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You're an illiterate, sorry for being plain and direct about it.

Naija9090:
They have started their medicine after death. They should arrest him to explain what really happened to Wigwe, Ike Ndi Isoko. His explanation for not boarding the same chopper doesn't make sense. Why would he travel by road as someone based in Nigeria with Wigwe? Imagine president Tinubbu going to America and his assistant, Ngelele, decides not to board the same chopper with him, instead chose to travel by road. Does that make sense? This is the problem with Igbo people, they over trust this people with innate tribalism.

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Contrary to the articules and misconceptions that we have been seeing on our front page lately exemplary of:
The first stating 'the disadvantages of marrying a
virgin' = www.nairaland.com/2149268/
disadvantages-marrying-virgin . .
And the other telling us why virgins should hide their
status. =
www.nairaland.com/2149185/why-ladies-should-
avoid-claiming . .

Prompted me to act and disbunk such claims that cannot be proved with the 20 Advantages Of Being A Virgin And Why It Should Be Publicized.

it's a very long list but i'll enjoin you to read it most importantly if u'v read the counter thread.

1 STIs: there is no way a virgin an be infected with
STIs·

2 HIV-AIDS: There is no way a virgin can have AIDS
or HIV infection, which is transmitted by sexual
interactions. She may still be at risk with the blood
infection through cut skin etc but this last category
forms only 5% or less of HIV infections.

3 Unwanted pregnancies: There is no way a virgin
can become pregnant

4 Falling in love: A virgin does not fall in love with
any and all persons ho comes her way the way non-
virgin do and therefore make some avoidable
mistakes. To most virgins, love is not blind; it has
some sense, although it may be a little vision
impaired.

5 Lust: Most of the activities of non-virgins are
borne out of lust which we shall define here as an
exaggeration of the feeling of love to such a point
that it becomes closer to hate than love. Most
people have seen how those in 'lust' have harmed
their objects of affection in the name of jealousy or
anger etc. True love is calm and never violent and
never wants to harm. What teenagers call 'crush',
infatuation' etc are just Unclad lust. And most
sexually abnormal behaviors, which tend to inflict
harm, are all borne out of lust and not love. Here we
define anything abnormal as one that provides more
harm to the biology of the individual (that is his true
nature), than good.

6 Love: There is a lot of true love in virgin
marriages. A woman who marries as a virgin rarely
sees, or complains of problems as often as the non-
virgin. Sometimes (or most times) in interpersonal
relationships, it is our perception of situation that
created problems which ordinary do not exist.

7 Getting married: It is difficult to find a virgin who
has a problem getting married and usually at very
early age which biology teaches is the optimal time
for conception and establishing long and lasting
relationship. For most female this must be under 25
years. A woman of the age of 27 and above is
considered in medical science to be past her prime
of having safe first conception.

8 Preparation for marriage: Virgins tend to be better
prepared for marriage than non-virgins because of
excitement. The non-virgins are worried about the
future and have to make conscious effort to let their
marriage work if they so wish.

9 Fun: There is lot of fun and excitement for the
virgin couple on wedding night. I know a couple he
spent two nights trying to break a thick hymen. The
bride jokingly told the groom to please hire someone
to do it for him if he cannot perform.

10 Respect from Husband: Most men tend to
respect virgins throughout their marriage vows.
Virgins rarely have break up marriages. I am yet to
see a man who will divorce a woman whom he
married as a virgin.

11 Sexual deviation: It is difficult to define deviation
in sexual behavior but we can say it is any form of
sexual behavior that causes biological harm. But it
is impossible to see a true virgin involved in any
form of sexual behavior that may be considered
deviant by any standard.

12 Infertility: It is difficult to find a woman who got
married as virgin having problems getting pregnant.
Although there may be some born with infertility
problem, but the acquired ones are not found in
virgins. For example STIs which cause infertility by
scarring reproductive organs in both male and
female are no found in virgins.
13 Beauty: The beauty of an innocent woman is
indescribable. It is like new rose.

14. You stand out Being able to stand out from the
crowd means you're different, and being different is
better!
Not this reason alone, it also means you're a
disciplined person with an high amount of self
control.
Every man would give anything to marry a
disciplined person who is able to control her libido.
Any dude that tells you contrary ain't honest. Every
guy would love to be the first.

15. You're pure
virginity =purity.
I don't care if you believe it or not, but its the fact!
Have you ever thought for a slight second why
Jesus wasn't born through a non virgin ?
Jesus as we know is God, and being God means he
entail all forms of purity and obviously wouldn't be
brought to the world in unchastinty.
That's why he chose a virgin. Because being a virgin
is the apex height, and the greatest form of purity
any mortal can/could attain.

16 You're respected :
even the devil respects a virgin! Cause he knows it's
not easy to remain one at this present age.. That's
why he impute delusional conceptions on people to
criticize you. Forgive them.
You maybe criticized by your female folks for
remaining a virgin, but deep down, they have huge
respect for you.
They tend to criticize you because they are
uncomfortable that you poise more discipline and
self control than them.
''women are jealous by nature''

17. You're a role model and a source of inspiration :
every moment you tell the world you're a virgin,
you're encouraging a young teenage girl to keep
herself clean till the right time.
You inspire them with your stories on how your
husband was the first to see your unclothedness,
and how you were able to pull through with the
insistent urge and pressure.
You maybe saving someone from contracting an
STD.
God bless you!

18. You will be more comfortable in advising your
children :
You won't have that feeling when you're advising
you daughter about s*x and she pops the question
'were you a virgin when you married dad?' . .
If you remained a virgin when you got married, you
would be confident, and glad to render good advice
to your kids using yourself as an example in every
situation.
But this isn't the case of a lady who has been with
different men before she tied the knot.
I wonder the kind of advice such a person would
give to her child.. Probably how to wear a condom
or to always remember to take contraceptions....
I cry for this generation!
If you're still a virgin, I congratulate you......... And
urge you to keep yourself clean till you're ready.
Don't listen to critics, don't hide in the closet or be
ashamed to be a virgin. .
Come out and raise your shoulders high!
What you have is priceless! That's why it can never
be gotten back when lost.

19 We are to obey
what God tells us to do. First Corinthians
6:18–20 states, “Flee from sexual immorality.
All other sins a person commits are outside the
body, but whoever sins sexually, sins against
their own body. Do you not know that your
bodies are temples of the Holy Spirit, who is in
you, whom you have received from God? You
are not your own; you were bought at a price. Therefore honor God with your body

20 Is The Secret To A Long and Happy Marriage
"Sex is a learning experience for everyone, and if you both approach it as virgins, it's
even more special because you're learning together! Sex is also NOT the most
important thing in a marriage, though it's a wonderful
So many relationships nowadays are based around sex. When that gets
boring, what do you have? My Fiance and I wanted to make sure we were in love
with each other, not our sex.

Sources: www.nairaland.com/1916852/13-advantages-virginity

www.nairaland.com/2150003/advantages-marrying-virgin-why-lady
Pls I need to speak privately with you. I need an advice from you. 08038081126. I'm female.