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CelebritiesRe: Pastor Kisses Female Church Member To Cast Out Demons From Her Body by hammerT: 9:46am On Aug 22, 2023
MORE LIKE CAST IN PREGNANCY.


SMALL TIME FROM LIPS, PRICK GO ENTER.



FAKE PASTOR!
PoliticsRe: Alliance Talks: Join Tinubu Rather Than Atiku, Kwankwaso – Ohanaeze Tells Obi by hammerT: 10:50pm On Aug 21, 2023
APC AND TINUBU PAID GOATS SHOULD STOP DRAGGING OHANAEZE NAME THROUGH THE MUD, THE LAST PERSON OBI WILL JOIN IS THE DRUG LORD.


BAD COMPANY CORRUPT GOOD MANNERS.
PoliticsRe: ‘Buildings Will Go Down’ — Wike Assumes Office, Vows More Demolitions by hammerT: 2:46pm On Aug 21, 2023
Sleekfingers:
Abuja is the federal capital, situated in the north. Controlled by the federal government. So Wike have the power to bring down any illegal structures.
WEN HE FINISH AND THEY LEAVE POWER IN A YEAR AFTER JUDGEMENT OR 4 YEARS, ALL HIS EFFORT WILL BE WASTED.


HE IS NOT THE LAW AND CANNOT COLLECT LAND FROM PEOPLE THAT HAVE BEEN ISSUED CERTIFICATE OF OCCUPANCY.


OR GO ROUND DEMOLISHING PEOPLE HOUSE BECAUSE THEY ARE ALL OF A SUDDEN LOOKING FOR LAND.


WIKE WILL BRING TROUBLE TO TINUBU DOOR.
PoliticsRe: ‘Buildings Will Go Down’ — Wike Assumes Office, Vows More Demolitions by hammerT: 2:39pm On Aug 21, 2023
bender79:
He should go and sit down. He thinks north is like Rivers
HE IS A VERY USELESS MAN.


EVERYWHERE HE GOES, HE MUST ACT LIKE A TOUT.


LET US SEE WHAT HE WANT TO DO AND WHETHER HIM FIT CAUSE EARTHQUAKE OR PERHAPS HE THINKS THAT IS PORT HARCOURT OR IKWERRE LAND.
PoliticsRe: ‘Buildings Will Go Down’ — Wike Assumes Office, Vows More Demolitions by hammerT: 2:37pm On Aug 21, 2023
dre11:
BREAKING: ‘Buildings ‘ll go down’ — Wike assumes office as FCT minister, vows more demolitions



https://www.vanguardngr.com/2023/08/breaking-buildings-ll-go-down-wike-assumes-office-as-fct-minister-vows-more-demolitions/
ABUJA IS NOT PORT HARCOURT, YOU MAY NOT EVEN LAST LONG IN THAT OFFICE AND IF YOU FINISH, SOMEBODY ELSE WILL STILL COME AND DISMANTLE EVERYTHING.


THE DEVIL LABOURS IN VEIN.
RomanceRe: My Mum Is Strongly Rejecting The Girl I Want To Marry by hammerT: 2:31pm On Aug 21, 2023
niri:
As history may have it, the Osu Caste System has been abolished on 28 December 2018 in a ceremony conducted in Nri, the acclaimed ancestral home of the Igbo nation, in Anaocha local government area of Anambra State. The title of the abolition ceremony was “Nigeria: Osu Caste System in Igboland Ends Today.”[13]

Also on 7 April 2021, another abolition ceremony took place in Nsukka, Enugu as 119 villages in the nine autonomous communities in Nsukka town, Nsukka Local Government Area of Enugu State, gathered to eradicate the Osu Caste System in their communities.[14]
THEY NEED A PUBLIC HOLIDAY TO DRIVE HOME THE MESSAGE.


A SPECIAL DAY RESERVED


ALL THE COMMUNITIES EZE MUST REPLICATE EZE NRI.
RomanceRe: My Mum Is Strongly Rejecting The Girl I Want To Marry by hammerT: 2:26pm On Aug 21, 2023
Ewedegubbler:
I’m from Anambra. Nothing like Osu in our place. If u try am u go see pepper
JUST SAY YOUR GENERATION DONT KNOW.

IF YOU LIKE GO AND ASK YOUR PARENTS AND YOU WILL FIND OUT.
RomanceRe: My Mum Is Strongly Rejecting The Girl I Want To Marry by hammerT: 2:17pm On Aug 21, 2023
pansophist:
How is what I am saying differ from what the guy is saying?

