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MARKone:
People have advised you rightly on how to handle the situation you are passing through, it is only temporal my brother. You are married, and according to you, your wife is what is keeping you sane now, my brother be grateful, love her more. Some do not have anybody, anything to live for, but they are alive and kicking, believing in God with faith that tomorrow will be better than today and yesterday. Ta[b]ke a visit to any teaching hospital, go to the accident unit, go to cancer unit, visit prisons, motherless homes, visit neurological centers, then you will appreciate why you need to live[/b], forget what you've been through, continue your meds and keep living, for you, for your wife and kids yet unborn. A lot of people pass through worse things you are experiencing. I sence this sincerity in your write up, suicide is not the way out, it should not even be an option. Pray my brother, Pray that God will see you and your wife through.

A wise one. Thank you

Miami11:
Greens just pour out your heart here, talk to us about what's bothering you, you will be surprised you are not alone,

You can open an anonymous moniker, let us be able to help you

I just hate depression, chronic depression leads to other severe mental illness.

I am willing to do that. But it has to be a long story dated back to about 20 years ago, thus making it complicated.

timilehing:
Live for your wife

Major concern

Peacemaker:
Got 100k loan from him today.What impressed me is the constant communication and feedback throughout the process. Highly commendable and straightforward

kwontunu

Nubian113:
Mental health is no quick fix hun. I told you it took me 1&1/2 years to recover and that's minus suicidal thoughts and sticking to dosage daily.

So sad. Every day for a whole year.

Nubian113:
I [b]take Sertraline (it's been a year and a half now) I take it once a week now and my life is so much better. [/b]I never suffered from suicidal thoughts but my gp told me to keep a check on that.

It is important to take professional counseling along side antidepressants because depression and anxiety are the symptoms, the by product of internal turmoil.

Killing yourself won't help anyone what you need is medical attention. I don't know why you stopped your meds halfway, that is very dangerous! This is probably withdrawals or side effect of stopping suddenly. You can't do that see you need to ween yourself off.

This is real life. I can't entertain this selfish self pity party you call suicide. If it wasn't a cry for help you wouldn't be here. It's a new year so try something new. YouTube is your friend. Change your thoughts and your feeling will change. You can do this...

I have to take it everyday. But I also reported back to the doctors at intervals. But I only have the feelings that my mood changed after 3 months of taking the drug. But after that, no more changes. I really wanted something quick to happen. But I assumed these doctors are not doing enough.

Miami11:
Find out why you are depressed, are you jobless? Are you an underachiever, are you lonely? what makes you not want to live, they got to be a reason

I think sertaline is an antidepressant, those medications give you suicide ideologies

Try to talk to a counsellor or a pastor.

Honestly jt has to do with one or 2 of this things. But I also want to state that even as a teenager, I battle with this feeling for long.
The reality is that, small thing triggers it.

I actually don't know where to start but I am disturbed. As I am typing this I am having a persistent headache. It is somehow complicated to explain. Though I feel it is inborn but a whole lot triggered it even when I was in teen.
I recently visited health center for this reason where I was referred to the human behavioural department.
I was to take a drug called Setraline for a year. Yet, I stopped half way. I still see suicide as the best solution. It is just one time solution.


I have a good wife who have been the only reason why I think I should live. I keep thinking how she will feel if that happens to me.
Plenty things going on in my mind as it has always been.
I don't even know if I need counseling, help, assistant.
I just feel bad for my condition

Precisehandservices@gmail.com

coolhamid:
Hope those guys am seeing are the real criminal? Because NPF can just parade some set of guys and tagged them criminal just for the general public to believe that they(NPF) are really working.

Keep saying thrash. Why did police not arrest you on the road and tag you Festac robbery suspect?

It is better to die of the bullet than to die of hunger.
I also think heaven will not fall. If one apply

This people have been in EFCC custody for more than a week now. How come their bears are well shaved? I want to see them wearing same dress for a week

boysnbills:
. Hello Greens. Please can I have your contact?

WWW.PRECISEHANDSERVICES.COM

amandy:
Good day! I have yet to get a response. Hope to see it.Thanks

keep waiting

femeritus:
Really? That's serious. So if I am using a car as collateral I have to release the car.

YES! Exactly. That was his condition for me.

okey4reel:
I got 100k loan from him today...Tuesday 8th dec

OK, I heard

4stylz:
You can go to the bank to get the loan sir.

