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FamilyRe: Never Marry A Woman who Is Financially And Academically Ahead Of You As A Man by gragragra(m): 11:29am On Jun 14, 2019
Domestic husband that has 3 staff on his payroll? Owns his own registered company, owns a 2 bedroom bungalow, a car and reaches out to the needy regularly?

You think productivity is by being sitting in traffic, jumping around town, wearing suit? I live in Ikorodu, I can conduct 80% of my business over the phone and email if there's need to meet in person I come to the office or ask a staff to attend.

Open your mind, don't be naive.

Buckubuck:
You work from home
Do most of the cooking
Hardly go out
Bros, you're a domestic husband
FamilyRe: Never Marry A Woman who Is Financially And Academically Ahead Of You As A Man by gragragra(m): 9:41am On Jun 14, 2019
African man lol...

Calling him by his name is not disrespectful depending on their level of friendship or intimacy.

Two, everyone gets tired at some point when you're putting effort to helping someone and it seems they're unmotivated or unchanging, it's draining and frustrating.

Three, again if they were intimate I don't see what's really wrong with helping yourself fix a plate, like na you dey hungry oh not the woman, so if she traveled for a month you'll wait for her to come before you dish your meal? Her tone may have been wrong maybe , but it's not as baaad as deemed.

I'm my relationships I do most of the cooking because I'm a better cook or I love cooking. My gf is a foreign trained medical doctor I'm an IT and business development consultant. I mostly work from home, I make sure food is ready before she comes home, I bought the house we live in, she drives the only car I have.

We have our names saved as our names, we call each other sweet names but also call each other by our real names. She cooks when she's free or feels to, we have a cleaner that cleans the house twice weekly and the compound.

When I'm hungry I go and fix my plate, if she feels we eat together.

African men just want unnecessary oppression, domination and control. He should be happy he has a woman that's making effort to improve his broke timid ass.

Tueh
kevin25:
My neigbor got married to a woman that is financially and academically ahead of him yes they started with love at initial stage she did everything possible to make sure the man suceed i mean everything she sacrify evrytn kudos to her, but the problem now is how the woman talks to the husband with no atom of respect she goes around telling people what she has done for the man to the extent her friends no longer see the man as anything .. The one that pains me was the day she told the man to go and dish out food for himself even in my presence, wen the man try to force her my dear come see insult from how she feed him to how she made him who he is,just because the man ask her to go and bring his food even dou the man is working now but stil the woman stil look down on him.. The worst she stil call the man by his name . The man is talking about bringing another woman that wil respect him as The man of the house.. This is a big lesson without money i dnt think you can control a nigerian woman .
PoliticsRe: FG Seizes Oil Blocs From Kola Abiola, Others by gragragra(m): 1:14pm On Jun 11, 2019
You're just unnecessarily bitter.

TooMuchStuff:
Hope he's not collecting the Niger Delta Oil Bloc for his Fulani brothers. Cos Buhari no get Joy...when southern resources are to be seized and handed over to Fulanis
CrimeRe: Yusuf Omidele 'General' Arrested With 21 Others In Lagos (Wanted Cult Leader) by gragragra(m): 11:47am On Jun 08, 2019
This was fun to read �

etibaba:
Will the police make an army general sit on the floor like that?
Pls hand him over to the army so they can treat him in their own way. Na him go use he mouth dey shout i am not a general
PoliticsRe: Minimum Wage: Crisis Looms In States Over Execution by gragragra(m): 11:34am On Jun 08, 2019
You just choose to be daft. Buhari wanting implementation of a better wage regime for Nigerian workers is labelled scam?

How are some of you so clueless and moronic? It will help improve the lives of those that depend on paltry monthly salaries to survive.

Bossontop:
undecided
Efcc suppose don go arrest buhari for scamming nigerians ooo....to serve as deterrent to others

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