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Zayd007:
1. No webcam activated. I used my phone (check the attached image for the instruction given just at the start of the exam)

2. You can take the exam in one of the days during the one week. You can pause and resume only on that same day

3. Yes, it is allowed (not stated though)

4. Yes and No. the login page and the pop-up window page for the exam. You are not allowed to open more than those two




You can put a call through to me tomorrow. Check my signature

Maybe this is why I was not successful. Had multiple tabs opened on my browser already.
I was so sure of 90% of the questions though.

Orestino:
Yes

Hi. Were you successful? I got the unsuccessful response

These people haven't gotten the memo yet. This same scam, in 2020. Same Engr Wale and Pastor Adeoye as marketing manager for Merit Nigeria Ltd, Ikeja.
Even the Alhaji Yusuf Galadima that's their boss sounded so "scam-ish".
Here's the number of the Engr though 09078540962
I hope more people don't fall into their trap.

You
For life

nlPoster:
Nigerian marriage is not a synonym for death.

If you believe it is, why not remain single.

I've mentioned earlier, you folks should stop this type of talk, your mouth is for you alone, not other people.

Have you given your life to Christ btw? He can heal your spirit.

1. I can't point out anywhere in my post where I typed that Nigerian marriage is a synonym for death
2. Of course, I'm speaking for me alone. Anyone that thinks I'm speaking on behalf of him or her is on their own.
3. My spirit is not injured. I don't need your advice on who and who not to give my life to.


PS: If you keep quoting me with the intention of shoving your moral and religious values down my throat, I won't reply you. You are definitely gonna be OYO.

nlPoster:
I dont even know what to say.

@ Hadeehart101, it's good you and your boyfriend are practicing marriage (minus the sex part if you're doing that), what I can add is educate yourself on his culture so you have an idea of his personality. By culture I mean not just his origin but where he grew up. He's supposed to do the same on his end but he probably won't consider it important.



Also, are you absolutely certain this relationship is going to lead to marriage.

We are working on the culture ish.



The only certain thing in life is death. We are working towards not splitting up but if circumstances beyond our control come into play, there's little or nothing we can do about it.

crackhaus:
Who the hell is dragging knowledge of your boyfriend with you, and what is my darn business with who he is?
You're definitely coo coo...


If you were not high on some very good weed, how on earth will you claim to know someone you met in 100L more than the parents from whose loins he came forth, more than his siblings, and in fact more than every single person he has ever met? Lol...

Are you alright?

OK.

crackhaus:
I had quit marijuana, but please tell me the country they grow the specie you've been taking.

You should not call foul when you know nothing about who he is.

bukatyne:
I am going to use myself as an example.

I met my husband when I was 17+ in 100L and by then, I was very self-aware and knew the kind of man I did not want.

I also knew that money was not important to me and a kind, respectful and thoughtful man who would let me soar was it.

In short, I knew I would either wither with a typical Nigerian man or kill him. The latter more likely.

I am also not a creature of habit and hate rigidity.

Now, I met my husband/ he met me and we became best friends learning stuffs about each other which spilled into the relationship.

Some of the stuffs we learnt about each other from obversation, interaction and watching engagements with other people:

Decision making: he would say no and I would have to cajole him. When he would finally be convinced and say yes, he will package it as his idea. E.g. I brought up the idea of a local vacation last year and settled for Whispering Palms due to cost and experience. He initially said no and I said I was going with/without (I doubt I would have sha, don't like such outings alone). He said OK and asked I explain the stuff which I did. We had to go a day later than planned due to his schedule and since then, It is vacays are good. When is the next one, where are we going this year?
For me, you don't order me. You want me to do Z, tell we why and we discuss or negotiate if necessary. When we agree, I will even do pass wetin you send me.

2. I am someone who is led by example. He is someone who leads by example. For instance, he liked us to be fully accountable to each other. So he started by 'I did XYZ today. The B I told you I was doing, I couldn't meet up and did C instead. So how was your day?' and so I reciprocated. It spilled to finances and every aspects of our lives. It also meant no stringing of opposite sex friends, having 'friendships' other party couldn't know about etc.

3. We harness our resources together. We know our strengths and weaknesses and fill in for each other Irrespective of what is conventional. I remember we used to move our clothes to house where there was water and we wash together. We read together, fvcked in between and went back to our books. We shared our pocket money together and drafted text messages of 'projects' together to aunties and uncles when we were broke.

I am tired of typing however my point?

We knew ourselves 92% before we got
married.

Isn't this the story of my life?
I'm not married yet (still a student) and my boyfriend and I met since 100L but we just started dating 8 months ago.
We are each other's best friend and everything. I can confidently say I know him more than his parents and every other person he has met combined.
We are almost always together and when we are not, we are always conversing on the phone.
Even if we don't end up getting married, the issue of not getting to know ourselves well wouldn't have been an issue at all.
PS: We both try our best to keep it a hundred with one another.
Even in our present state, we spend our pocket money together and try to source for more together. You need to see us when we are planning how much to spend in a week. LOL. Like we are actually married.