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mods, please move this to front page so that this poor orphan can get justice.

In school today, a case of pre eclampsia was reviewed( for those who do not know what this means, it’s simply one of the hypertensive disorders in pregnancy) and the patient was subsequently booked for an emergency cesarean section and she was delivered of a live female and both the baby and the mother are fine.

We get to see a lot of deliveries both complicated and uncomplicated ones and we are always happy to hear that both the mother and baby are fine, what struck me today about this particular patient was the fact that this isn’t particularly a happy story.

The young lady who delivered today was just 12 years old, she hadn’t even seen her first menses and since ovulation occurs before menstruation she probably ovulated and sadly her first ovulation got her pregnant at the tender age of 12.

To cut this long story short, she was raped by her neighbor several times till she finally got pregnant. And after taking a brief history from her, it turned out that she was also raped several times by her pastor and also a traditional healer who stays in her community.

Now I’m sure you’ll be interested in knowing about her family. Her mum is late, she doesn’t know her father and she lives with her aunt. I really do not know the kind of supervision she gets from her caregivers...but one thing I know is that they failed to protect her, they failed to shield her from the wickedness of this world, they failed to perform their duties as care givers and guardians of this young girl and as a result of this, she’s been scarred for life. Imagine being a mother at 12, imagine a baby being another baby’s mother. This is so sad.

This is a call for help for this young girl for abused children have the tendency to be abused again and therefore if she isn’t rescued now, she’ll probably have 3 or more babies before she becomes an adult and that’s if she lives up to adulthood and survives the complications of pregnancy as well as those of sexual abuse and every other difficulty which she would surely face. She’s at risk of all the STI’s you can think of. Just think about anything negative, I’m almost certain she’s at risk of them all.

Let’s also include the little girl she delivered, she’s also at risk of everything her mother is at risk of.

It is in view of this that we Medicos Insigni (AAUMED’12) seeks your support, spread the word, there’s a 12yr old in Irrua Specialist Teaching Hospital, Irrua, Edo state that needs to be rescued. Whoever this may get to, please help save this young mother and her baby and help give them a better future.

Just a reminder, Today being 11/10/19 marks World International day of the girl child
The girl child is an endangered specie. She should be protected from all those who wish to bring her pain and suffering.

#Protect your girl child today
#Protect a girl child today
#Protect every girl you know


when Nairaland refused to be helpful, Linda Ikeji's blog came to the rescue. The story is now on LIB.

Matured advice please.....

Ever since i was small my mum have always have this unpleasant smell.she baths often but this smell have choose to not go away, i heard she got an infection after a miscarriage because we do discuss it amongst ourselves,we her children. The smell comes from her private and i dont know if she is aware of it. She baths often but after sometime the smell starts again.

She came to my house for visit and i was embarrassed when my husband passed and was asking what was stinking up the kids room, i know it was my mum but i told him something else.

She is someone that always like tying wrapper without any under and you can imagine how it is.

I dont want to embarrass but i know it has always been an issue with my dad(they have seperate room coz of this).she get angry easy too but i really have to.

Ps she has treated infection often and on but this smell is what i dont understand.doctors should help too.
Why is it that the smell refuse to go away because she bathes morning and night(rule while growing up in our house)

I've scanned through the comments and I must say that I'm disappointed in >95% of them. Everyone is trying to be a doctor and is rendering Medical advise of which 99% are misleading.

Now let's get to business, OP. Your mum, how old is she?? Calculate her Body Mass Index using her weight in kg divided by her height in m². Does the value fall above 30kg/m² How many children does she have?? When was her last child birth When did you notice the smell?? Does she smell of urine and does urine If she doesn't, I don't think she has VVF. Does she smell of feaces? If she does, she might have RVF. Does she have any vaginal discharge Is the discharge bloody If it is bloody, is it bright red or dark red Does the discharge itch? How many pads or wrapper does she use to absorb the discharge?? Does she bleed after sexual intercourse Does she bleed after washing or touching her vagina?? Does she have any low back pain, cough or does she cough up blood? Does she have diabetes mellitus or hypertension Anybody with cervical, endometrial, breast or ovarian cancer in her family Has she ever done a pap smear before




After answering these questions, please take her to see a Gynecologist ASAP.
Your mother might have cancer of the cervix or endometrium or ovaries and because you are not aware, you are holding the foul smelling discharge against her while the woman is dying.





Please, all sexually active women should go to the nearest Specialist hospital and have a pap smear done. This is the earliest detection of cervical cancer and cervical cancer is very much treatable if the disease is identified early enough and treated.




Thanks OP and I wish you and your mother the best.

I suggest that you seek help from a Teaching Hospital preferably Unical Teaching Hospital. The fee would be relatively cheaper and you will get better care from Specialists.

Please does anyone have the link to freely download Costi Hinns book that contributed to changing the mindset of Benny Hinn: God, Greed, and the (Prosperity) Gospel: How Truth Overwhelms a Life Built on Lies.

thank God he has realized his errors and genuinely repented. I've never been a fan of Prosperity gospel. Serving God is not playing Nairabet where you pay some amount of money to get favour from God.
The gospel says, "Freely you have received, freely give." Simon the sorcerer tried buying the gospel but he was rebuked.

Ask the average Nigerian why s/he goes to church or serves God and you will hear ridiculous replies like, "So that he can bless me" and that's why they get frustrated when things are not rosy-rosy.

If as a pastor, you need to raise money for a program, just talk to the members about it. No need deceiving them to come and sow so that they can reap. YOU CANT BUY THE FAVOUR OF GOD.

thoollz:
Why is he tried to the bed? RIP, it's good u had time to tell your side of the story.

he wasn't tied to the bed because they are racists but probably because he was restless and they had to restrain him from harming himself. it happens a lot in hospitals in some semi conscious patients. they restrain the patient until they are sure he can't harm himself again.

Quaddafi29:
Am I the only person noticing that he was tied to the bed? Check out the ropes on his feet and hands . We have lots of new nazis in Ukraine and they hate men of colour while they don't even qualify to be described as the so called whites.

he wasn't tied to the bed because they are racists but probably because he was restless and they had to restrain him from harming himself. it happens a lot in hospitals in some semi conscious patients. they restrain the patient until they are sure he can't harm himself again.

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