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12543675:
I want to fit in because it's lonely to always be by my myself, and it's also hurtful and irritating to always be excluded when I do nothing wrong. That's why.

To me it's weird for me to hate all women and choose not to be friends with them when I am a woman myself at the end of the day.

Even if it was true or not, I would rather people not be envious of me when really my life is boring and nothing to be envious of.

Why is it a crime for me to want to fit in be friends with people of my own gender? Nobody wants to feel like or be an outcast and a loner. I always watch youtube videos of women traveling and hanging out with their friends and it reminds me of how boring my life is.

I am of the opinion your years of bullying from females have focused your attention more on those who bully you than on those who compliment you. It's nearly impossible to be hated by all women. There has to exist a few who like you, anyways. Everyone in the world can't hate you; you just need to find those who like you. Start with looking for areas where you can find those with common interests, and probably quit looking for validation on social media? If you play tennis, search for a tennis club and you will find the people with common interests who are more likely to like you for your tennis than for how you look or how you talk. If you like to dance, look for a dance club. I think there's one at Twinwaters Lagos. If you don't like to dance, how about picking it up? In the end, you owe just yourself your happiness. Don't go looking for it in the approval of others, regardless of who they are, male or female.

Sanchez01:
HTML
Python
C
Java (about a month though)

The first three can be picked up within 2 weeks.

What really are you learning picking up HTML, Python and C in 2 weeks? Must not be enough. Definitely just the basics. You don't pick up Python and get to "decorators" in 2 weeks. I think you should stop creating the illusion of being smart, while feeding out false information.

Karleb:
Walk in the what?!

Abi I don forget the meaning of that idiom ni?

I looked at the "walk in the park" thing and laughed a little. Sheer determination is not a walk in the park.