Also, why not defend your position with your own arguments instead of borrowing one from a random youtuber?
ALREADY TOLD YOU, BECAUSE YOU ARE NOT PREPARED TO LEARN.


I SAID THAT EXACT THING NUMERIOUS TIMES ON THIS PLATFORM.


I WANTED YOU TO HEAR IT FROM ANOTHER COUNTRY IN AFRICA.
RomanceRe: My Mum Is Strongly Rejecting The Girl I Want To Marry by hammerT: 1:59pm On Aug 21, 2023
1Sharon:
grin
U TOO WATCH FROM 4.50, EDUCATE YOURSELF.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8mIyi3pdf7U
RomanceRe: My Mum Is Strongly Rejecting The Girl I Want To Marry by hammerT: 1:57pm On Aug 21, 2023
pansophist:
The Congo guy na God? See this man o.

A proponent of expensive brideprice justifying his greed is like a tiger justifying why he killed a goat.

Anyways I will give you and the Congo man the benefit of doubt, let me hear what he has to say/

But I will repeat for the umpteenth time, don't bankrupt a man because you need brideprice. Thats all.
FOUND HIM, WATCH FROM 4.50



THIS IS A CONGOLESE MAN, ONLY YORUBA DONT TAKE MARRIAGE SERIOUS AND EVERYTIME, THEY WILL BE CALLING IGBO AND THAT MUST STOP.


WE ARE DIFFERENT ENTITIES.





https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8mIyi3pdf7U
RomanceRe: My Mum Is Strongly Rejecting The Girl I Want To Marry by hammerT: 1:55pm On Aug 21, 2023
1Sharon:
So you believe dead body water can identify a woman that killed her husband? 🤔
WHY IS IT THAT PEOPLE WHO COMMIT CRIME IN BENIN ARE FORCED TO DRINK WATER BY OBA OF BENIN?

ALL OF YOU WILL JUST BE SHOUTING IGBO BUT FORGET YOU ARE ALL DOING THE SAME THING.
RomanceRe: My Mum Is Strongly Rejecting The Girl I Want To Marry by hammerT: 1:51pm On Aug 21, 2023
pansophist:
Mr man, collect the Bride price. All I am saying is that you should practice humanity while doing it. Don't make the man bitter and poorer just because he married your sister/daughter.

A few weeks ago, a thread hit the frontpage about a newly married woman complaining that her husband have changed for the worse after their wedding night,

ANd when she asked him, he explained that he is in debt, and the money he paid for brideprice is so much. The man was broke just because he married her.

I mean, I do not want any man to be broke because he married my sister or my daughter, instead, I want her presence in his life to boost him higher, and she will be a true blessing to him.

WHich school you go sef? I cant believe this is too hard for you to get. COllect bride price, just don't kill the man with bills, thats all.
#


HOW CAN HE BE BROKE FOR BUYING A FEW THINGS FOR HIS OCCASSION AND PAYING HIS DUES?


PLUS, HE HAS AN EXTRA HAND NOW, WHICH MEANS EXTRA INCOME.


I WILL LET THAT CONGO GUY EXPLAIN TO YOU BEFORE THE END OF THE DAY.

I'M SEARCHING FOR HIM ON YOUTUBE.
RomanceRe: My Mum Is Strongly Rejecting The Girl I Want To Marry by hammerT: 1:49pm On Aug 21, 2023
1Sharon:
Did women not used to drink the dead body water of their late husbands? 🥴

Where is that practise today?
ALL THIS HORROR STORY YOU PEOPLE ARE LEARNING, WHO TOLD YOU THAT WAS EVER DONE.

UNLESS YOU KILLED HIM.
RomanceRe: My Mum Is Strongly Rejecting The Girl I Want To Marry by hammerT: 1:42pm On Aug 21, 2023
1Sharon:
If it is true that the bride price of Congo and Kenya is extortionate, then it also needs to be abolished.

Did buhari's daughter marry a poor struggling man huh

Gold is appropriate.
WHO ARE YOU TO ABOLISH ANYTHING.

I THINK MARRIAGE SHOULD BE ABOLISHED, BECAUSE IT IS OUTDATED.
RomanceRe: My Mum Is Strongly Rejecting The Girl I Want To Marry by hammerT: 1:41pm On Aug 21, 2023
pansophist:
You seriously are personalizing this issue to me. Cant you discuss neutrally bikonu?

Yes, my parents got married, and are still married. So what's your point sef? And no, when my sister got married, my parents did exactly that. No one naira was collected from my inlaws, and they were given lots of gifts including cash, to start their home.

