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this is called "being Real"

I’m writing you for a very important reason. Not to be rude or any other fear you may have
initially had upon seeing this. No. A better
reason. The truth is, I’ve had my time to grieve
and I’ve had my time to be bitter. I’ve had my
time to roll my eyes at the photos of the two of
you together and pretend like he never existed. Things were easier that way for awhile.
But he did exist … and the truth is, he existed in
a very big way in my life. But we’ll get to that
later. I’ve had my time to cry and wonder if i’d
made the biggest mistake of my life or if this
was simply the way of the universe telling me that there’s some kind of different plan for me.
There was. But now is the time I reach out to you to say
thank you. Now I know what you are thinking so hear me
out. I’m not writing this in a sarcastic tone so
don’t read it in one. This isn’t a prank, this isn’t
a game. But I do need you to listen carefully
because what i’m about to say is so important. I
once loved the boy you love right now and I loved him with my whole heart and then some.
It wasn’t ever just a game to me. It wasn’t a
relationship to pass the time, and although it
had its fair share of complications, it was
everything I wanted in my life then and all I
thought i’d need in the future. But life got in the way and sometimes, the things we thought
were meant for us, weren’t. You can’t force things. But rewind so many years back to when we
were still kids just trying to figure it out. Before
we had to pay bills or worry about graduating
college and advancing to some meaningful life
path. Back when all we cared about was
wearing our crush’s jacket. Back to middle school. The man you kiss now was my first
crush. But back then he was only a boy. We
grew up together from that point on. Became
best friends. He was the closest person I had on
this Earth besides my family. He was my
confident, the person I told everything to. He’d sit on the phone with me while I cried myself to
sleep on my roughest nights. The guy did everything for me … and now you
are lucky enough to be the woman he will give
his whole heart to. The reason I told you all of that wasn’t for
nothing. It was to let you know that you have
something incredibly special right now and I
beg you to treat it with all the care in the world.
When the two of us ended things, I didn’t just
lose a boyfriend, but a best friend. The guy i’d spoken to everyday for seven years just went
away all of a sudden and I never heard from
him again. Because of that I hated you. For months I
would see photos of you pop up and hope it
was just a fling, but it wasn’t. It couldn’t be for
him, because he was above all of that
nonsense. You were always this easy person to
hate. But the truth is, I don’t hate you. I don’t even know you. But I do know that you make
him happy, so you really can’t be all that bad. In
fact, you are probably kind and sweet, and had
we ever met with different circumstances we
may even be friends. All I ask of you is this: Don’t break his heart. I
did, and if there was a way to have avoided it, I
would have. Treat him well, and he will be the
best boyfriend to you and maybe more one
day. He will always remember the little things
you told him and he will go out of his way to make sure you are happy and feel loved at all
times. After almost a year, I am finally happy for
the two of you. I am happy you came into his
life and gave him a reason to smile again. Thank you for taking care of my best friend. I
wish you the best of luck with all sincerity.
-Your boyfriend’s ex

60% failed jamb in east .. Same as north.. See, people who passed jamb passed it well nd are few .. While people who failed , failled drastically .. Its unfair .. I even got 187 .. And was the day my bro died ... I was a bit more concentrating cause i expected 200+ but was surprise with what i saw... Jamb ehh' and please stop showin us ur high scores , not me oo ..but it makes one feels somehow and most times, its not their fault

my message to any guy..."Pu**y cant be your only hustle" .. Cause when you re spending on it , you wont even know you ve been blind folded... Anyway remember the Pu**y was never urs, its just ur turn... So if u find a good girl that can sacrifise too for you or the relationship kindly reciprocate back...

[color=][/color]The other day I was talking to a girlfriend and I
expressed to her that, this 2017, I am finding
myself a rich man and I am getting married. I am
tired of broke men breaking my heart. So if my
heart is going to be broken in 2017, might as well
have it broken by a rich man. She began to lecture me about how a lot of rich
men's wife are lonely and miserable, and how rich
people don't 'live' life. Well I know a few rich men's
wives, and aside from looking after the kids, all
they do is go to the gym and their life seem pretty
happy to me. I can do that! So while she was talking and bashing rich men and
their wives, I was thinking to myself, what the hell
does she know about being a rich man's wife. I am
basically her only friend and I am as broke as a
church mouse, and I am lonely and miserable, so
where is she getting her scientific empirical hard evidence from. You see this 2017, I will be examining my friends
list as well, I think it needs a bit of tweaking
because the good book says in Proverbs 13:20,
"walk with the wise and become wise, for a
companion of fools suffers harm." Enough said. A lot of women see a poor man as being humble,
faithful, kind and loving, but being poor does not
guarantee all of that. It does not guarantee
happiness like most people would have you
believe. If anything, it puts more stress on a
relationship. I have done poor men for so long, I am leaving them behind in 2017. Let me explain the type of poor I am talking about.
The one who is not willing to do just about
anything legal to support their family. The one that
does not have any money to contribute to the bills
and the household nor the date. The one with
numerous children and no money to take care of them. The one who doesn't want to go back to
school and is stuck in that dead-end job that is
going nowhere. The one that owes every bank in
the land money and has the worse credit score in
the world. The one who is comfortable for you to
be the head of the household and reminds you daily that gender roles have changed and it is OK
for women to take care of men financially. If you fall in any of the categories, you will not get
any love from me. There is nothing sexy or
appealing about you. I don't need anymore of you
in my life, I can do poor all by myself. If you are not yet wealthy but there is potential, I
can work with that, because there is nothing more
sexier than an ambitious man. We need to understand that not all men that earn
lots of money does it dishonestly, and being rich is
not a crime, but being poor is. So this 2017, I am going to be rich in many ways.
I am going to go to church more often so that God
can grant me my heart's desire; work harder in my
career, and find me a rich husband that I can learn
to love. As Kanye West says: "Having money isn't
everything, not having it is."

NLProblemChild:
i feel Like a failure

dont be please

thanks y'all.. Burial is today

It's hard to believe that was back in the past
I remember those times like it was yesterday
I knew if I was there and you were here it'd be the same way
We never thought'd we'd go through anything like this
Now we sit back and pray and say Rest In Peace
All the homies got your name written in their hearts
Some on their shirts and some sang about you, just to show respect
You're always on our mind everyday and every night
We miss you chaddas, things just ain't right...
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.Rest In Peace in the heavens up above
Those you left behind from us got nothing but love
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.this sudden exit of my brother leaves us with questions... But is alright!! We Will be okay!!! ..Rest In Peace

half time correct score burnley 0 - 0 man U

please be realistic ,, who had time to read this to the end??

correct score chelsea 1- 2 tottenham.

leepest:
Christians and their fake Religion, every day fucking pple, even on d street

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son of a bitch.. I wonder what your father is . Why trying to start a religious war here?

speechless ... Why must it be mostly in the church these things happens.?

[color=#990000][/color]this invitation is based on logistics... .. Restrictly by invitation