nlPoster:


Nigerian marriage is not a synonym for death.

If you believe it is, why not remain single.

I've mentioned earlier, you folks should stop this type of talk, your mouth is for you alone, not other people.

Have you given your life to Christ btw? He can heal your spirit.

1. I can't point out anywhere in my post where I typed that Nigerian marriage is a synonym for death
2. Of course, I'm speaking for me alone. Anyone that thinks I'm speaking on behalf of him or her is on their own.
3. My spirit is not injured. I don't need your advice on who and who not to give my life to.


PS: If you keep quoting me with the intention of shoving your moral and religious values down my throat, I won't reply you. You are definitely gonna be OYO.

nlPoster:
I dont even know what to say.

@ Hadeehart101, it's good you and your boyfriend are practicing marriage (minus the sex part if you're doing that), what I can add is educate yourself on his culture so you have an idea of his personality. By culture I mean not just his origin but where he grew up. He's supposed to do the same on his end but he probably won't consider it important.



Also, are you absolutely certain this relationship is going to lead to marriage.

We are working on the culture ish.



The only certain thing in life is death. We are working towards not splitting up but if circumstances beyond our control come into play, there's little or nothing we can do about it.

crackhaus:

Who the hell is dragging knowledge of your boyfriend with you, and what is my darn business with who he is?
You're definitely coo coo...


If you were not high on some very good weed, how on earth will you claim to know someone you met in 100L more than the parents from whose loins he came forth, more than his siblings, and in fact more than every single person he has ever met? Lol...

Are you alright?

OK.

crackhaus:

I had quit marijuana, but please tell me the country they grow the specie you've been taking.

You should not call foul when you know nothing about who he is.

bukatyne:


I am going to use myself as an example.

I met my husband when I was 17+ in 100L and by then, I was very self-aware and knew the kind of man I did not want.

I also knew that money was not important to me and a kind, respectful and thoughtful man who would let me soar was it.

In short, I knew I would either wither with a typical Nigerian man or kill him. The latter more likely.

I am also not a creature of habit and hate rigidity.

Now, I met my husband/ he met me and we became best friends learning stuffs about each other which spilled into the relationship.

Some of the stuffs we learnt about each other from obversation, interaction and watching engagements with other people:

Decision making: he would say no and I would have to cajole him. When he would finally be convinced and say yes, he will package it as his idea. E.g. I brought up the idea of a local vacation last year and settled for Whispering Palms due to cost and experience. He initially said no and I said I was going with/without (I doubt I would have sha, don't like such outings alone). He said OK and asked I explain the stuff which I did. We had to go a day later than planned due to his schedule and since then, It is vacays are good. When is the next one, where are we going this year?
For me, you don't order me. You want me to do Z, tell we why and we discuss or negotiate if necessary. When we agree, I will even do pass wetin you send me.

2. I am someone who is led by example. He is someone who leads by example. For instance, he liked us to be fully accountable to each other. So he started by 'I did XYZ today. The B I told you I was doing, I couldn't meet up and did C instead. So how was your day?' and so I reciprocated. It spilled to finances and every aspects of our lives. It also meant no stringing of opposite sex friends, having 'friendships' other party couldn't know about etc.

3. We harness our resources together. We know our strengths and weaknesses and fill in for each other Irrespective of what is conventional. I remember we used to move our clothes to house where there was water and we wash together. We read together, fvcked in between and went back to our books. We shared our pocket money together and drafted text messages of 'projects' together to aunties and uncles when we were broke.

I am tired of typing however my point?

We knew ourselves 92% before we got
married.

Isn't this the story of my life?
I'm not married yet (still a student) and my boyfriend and I met since 100L but we just started dating 8 months ago.
We are each other's best friend and everything. I can confidently say I know him more than his parents and every other person he has met combined.
We are almost always together and when we are not, we are always conversing on the phone.
Even if we don't end up getting married, the issue of not getting to know ourselves well wouldn't have been an issue at all.
PS: We both try our best to keep it a hundred with one another.
Even in our present state, we spend our pocket money together and try to source for more together. You need to see us when we are planning how much to spend in a week. LOL. Like we are actually married.

Brymo:
address?

Superior points associates
FCMB building, Opposite Ojo Local government, Franklass Iyana Iba.

ekpemina007:
good day all does any one has the ican pack for skills stage and please do you have an idea of the amount i will pay for lectures for skills stage and any sound ican tutorial house around ikotun zone? please if you have the pack, kindly send to my mail ekpeminamartins@gmail.com and please does anyone has idea of the fees for skills stage at wyse tutorials?? thanks in advance.

Well, there's a very sound and ICAN accredited center (superior points associates) at Iyana Iba if you don't mind. It's #100 to get to the place from Ikotun. If interested let me know.
That's where I take lectures.

Mirror97:
Says who?? @ hadeehart101

Don't comman give me bobo here joor

Mirror97:
My friends and I are planning on going to some west African state like you do. But all i could see is the true state of Africa, probably the whole of West Africa. It's all rotten with courrption and extortion. i'm totaly discourage .

Those friends do not include me shey?
Clap for yourself

Valerie47:
I think I will choose ACCA when the time comes cause like you said, ACCA is pretty expensive but its recognized worldwide, also I won't write the exam until I get a job as a graduate trainee in one of the big 4 auditing firm, the firms foot the bills for the exam and give their staffs study materials, the membership fee won't be an issue.

Hi just so you know, ACCA is not a worldwide thing just about 180 country of with the USA and Canada is not a part of. They have their own accounting body. ACCA is to UK as ICAN is to Nigeria. I hope you get?
And, if KPMG is your target, they don't cater for ACCA students neither do they give out study materials forMN to ACCA students. They prioritize ICAN and provide tuition center for ICAN students also giving then time off work to prepare for the exams...
I hope this helps. You can check out the countries ACCA is recognized on Google.

Asour:

Thanks. all 3 papers, right?

Yes.

Asour:

please Could you help check (for skills) 189512. Thanks

Passed.

Too many people to send to. Can you drop your registration numbers instead? I'll check for y'all.
Skills alone for now.

Akinking2:

Hehehe. E don land
Can you get hold of the PDF?

Three people told me result is out already. I don't have it yet though.

I must confess that the bride is looking fab

imam07:
Tell us if u never beg for money from guys dis year. If u lie nah dog go chop your mouth b4 December.

LOL. I don't need to say anything to anyone Definitely not you!

Why not screenshot the number of votes too?
Generalization at its peak!