You think it is every Nigerian that practice that backward system of seeing a man as a means to cash out from? Where is your self-respect?

So you see, it's not a big deal. No matter how you twist, misunderstand, or misinterpret my point, my position is simple.

Which is, don't see a man as a wallet to ransack. He is a human that Nigeria is also dealing with. Be easy and don't see him as a means to cure your poverty problem. That is my point.
I WILL COPY A CLIP FROM A CONGOLESE MAN TALKING ABOUT THE IMPORTANCE OF BRIDE PRICE AND COPY YOU IN AS SOON AS I FIND IT.

LISTEN VERY CAREFULLY TO HIM BECAUSE I 'M TIRED OF STATING THE OBVIOUS TO SOMEONE NOT PREPARED TO LEARN.
RomanceRe: My Mum Is Strongly Rejecting The Girl I Want To Marry by hammerT: 1:38pm On Aug 21, 2023
1Sharon:
Seriously??

Are you comparing igbo and yoruba bride price?


Igbo bride price is a way to extort men and get rich.

Nonsense.
ALSO, STOP COMPARING IGBO AND YORUBA, WE DONT EVEN SHARE BORDERS.


IF YOU WANT TO COMPARE, BRING IN ALL THE TRIBES IN NIGERIA AND AFRICA.


IGBO IS NOT YORUBA AND YORUBA IS NOT IGBO.


NIGERIA WE HAVE IN COMMON WITH MANY OTHER GROUPS LUMPED TOGETHER BY THE BRITISH.
RomanceRe: My Mum Is Strongly Rejecting The Girl I Want To Marry by hammerT: 1:35pm On Aug 21, 2023
1Sharon:
Seriously??

Are you comparing igbo and yoruba bride price?


Igbo bride price is a way to extort men and get rich.

Nonsense.
HAVE YOU TRY GOING TO CONGO AND KENYA, TO COMPARE THEIR BRIDE PRICE TO NIGERIA?


HOW MUCH DID BUHARI COLLECT FOR HIS DAUGHTER? GOLD


IN KENYA IS SEVERAL COWS.


IN CONGO, YOU WILL SEE LIST.
RomanceRe: My Mum Is Strongly Rejecting The Girl I Want To Marry by hammerT: 1:33pm On Aug 21, 2023
pansophist:
Typically Igbo man grin

Which one is praying against poverty again? Me wey don defeat poverty since grin

The data on the ground doesn't support your position. Most people in Nigeria don't have 500usd, which is 500k.

So tell me, where are these rich men bikonu? Instead of you to see the merit in my point, you infused your bias into it.

Now tell me, how is an expensive bride price that will bankrupt a home that is just starting a good thing?

What about a parent blessing the home of his daughter, and even giving them some money to start a family with?

If a man wants to marry my daughter, I won't collect any bride price. Instead, I will rather give them a loan for a down payment on a house, or car, and contribute to their wedding.

I will be a giver, not a receiver. The couples are just starting their life, why not prop them up instead of seeing them as a means to cash out?

I don't care if it is culture, it just doesn't make sense to me. In that regard, some Igbo cultures especially imo is parasitic.
DID YOUR PARENTS MARRY?


EVEN THE MOST POOR RIGHT THERE IN THE VILLAGES ARE GETTING MARRIED.


IS MARRAIGE COMMON IN THOSE PLACES YOU MENTIONED? YES!


SO PARDON ME IF I DONT UNDERSTAND YOU.


U COME ACROSS AS A LAZY MAN.
RomanceRe: My Mum Is Strongly Rejecting The Girl I Want To Marry by hammerT: 1:29pm On Aug 21, 2023
POWERFULGOD:
You funny, so you don't know why IMO state especially OWERRI are no go Area..... If there indigenous people are staying far why you.... ..
YOUR NOT SERIOUS.
RomanceRe: My Mum Is Strongly Rejecting The Girl I Want To Marry by hammerT: 1:29pm On Aug 21, 2023
POWERFULGOD:
Please you seem not to understand.... This one no be matter of understanding or compromise , look for who will tell you more probably from their experiences...
I DO, THE ONLY WAY TO CHANGE IT IS FOR THE GENERATION BORN INTO IT TO PASS ON.

THE YOUNGER GENERATION DONT UNDERSTAND ALL THIS OSU BUSINESS, ONLY OUR PARENTS DO.

HOWEVER, I DONT KNOW ABOUT THOSE GROWING UP IN THE VILLAGE, THEY MIGHT BE THE EXCEPTION AND STUMBLING BLOCK TO LEAVING THIS CULTURE BEHIND.
RomanceRe: My Mum Is Strongly Rejecting The Girl I Want To Marry by hammerT: 1:23pm On Aug 21, 2023
pansophist:
Igbo own are too much, that is my point.

