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Librate:
*clears throat*

Am Librate

I will be dropping my Daily routines, drills, news, trends n my experience here in NYSC Temporary Orientation camp in Akamkpa Cross River state...

It might be useful to future PCMs Students corpers n excorpers even to the public at large for edification fun, archives etc

Thanks hope its useful n worth following to u.

Cooly100:
It is called civil disobedience...as required by UN...structures are already on the ground...as steps are made to get a referendum...There shall be no arms nor war!!

alcmene:
Go to his twitter handle and see how he's posting and replying himself just to make APDA account lively.

We go dey here when Dokpesi go return to PDP

I advise the dude to leave the party before he becomes the youth leader, national chairman, Chief publicity secretary and others

joe4real12:
If found guilty, take him to Ikorodu and pronounce him publicly a badooooooo!

That's my judgment.

greatwomenworld:
what prompted my post was a phone call I had with a male friend which turned into a debate .

He is about getting married and says something like one doesn't need to date for a long time before getting married ,maximum 6 months because there's nothing you want to know about your spouse, you will eventually find out everything when you become husband and wife living under the same roof .

Trust me, I debunk the notion because I am of the strong opinion that rushing in is dangerous. You need to know the person you want to settle with to a very large extent before tying the knot. The time you spend doing that, is up to you. but I am particular about the " LARGE EXTENT ".

I used my previous relationship as an example, I once dated someone who if not for longtime relationship and closeness, I wouldn't know that he abuses drugs.
Well, if I had rushed into marriage with such person, I'm sure I would be regretting because this guy was an addict. I cannot stand it.


talking about why people change after getting married, I really don't think that people change, we just haven't discovered who they really are until we find ourselves living together then the true colour start to display.

that's my opinion.

Tell me yours , I want to learn from you, i might have a wrong mindset.

People do not change in marriage rather, it is marriage that changes people, Let me explain
1. Marriage comes with a change in status-It is actually a paradigm shift from where you have always been, assuming with it a new identity
2. Marriage comes with it new responsibilities-In marriage, you assume new responsibilities,sometimes they are not optional but responsibilities that you will be wholly held responsible for
3. In marriage, you give up so many freedom-Freedom to be independent, freedom to go to anywhere you like without offering some explanations and defending them, freedom to take some decisions without consulting with someone, freedom to relate with anyone you feel like without someones interference and opinion, freedom to stay out late, to come back at your own time or even spend the night where you wish
4. Marriage comes with it some level of interference from outside opinions
5. Marriage comes with it some forms of body changes-A woman gets pregnant, a man being conscious to make sure the wife gets pregnant, sometimes,anxiety come in
6. Marriage comes with it some level of pressure from certain quarters and certain angle
7. The thought of not immediately having an option of walking away in marriage also brings its own changes
In summary, most of the time, people do not sit and decide that they will change in marriage, It is a whole new experience that you don't know when you start going through those changes. There are majorly three experience in life you cant talk about from outside if you have not experienced them,they are
1. Marriage
2. Death of a loved one
3. Poverty and deprivation

NwaAmaikpe:


Nice one,
All of them share one thing in common,

They married a married man.


My FTC is dedicated to Tonto Dike's endless tears at night when she's all alone with her demons and the social media masks are off.

Arian11:
when you open their app they charge you....

you think about opening their app..they charge you

you want to download their app... they charge you

one day ill disconnect their dstv in their bonny island branch and go home with it

9izone:
Let FG give their children free education from primary, secondary and university level
Give them good water, light and road.
And see if they will not shout Sai Baba

Bobskylo: my dear no body insulted u nor hv d intention to do so.
cos i neva giv any info rada asked question wich ws miss undastood.
take appologies if d lata comment annoyed u
we r stil one big family wit common goals
so no cus for alarm. Cheers

Bobskylo: v de called any person?

Bobskylo: read d comment frm top pls

Bobskylo: i min d remening pals who v don dia medicals n awaits training
doe hopefully dis comin week is our week of positivity in IJN!!!!!!

Bobskylo: heard it frm a fellow who called to ask weda am among dos called,
n he ws wit us at igamu hse "26th interviewee"
may God show forth his mercy n open doors of blessings as he has brought us dis far in dis recruitment exercise:: IJN i prayed!!!!!!!!!!!!!