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Cuteness or footballer height doesn't pay the bills. Forget his looks and go for a man that will love and treat you like a Queen... He must be hardworking too..

what's the meaning of afonjas?

Seun:
The idea of throwing her plastic legs at her is so unnecessary and stupid that I don't think this actually happened. No Nairalander is that evil.

You can only vouch for yourself Mr. Seun not for all Nairalanders.. Don't be surprise Osame bi laden had an account here before his demise...


Meanwhile as for you Op, kindly add fiction to the story cos it never happened..

From a legal point of view I see nothing wrong with his statement cos he never made mention of ballot box in that sentence...

gabazin080:
thanx a million times bro. i will work on it

ywc bro..

gabazin080:
not sure. cus she was a side chic turned wife due to pregnancy

Why then did you go on with the marriage when you fully aware you don't love her.. Marriage isn't relationship or courtship, its a life contract. I will advice you look inward and deep down in your heart there is this atom of feeling or love which you once had for her cos am sure you didn't impregnate her through wifi but through love making, try and ignite those feelings again and learn to love her but this time not as a side chick but as a wife and also the mother of your sweet boy..

Just the clothes alone hanging in that room is worth more than 2million naira... lol

Did you ever love her? I need a sincere answer..

deducating indeed...

If the only thing that comes to your mind is Sex whenever you think about her or see her then you are in lust not in love.. When you truly care about a lady sex shouldn't be the priority.. Even the day it will happen, nature will make it happen just like a scene in a romantic movie.. Get your mind busy with other intellectual stuff and you will see how the thought of sex will flee from your mind..

LIGHTERN0TE:
You see... In life.. .everyone sees things from their own perspective.. .What you will climb the pulpit to share as a testimony .i might not regard as one... You may not see it as a testimony but the couple deemed it fit to share it as THEIR TESTIMONY.. .....

Children are gifts from God.. .absolutely! ... But from your perspective. .if I was a secondary school teacher who got a job at shell.. ...i shouldn't testify coz.. All jobs are jobs.?
Same way I revere that shell job is probably how the couple revere a male child.. ....like I said before everyone has a different perspective of things... .what you consider a testimony.. Wouldn't pass as a testimony to others... We just read and move on.....

I get your point but comparing jobs to human life isn't fair at all... Yea over here in Nigeria gender of the child matters but it shouldn't be so.. There are some people in that same church that are praying, fasting and believing God for a child but here we have someone thanking God not for giving them twins but for changing their sex.. Well, as you rightly said, let's just read and move on..

AkataGirlNLove:
Awww soo sweet... maybe, I'll let you know. I plan to settle this today.

ok then.. buzz me via PM when you ready..

AkataGirlNLove:
OMG! I love how you put that!! Yessssss!!!!

So what will it be then? should I set up a meeting with a brother who is single and ready to mingle.. No hidden charges attached.. Your happiness matters most to me..

He should quickly do a check up on Laurent Gbagbo's case and how it ended before taking any move further... Bad advisers at work here... Am suspecting the wife...

Either male or female, children are gift from God.. Am yet to understand the testimony in this testimony..

You met her where?

AkataGirlNLove:
Tradition forbids it? WTH?? So I'm screwed then..

You still on the process dear but not totally screwed yet.. You can still take a walk now before you finally get screwed completely.. We have handsome, wealthy and intelligent young guys whom am sure you can date and hopefully settle down with. Married men package isn't invoke any longer...

Igbo men are known for their caring nature most especially towards their wife and kids.. An average Igbo business man can be driving ordinary Toyota Camry car while he buys Range Rover sport car for his wife because of the love he has for her.. Research has proven that they are the most caring tribe in the world but in the case of girlfriend I can't really say cos our tradition forbids it..

interesting...

The boy should be name Abraham of our time.. Just gather 1000 girls in a pool and let him release his weapon grade sperm in the pool then the rest will be story... God is in indeed great..

From the look things that fence has been standing for over 1year so the only explanation to this is appearing and disappearing ... Please Ogun people in the house should say something on this please..

Please what does AFONJA stand for can't seems to find the meaning in the dictionary...

Mine was when i sneaked out of hostel with a classmate to spend weekend at their place and the weekend turned to two weeks holiday and when i returned to school I discovered that government secondary schools in Anambra has gone on strike and everyone has left... No need telling you guys when happened to me when I got home that very day.. it was indeed a horrible experience..

Before the marriage proper we will first go swimming to ascertain how she looks in real life..

Follow the fan cable down and you will see one big okpolo eye looking at you.. lol

Nice shoe..

Congratulations... fatherhood is indeed one of the sweetest thing on earth.. Enjoy..

MsLady39:
Hi,
Not necessarily a fair comment. People make choices and everyone (as far as I know) is allowed to do so. Orphaned children (especially black children) in America is an epidemic. It's a crisis for sure, but assuming that couples should adopt is faulty. Not everyone has the spirit to raise children not of their own DNA. I'm not sure that there's an answer about how to solve this problem.

Yea you are right...