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Haitian Beauty Meeting Nigerian Family by HaitianQueen: 4:21pm On Mar 19, 2015 |
Hello so I need some tips from my Nigerian brothers and sisters. My boyfriend who is Nigerian (father from Igbo & mother from Yoruba) would like for me to meet his parents and family. By nature I am a very kind, sweet and respectful Haitian woman. We have very similar morals and principals (which is why we get along so well). Anyways! Lol, I would like to know... Is it consider a nice gesture to get his mother and sister a nice gift to show my appreciation towards them? What are some other gestures that I can show them to acknowledge them? 24 Likes 4 Shares
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Re: Haitian Beauty Meeting Nigerian Family by Nobody: 4:28pm On Mar 19, 2015 |
Is that both of you in the pic? Does he only manage to plant a kiss on your forehead? That would be really frustrating if that's all he does for P.D.A... 9 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Haitian Beauty Meeting Nigerian Family by 25omega(m): 4:29pm On Mar 19, 2015 |
If you are meeting them for the first time, you probably shouldn't bring anything but your morals, pleasant nature and willingness to meet some new people. Further more ask him what to expect. Beyond that, i don't think you will have any issues because if his mother is Yoruba and Father is Igbo, they are progressive thinkers who wont hold you being from Haiti against you. Just be chill and follow the flow of things and you will be fine. Good luck 124 Likes 6 Shares |
Re: Haitian Beauty Meeting Nigerian Family by majalisa(m): 4:29pm On Mar 19, 2015 |
HaitianQueen:another pix of u guys or.... 5 Likes |
Re: Haitian Beauty Meeting Nigerian Family by yeahh(m): 4:29pm On Mar 19, 2015 |
Visit dem loaded |
Re: Haitian Beauty Meeting Nigerian Family by StPete: 4:30pm On Mar 19, 2015 |
African mothers like respect. Never you say ‘hello' unless you’re pretty sure she is VERY literate. Greeting a Yoruba woman all the time is considered a score point. Getting her gifts would definitely win you points but be rest assured the gifts are mother-oriented. Such gifts may include but not limited to expensive African materials with shoes and bags to match. I’ll stop here for now BTW, if you’ve got any single Haitian sisters, pls feel free to holla (send a pm ) 75 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Haitian Beauty Meeting Nigerian Family by Vince77(m): 4:30pm On Mar 19, 2015 |
Be yourself. Don't be too nervous. 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Haitian Beauty Meeting Nigerian Family by Nobody: 4:30pm On Mar 19, 2015 |
25omega: Seconded....and a gift won't be a bad idea BTW..... 15 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Haitian Beauty Meeting Nigerian Family by Nobody: 4:30pm On Mar 19, 2015 |
Lol When u wanna greet his mum..scrape ur knees to the point of having blisters. If u don't kneel when greeting a yoruba woman,O.Y.O Don't chew gum Don wear skimpy clothes Help out in the kitchen,at least with the clearing of the table U could surprise his mum by saying ekaro or ekasan or ekale ma. The fathers are usually less troublesome Don't be too clingy with ur man,let him sit on mum's thighs if he likes 59 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: Haitian Beauty Meeting Nigerian Family by sCun: 4:30pm On Mar 19, 2015 |
Fake ass story 1 Like |
Re: Haitian Beauty Meeting Nigerian Family by Alenkakent(m): 4:31pm On Mar 19, 2015 |
well... all d best with that |
Re: Haitian Beauty Meeting Nigerian Family by jamillion: 4:31pm On Mar 19, 2015 |
Re: Haitian Beauty Meeting Nigerian Family by Sweetguy25: 4:31pm On Mar 19, 2015 |
Just bring Wyclef to sing for them. 28 Likes |
Re: Haitian Beauty Meeting Nigerian Family by boman2014: 4:31pm On Mar 19, 2015 |
Ask the next person! vvv |
Re: Haitian Beauty Meeting Nigerian Family by seuncyber(m): 4:31pm On Mar 19, 2015 |
Be your self Respect the sister and brother and don't Naira land there 6 Likes |
Re: Haitian Beauty Meeting Nigerian Family by hensben(m): 4:32pm On Mar 19, 2015 |
Team foreign babes crew over to you. 4 Likes |
Re: Haitian Beauty Meeting Nigerian Family by Pebcak: 4:32pm On Mar 19, 2015 |
understand the culture greetings especially from the yoruba side Respect--> if you dont have problem kneeling you ll be aight Food--> try not to reject food, if you can't eat make sure u have a good excuse and let them know ahead of time Generally--> smile and enjoy the culture if you from Haiti then welcome home They will call you IYAWO a lot---> wifey You might get lost when they start speaking local language, dont get mad even if they gossip just know that er'body ghat nothing but love for you. If they dont like you they will not invite you Gifts good idea, but watch it and dont turn to father christmas 26 Likes |
Re: Haitian Beauty Meeting Nigerian Family by Zi: 4:32pm On Mar 19, 2015 |
Looks like its a long distance relationship |
Re: Haitian Beauty Meeting Nigerian Family by felifeli: 4:32pm On Mar 19, 2015 |
Don't bring your credit card 6 Likes |
Re: Haitian Beauty Meeting Nigerian Family by Abayor7: 4:32pm On Mar 19, 2015 |
I'll be right back.... |
Re: Haitian Beauty Meeting Nigerian Family by kobonaire(m): 4:33pm On Mar 19, 2015 |
Other than being yourself,respectful of elders and accepting of some of the cultural differences you may encounter there is nothing much you need to do IMHO. Nigerians are one of the nicest, welcoming and most accommodating people in this world. Get ready to have a great time with your new family. 6 Likes |
Re: Haitian Beauty Meeting Nigerian Family by Kelklein(m): 4:33pm On Mar 19, 2015 |
...ok...but just remember this.. 11 Likes 1 Share
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Re: Haitian Beauty Meeting Nigerian Family by MzJackBaueress(f): 4:33pm On Mar 19, 2015 |
Getting them gifts is ok but make sure his dad is not left out in the gifts sharing. Don't be nervous,just be yourself. Don't pretend to be what you're not. Wish you the best. 9 Likes |
Re: Haitian Beauty Meeting Nigerian Family by spiro4real(f): 4:33pm On Mar 19, 2015 |
Oh ok na |
Re: Haitian Beauty Meeting Nigerian Family by DecencyLady(f): 4:33pm On Mar 19, 2015 |
A gift won't be bad... whichever way, follow ur heart and most importantly, be happy 3 Likes |
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