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Thank you all for the comments on the post.
I am a believer in the 80/20 rule with this situation. The grass is not always greener at the other end.

I have been wondering myself, but from the information I gathered. I learnt he is cooling off his feet at the EFCC cell in Nigeria.
He has been unable to fulfil his financial obligations to his customers, so EFCC is looking into the matter.

No I have not left my wife. I have severed communication with the other woman but I am not finding it easy.
I am trying to resist the burning urge to get back together with her

@kemisuga,
This is not a cooked up story, u you need to be there to know how it is.
This is the shit that i am in at the moment. Things happen that u just cannot explain how.
Few months ago I would have said this cannot happen to me, but here I am.
If u believe it fine but if u don't, well its up to u.

Following my heart in this circumstance, I think would be disastrous in the long run.
So I think I will follow my brain instead. To those that said it's actually Lust and Infatuation, i agree 100%

Thanks for all the comments, and I did not run away, I am just keeping quiet and listening.
Also, can guys and ladies stop the insults, u can pass across ur comments without insulting, please.
To those suggesting I see a pastor/marriage counsellor, I think we all know that no pastor will ask me to divorce my wife no matter how bad the situation might seem, so that is no option. However, I think I will stay with my wife and allow my mistress to go.

Thanks for all the comments,i appreciate all of them.
I think I was carried away by my amorous feelings, and the thought of losing her.

thanks for all the comments. I think I am blinded by the love I have now, how long this will last is what i dont know.
I think I am in deep shit.

I met this lady a few months ago, and what started as a fling ended up being a roller coaster love story. We are both in our forties.I never meant to fall in love with this lady but somehow, i got hooked, and right now I cannot think of anything else apart from this lady. From the onset she said she wanted a husband and not a boyfriend which then I was not prepared to be, but after a while, I am now willing to be the husband she wants.
I am married with 2 kids and she also has 2 kids from her previous marriage and I am about to give that away for this lady. Though my wife and I have been having normal marital issues, but nothing serious so far. I tried walking away from this relationship several times but could not, cos any time I tried that, I could not concentrate on my work or anything for that matter. Right now she wants me to make up my mind, I either be with her or my wife, and right now I think I may go with her.
I want you guys views on this, cos I am about to make a gr8 decision. Is it worth it? Or am I being a wimp?