Yes. I am in it already. Thanks

femeritus:
Has anyone got a loan from this guy or at least a favourable response because he seems not to be responding. Just share your experience

The last time I contacted him. I observed that the guy does not have what it takes to do the business. He said he will have to take the collateral with him before he can release fund. That really put me off. I never see such condition before. He was not even talking of the papers.

olalekanba:
You requested that we send mail to the official email which I did.

You asked for my pay and I gave the figure, replied you twice later asking for update and your requirements and up till now no response.

Just take your mind off dear.

cmonek:
Cool. Into graphics designing and printing. I do mostly designs. It is more lucrative to own a press but very costly to set up.
Will advise you focus solely into an area viz designing proper, binding, cutting expert, laminating, finishing, operating the machine or become a middleman who collects jobs from individual, churches, coys, etc, and run the job from start to delivery while ensuring you are good in costing jobs, so you dont end up completing the job with your own cash.
As you do such, sell yourself by delivering good jobs, never deliver half baked jobs.. It may back fire..
Thanks..

Fact

Ikonz:
Alright, thanks for the tips. So where do u suggest that one should go for the machines? And where is your address too?

If you buy from me, you will not regret it. You will see things buy yourself. In my complex, more than 15 people bought from me this year. I started the business first.
I am not saying this so that you can buy from me. But don't buy from computer village please.
I am a printer too, but I am falling in love with large format now and I give that more attention. I base in Lagos thou and you are free to visit us.
I can drop my contact on request.
Definitely the printer is available in Lagos.
You can find out.

Even if you don't buy from me, I will still attend to your questions as regard to this subject

Ikonz:
Nice contribution sir. Apart from the issue of selling scrap, why else do you think that one should avoid buying from Computer village? Again, sir, do you think that there is no honest seller there? That's where I bought my sharp ar-m205 for copy/print and laserjet 5100 for colour separation

I know computer village more than you. New printers as well as office printers are readily available there.
But in this case the risk is high. Ask them questions about the machine and you will know that they don't have knowledge of them. But they will just give you a cover up answers.

1. They never use such machine before. So they only know that it prints
2. They sell anything that come to them either good or bad.
3. They go for the cheapest once in the market so that it can bring high profit
4. Don't bother about after sales.
5. Someone like me can buy from them because I know much about it than them.
6. They hardly have, I mean they hardly have good grade printers

4stylz:
I have been replying Everyone i received email from

You ask what type of machine I want to use for collateral and I replied. I resent again and yet no more feed back

Ikonz:
Sorry for the late reply, you didnt mention me when u commented so I cld'nt see it in time.
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There are different types of DI printers and as such their prices vary with the grades too. As at 2nd of December when I went to Computer village, Lagos, Konica-Minolta c652 was sold for 280k, c451 was retailed at 230k, and another lower model went for 200k. I met other brands like Sharp, Xerox, Hp etc with a little bit of price difference.
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You will have to factor in your location and availability of local technicians that can service the machine before choosing the particular model to buy. Here in the East, Imo precisely, Konica-Minolta is widely used for DI

I actually don't know where to start because I. Feel I am late.
The best DI machine I know is xerox. But you can only go for this if you are sure of yourself. It is costlier than others. But output and options favor it. You may have issues with the servicing and that is a big problem.
Konica is presently the best option. The parts as well as the engineers are available.
Sharp is also in the market but never gained acceptance as Konica.
Please don't buy in computer village.
They will sell scrap to you and use mouth to sell it.
We sell them and they are always available. You can visit us in Lagos. But is 250k for very good ones.

I am into printing but specialized in large format printing.
But even though you may not buy from me. Don't just buy from computer village.
You can ask me more about it. I will answer

phillthy:
I think as a credit giver he should be allowed enough time to decipher who qualifies and who do not.

@4stylz
take your time to do all the assessment u need but plz communicate via email your verdict so persons can adequately plan...

thanks

Agreed. But there should be an acknowledgement to say "OK, we are working on your case"

4stylz:
I am here and I replied you

I got your 1st and 2nd mails. I replied and since then no more reply. I feel you should be able to tell me if I am qualified or not. That is better than ignoring mails

The op is no longer around?

Okorocha never said that. Only reasonable people know this

Ok

This shows the level of poverty in Bayelsa. No self worth woman will do that except for her husband