gotocourt: 11:19am On Mar 29, 2023
tongue
Family › Re: Should I Allow My Mother-in-law In Our Home? I Need Advice by Gotocourt: 11:06am On Mar 29, 2023
ozalogbo:
I am the first child of my mother, and I have two younger male siblings. I am doing well financially. My wife is the last of four children in her family. My dad died when I was still in the university, and this affected my mum. However, as she aged, her health waned. Se was a retired teacher. My brothers are not in the country. Both of them are in Europe. I wanted to have my mother stay with me in her later years because of her health and loneliness but my wife did not want it. Whenever she was ill and I brought her home to be with us, my wife was usually hostile, especially if my mum had stayed beyond a week. She did not hid her disapproval, and this caused problems in the marriage. People advised that I should send my mum away and pay someone to live with her and take care of her. They said that marriage was between a man and his wife, not between a man, his wife, and his mother. I did and peace returned. Eventually my mum passed on after a few years.

Along the line, my father in law also died. And down the line, my mother in law's health began to deteriorate. We live in the same town. Among my wife's siblings she is the only one doing quite well. Now there are suggestions that the mother should come and live with us so that my wife can give her proper care. I believe that her living with us and seeing her grandchildren will help her. And indeed i have no problem accepting her, but when i remember the treatment my wife gave to my mum, there is a strong revulsion, in fact, anger in me. I shared with a friend, and he advised i forgive my wife, but the revulsion is so strong that i would feel cheated if i agreed. What do you guys think. She reminded me then that marriage was between a man and his wife only. Shouldn't this also apply to my wife now?
Boss, follow your mind. Your wife is manupulative hence her family should deal with it.

Much respect boss
Crime › Re: Plateau: DPO Allegedly Locks Down Divisional Police Station Over Missing Fowl by Gotocourt: 11:02am On Mar 29, 2023
tongue
Politics › Re: Bauchi Governor Bala Mohammed Visits Wike In Port Harcourt (Photo) by Gotocourt: 10:53am On Mar 29, 2023
Palace coupist tongue
Crime › Re: New Dead Body Lands Mortuary Blackaxe Vs Eiye In Lagos PHOTOS by Gotocourt: 10:53am On Mar 29, 2023
Thug life undecided
Crime › Re: Lagos Tenant Stabs Friend To Death During Argument (Photo) by Gotocourt: 10:39am On Mar 29, 2023
tongue
Family › Re: MEN, PLEASE STOP DOING THIS!!!. MY HEART IS BROKEN. SEE WHY by Gotocourt: 5:31pm On Mar 28, 2023
That's how I got gonorrhea and passed it to my faithful girlfriend sad

Vivian na God go punish you angry
Politics › Re: Presidential Poll: Atiku Files Petition, Insists Tinubu Not Qualified To Contest by Gotocourt: 8:19am On Mar 22, 2023
shocked

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