The worse are igbos from imo. Even their men run to other parts of Igbo land for a wife, especially women from Enugu.
PRAY AGAINST THE SPIRIT OF POVERTY BECAUSE PEOPLE ARE GETTING MARRIED EVERY WEEKEND IN ALL THOSE PLACES YOU ARE MENTIONING.


SO, I DONT KNOW WHAT YOU ARE TALKING ABOUT.



WORK HARD!
RomanceRe: My Mum Is Strongly Rejecting The Girl I Want To Marry by hammerT: 1:22pm On Aug 21, 2023
POWERFULGOD:
To be frank with you I have witnessed and hear from my parents as well... It's not an easy ride.... I won't like my children to pass such stigma... Oh if they can be truthful here they will tell you that they do have a sign they to do make to identify themselves in a public gathering..
MARRIAGE ALWAYS GOES WITH PROBLEMS BUT AT THE END EVERYBODY MAKE THE NECESSARY ADJUSTMENTS AND MOVE ON.


IT CAN NEVER BE EASY, BOTH BEFORE AND AFTER.


IT REQUIRES ALOT OF COMPROMISE AND MATURITY.
RomanceRe: My Mum Is Strongly Rejecting The Girl I Want To Marry by hammerT: 1:18pm On Aug 21, 2023
pansophist:
This is why I like Yoruba weddings.

No unnecessary complications like this. Cheap bride price, unlike the Igbos that see bride price as a means to cash out big time.

Even if the man is broke, he can still get married, and bring the woman to come and live with him in his father's compound, as per landlord pikin.

But Igbo girls? hmm. I fear those ones. If you are financially okay, you are not eligible to marry. You must be very made, and a man is judged solely by how deep his pocket is.

Sorry I have no advice to give, I just want to bash Igbo people small.
I HOPE YOU KNOW BRIDE PRICE IS AFRICAN NOT IGBO?


HOW MANY OTHER PEOPLE DO IT LIKE THE YORUBA IN NIGERIA? NONE!
RomanceRe: My Mum Is Strongly Rejecting The Girl I Want To Marry by hammerT: 1:07pm On Aug 21, 2023
Blaze14k:
I would like to use this opportunity to seek guidance based on the issue I have on ground. I believe it's igbos especially elderly person who is in a better position to give me a reasonable explanation. I told my mum my girlfriend is from ohafia, abia state and she instantly told me I can't get married to her. Her reason is because people from ohafia, arochukwu, izombe, and few other places in abia state are regarded as OSU. I complained to other members of my family but they also rejected her.

I have made some research personally and found out people from other part of igboland marry from those places. Now my question is why are they strongly rejecting her cos it doesn't make sense to call everybody from different local government in abia state OSU.

I've made more research on the girls family and found out they are king makers and her father belongs to eze's cabinet.

Her father and mine are no longer alive. They both have a traditional title and belong to eze's cabinet too. Please I need your advice cos I really want marry this girl. I also know that people encounter alot of difficulties when they want to get married. So I need a clarification from someone who has extensive knowledge on igbo tradition. Thank you
PERHAPS YOU MOTHER HAVE HER OWN IDEAS OF WHERE SHE WOULD LIKE TO PICK A WIFE FOR YOU.

THE GOOD NEWS IS THAT OSU CULTURE IS A GENERATION AWAY FROM DIEING A NATURAL DEATH, AS THE YOUNGER GENERATION LIKE YOU AND MYSELF DONT UNDERSTAND IT OR BELIEVE IN IT.

OUR PARENTS ARE THE LAST GENERATION KEEPING THAT TRADITION.

NOBODY CAN EXPECT ME TO KEEPP A CULTURE I DONT UNDERSTAND.

MY ONLY CONCERN IS THE LOCAL CHAMPIONS GROWING UP IN THE VILLAGE, WHETHER THEY WILL CONTINUE WITH THIS MADNESS.


AND THAT IS ALL IT IS, MADNESS.


OUR GENERATION IS PROMOTING IGBO MARRIAGE AND THAT IS PARAMOUNT ABOVE ALL ELSE.

IF THE LADY IS WHERE YOU HAVE SETTLED YOUR HEART, EXPLAIN TO YOUR MUM SHE IS NOT AN OSU AND YOU HAVE GONE TO CHECK.

