english please ,

how can one be shy and pompous at the same time? thanks for clarifying,

, still searching though ,

thanks but I'd rather have a girl than luck ,

ciao naija ladies,

single, good looking, professional guy here. I have been globetrotting and have decided I need some form of companionship that would be long term ,  seeking a woman with a heart, brain and beauty AND who is not afraid to flaunt all three.

ping me if interested ,  serious replies only please ,

I am in Lagos for a while ,  sorry, but I have only Nigerian citizenship but that has not been an hindrance to me despite not being from a rich family or a 419er

bises.

luxoire, if you know a=of any, please do introduce me, I live in the mediterranean/europe and will travel in my search for a true one,

are these traits that are un-Nigerian? should i start looking elsewhere? I am a catch by any definition, good looking, fit, young, international career, nigerian, liberal and fun loving guy,

what's up with our world peeps?

Hello Naija queens,

I am heading to Lagos in April for a while and was hoping to meet and hook up with a lady for a potential future.
I am a 31 yr old professional working in the US / Europe (no, really, I am a professional). 5'11, about 178Ibs, dark, good looking, liberal in social constructs and fun a loving guy. I do believe in God but detest most naija churches and will not step in them if they paid me some of the money they loot from their congregation. So, I am just seeking a goodlooking, honest and free spirited lady.

Halla at me if interested, we can yarn in another space and see if compatible enough for meeting. Make una no let ma oyinboo fool una o, a bi omo eko gangan ni ni also

Cheers,

gov-pikin

Peeps

Abeg, if anyone know of any good naija parties for NYC, make una halla. I miss ma naija peeps in this big land.

Omoba out.

I am 29 but let's take this discussion elsewhere. My email is exec007@yahoo.com

I do not think your assessment is fair. Not all naija women are like that. In any case the poor girl is only 16 ... i wonder why she is even on this site. I have no qualms, i will surely meet a quality, sophiscated and assertive naija woman soon. Man no fit be single forever, poor or not.

I go tell true shame devil, i no be governor pikin o. But angeli gbona, kilo shele lodo e? Are you in NYC? you be governor pikin yourself? who no want date into money? Halla at me ..

Make una give omo ijoba chance o; yes ke. Abi no be for our lifetime we see wey pauper dey become billioniare?

Thanks Outkast. That's very nice of you and I appreciate it.

Please, read my post again to answer your question. Ay mija ... if people go just read before dem respond.

I know say plenti plenti fine naija women dey for New york but as Chineke be ma witness, I no get chance to meet up talkless of dating any of them. Nna, b4 dis case turn to 2 serious, make beta naija woman troway salute ma side now. On a little more serious note though. I'd really love to date a nigerian female if possible (no, I am not desperate). So, if you have a naija party or you get beta female friend or sister wey you wan hook up, make you halla my side. I live in NYC, am in grad school, work also, lively and thoughtful, and I do know how to get my groove on.

I tank una o.

omo ijoba out.

Thanks to those who agree and disagree with me. Para-quoting the original poster, I am just trying to say the truth and shame the devil

How all ma naija peeps for NYC? If any of una sabi naija party wey dey shele for NYC, make una halla to omo ijoba o.

out.

Omo Ijoba

As an online forum, I will be forced to assume that many post here for fun and do not really write what is on their minds. Otherwise I might be forced to seriously start thinking of adopting another country. The gross over-generalizations for this post are ridiculous. When one cannot find someone to date, try not to blame a groups of people. Rather look to yourself and the person who dumped or accepted you. Nigerians are diverse and our experiences in naija or jand or yankee different. A lot of externalities do play into how people date as has been mentioned previously including varieties, greed, money, selfishness, culture...

I, for one, will just have to say that I am not impressed with many of the naija men I have met abroad. Some of them are so rigid and behave more like our grandparent's generation and believe women are property or playthings. Before I get chewed, do note that I am a guy. Just the title of this post in itself shows where the problem is...why is it Nigerian girls that are lonely and not Nigerian guys? I think many people are lonely regardless of sex. Men are better at hiding their emotions and loneliness behind sex, drinks and machismo than women are. This question deserves to be individualized rather than generalized. We have all had different experiences and lives. In ending I just have to say that I know and believe Nigerian women are beautiful, enterprising and worth of the best life has to offer. I believe Nigerian men are strong, hardworking and full of potential. But i do not believe we are better or worse than other people. Date whoever you feel like but don't make general bad assumptions about Nigerians to justify your not dating a Nigerian. We will love who we want in the end ....

omo ijoba out...