₦airaland Forum

I've been dating a Nigerian man for two months. His great! I've already met his family and have met some people that knows him. Only concern I have is that he hasn't introduced me. People don't know that were dating unless they personally ask him. I told him that he should introduce me to people that are important to him but he doesn't feel it's neccessary. Is this common for Nigerians Men?

Paulpaulpaul:
Holding hands
Sharing darkest secret
Touching, just small - small


kissing then ask for forgiveness, it helps connectivity.

Your right kissing does bring connectivity. It's hard not to do, but the flesh is weak and the mind is stronger.

SagePerv:
[color=maroon]I define my own life as a christian.
I do things with my gf. But only with her.[/color]

So do you think that by doing things with just her it's considered a Christ-like relationship?

So we all know how our parents use to teach us of how to be young woman and men of morals, principals, and dignity. How many of us have kept those teachings when it comes down to a REAL relationship For those who have been in a REAL (Real Women, Real Men) relationship here's a question for you:


What is your perfect picture of chrisitan Dating? Do You agree or disagree with:

Sexual immorality
Touching
pre-intimacy
Kissing
Holding hands
Spending the night at one another house
Sharing your darkest secrets
Pornography
Etc.


What's your view of a relationship that you see as Godly.

Hello so I need some tips from my Nigerian brothers and sisters. My boyfriend who is Nigerian (father from Igbo & mother from Yoruba) would like for me to meet his parents and family.

By nature I am a very kind, sweet and respectful Haitian woman. We have very similar morals and principals (which is why we get along so well).

Anyways! Lol, I would like to know... Is it consider a nice gesture to get his mother and sister a nice gift to show my appreciation towards them? What are some other gestures that I can show them to acknowledge them?