JUST MAKE SURE U DONT COMMUNICATE WHAT YOU ARE PASSING THROUGH AT HOME WITH YOUR MUM TO HER, TO AVOID BAD BLOOD IF YOU DO MARRY HER.


YOUR MUM IS JUST LOOKING OUT FOR YOU ACCORDING TO THE BELIEF SYSTEM SHE WAS RAISED.


SHE IS NOT A BAD PERSON, JUST MISLED.
Foreign AffairsRe: ECOWAS Rejects Niger Junta’s 3-year Transition Plan by hammerT: 10:56pm On Aug 20, 2023
favor914:
Disgruntled despicable Obidient.
YA FADA!
Foreign AffairsRe: ECOWAS Rejects Niger Junta’s 3-year Transition Plan by hammerT: 10:46pm On Aug 20, 2023
kayperry:
Are you aware COUP is a treasonable act against the country and it violates the constitution of any democratic nation

You are so dumb that you don't even know there is nothing sovereign about a nation whose constitution as being suspended and the choice of the people subverted

Ecowas as a regulatory body has the responsiblity to restore stability and normalcy to any member state.
SHARAP!


NAPPY HEAD!



DUNCE!
Foreign AffairsRe: ECOWAS Rejects Niger Junta’s 3-year Transition Plan by hammerT: 10:45pm On Aug 20, 2023
BoldBrainz:
Legitimacy of any government is conferred by the governed. If the citizens of that country felt the junta was not in their best interest, they'd have protested against it from day one. They've rather been doing the exact opposite. And that to any sane mind, is legitimacy enough, in this case.
IF BLACK PEOPLE ARE NOT CURSED AND EVIL, WHY SHOULD SOMEBODY IN INDIA UNDERSTAND NIGER PEOPLE DONT WANT FRANCE AND NIGERIANS OR WEST AFRICA NOT?



ARE THEY CURSED TO BE FOREVER SLAVE?



SPREADING THEIR SMELLING SHIT FOR WHITE AND ARAB TO FVUK?


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_YeNxLgvL6A
Foreign AffairsRe: ECOWAS Rejects Niger Junta’s 3-year Transition Plan by hammerT: 10:40pm On Aug 20, 2023
Minjim:
It's not Nigeria that's invading Niger, it's ECOWAS, with the support of the AU.
Moreover, the junta lacks the legitimacy to lay claim to any authority
PRECISELY THIIEFNUBU, THE ECOWAS CHAIRMAN.



EITHER WAY, AFTER THIS, MANY COUNTRIES WILL THINK TWICE BEFORE JOINING ECOWAS.


SEE THE BETRAYAL OF A MEMBER STATE TO FRANCE AND US.


NIGER HAVE ALWAYS BEEN A BROTHER AND PARTNER TO NIGERIA AND ECOWAS.
Foreign AffairsRe: ECOWAS Rejects Niger Junta’s 3-year Transition Plan by hammerT: 10:38pm On Aug 20, 2023
STOP SAYING ECOWAS AND START SAYING THIIEFNUBU.
EducationRe: Outrage As UNIBEN Security Slaps Student Over Alleged Indecent Dressing by hammerT: 10:14pm On Aug 20, 2023
THE WHOLE PLACE IS LIKE AN OPEN HOUSE MENTAL ASYLUM.

MANY ARE DETERMINED TO MAINATIN ANARCHY.


U CAN IMAGINE ASKING SOMEONE TO SEEK REDRESS AND IN THE SAME BREATH SAYING SHE GO EXPLAIN TIRE NO EVIDENCE BECAUSE U ARE DETERMINED TO REWARD EVIL FOR A JOB WELLDONE.


I WONT LET IT GO, IF YOU MEET SOMEONE LIKE ME, THE BODIES WILL PILE UP.
EducationRe: Outrage As UNIBEN Security Slaps Student Over Alleged Indecent Dressing by hammerT:
livebullet:
Did she comply with the dress code ? If no she is guilty. These girls barely dress nowadays.

As for the slap, well inside my mind I know say the man no just walk up to her slap her. She must have insulted the man for cautioning her ill-dressing.
The rest can be settled in court. She go explain tire evidence no go dey.

But the dressing no too dey provocative naa
THE BELOW OPTION IS FOR DUMMIES THAT OVERESTIMATE THEIR INTELIGENCE.


U CANNOT GO UNPUNISHED AAFTER VIOLATING OTHERS.



IF YOUR MOTHER DID NOT TRAIN YOU, WE WILL DO IT FOR HER AND SHE GO HEAR AM, SHED TEARS FOR U.

timiade446:
Hope the security guy doesn’t get killed

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