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micgray100:
NOTHING HERE FROM MINISTRY OF AVIATION.... THEY DISTRIBUTED PAY SLIP WITHOUT PAYMENT ENTERING BANK ACCOUNT... THIS SALARY GO LONG O.... DOLLAR IS 790 TODAY.... I DONT UNDERSTAND THIS COUNTRY AGAIN O

walahi i dont undrstand too.. even 40% peculiar allownace self dem seclude us....

jeromestarks:
Someone here said on Sunday that it has been fixed.

we never see salary till now

jeromestarks:
But what did they say really happened sef?

Ippis server error

jeromestarks:
Who has been paid?

still. Expecting.... I don tire

Sniper101:
Bros

Na you go dey loose guard yourself by doing father_christmas for Girl wey no be your Babe and wey you never collect 10point from before.

O.Gees these days no dey go all those extent wey you go through to empress Babes these days again o

Even me sef before I go pay for Girl Uber/Bolt, take her out and spend the way you spend so, I go dun put am for the girl body, either directly or indirectly, say after the Raggea we go gats play the Blues.

No time to dey waste time on Barnies.
No time to impress any Barnie.

Dem no know how we take dey collect dis moni

nah so you be red piller guy...

Daniel7543:
Not all women hate doggy style, maybe na the type of girls u don fvck hate doggy.
If u see the idi araba wey I fvck on sallah day, na doggy position this girl set for me. Jesu.
I have to play music with my sound system becus dat doggy smashing sound can be heard by my neighbors.

funny you, like this sounds.. phaka, pasa , phakum, pkakum, dafun, fafu, sometimes the pussy go cum dey do ..dose are doogy sound ,mteech mtcheew, fruuu, raphu .. tweesh tweeych , another one feerese feerese ,... Fat faf faf ..

DaudaTheSexyGuy:
I have girlfriend I have been banging for years cos her husband is outside the country.

Her toto is still tight you won't even know she has already had 2 kids

Really but ain't you know she is a married woman... But you keep banging... But shey we go blame the woman ,,, but loneliness and kinji go affect her ... But Dem go say Yu dey do fornication... But shey the woman go dey for years without her pussy been bang.. religion self nah wah ooo

Anfieldboss:
You did a good job explaining the types of distance in marriages. A woman that will cheat, even if she has a live-in husband, she will still cheat.

correct

AsomStructures:
Marriages these days is not for the faint hearted. I basically do not support distance between spouse in marriages cos of the many temptation it comes with.. If you're working in a state different from ur wife, carry her along same applies to if you're in a different country...

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some men don't do that at all, they just don't

EconomistXplain:
i heard its only in south east that FG workers are not paid yet..

south west too join

jeromestarks:
Nice one. At least that 40% will do something for your family.

did he mention they pay them 40percent

Sucre6:
Nope, but there was arrears of the 40% increment by buhari government, our ministry didn't want to include us until this month, the salary looks nothing like double salary

did the pay you 40 percent in your organization, this june , we also they excluded us but later they include us but only level 1-6 abd 15

Imagine... But don't know maybe they will give us , our ASSURi union fight for it ... Still waiting for them...

Did you people benefit this june

Everyone want to survive to meet up putting food to the table, also in pursuit of greener pastures.

Marriage for better for worse.. I will obey him as my husband and so also the wife.

That is according to the oath .
But situation turns things around in marriage. Husband having side chicks, wife also have side guys due to distancing..

Two most important factors that leads to distancing in marriage are .. work - due to transfer
,(2.) Travelling Abroad.

But should we say is a bad thing to go look for money for upkeep of the family.

Most spouses spent three years or more than in disapora also within the country transfer from one state to other..


I have seen times and number of married ladies collecting different pkekus coz of their husbands not around. One told my aunty that body no be fire wood, she has been lonely for five years, though husband do send money to her and children.. she said she can't cope ... But in marriage they said stay faithful to each other..

Even their husbands in disapora also feck pufzy too..

Who is to be blame? And the white brought religion preaching in the bible two become one, don't Bleep outside marriage but they are the one self are best in polygamy , betrayal, single father and mothers...

Anither one is a Nigeria navy officer that go for missions like kilode spent years on ship hardly come home occasionally... Hs wife is just distributing pkekus for street guys around the area... And with kids.. Nigerian soldiers nko.. one of our military friend said imagine them dey feck his wife and he caught them but he allowed the guy to go Bec if he kill him , it will affect him bec they will charg him for murder... It is because he has to obey his duty call and wheredd he want to make money..


So many situations leading to distancing.

So say communication will okay the relationship strong .. really but someone said he do call his wife everyday and for him to hear a voice underneath saying she should raise her ass for doggy up during live call , I think she was carried away by her boyfriend dick , she later realize she is on call and cut it... The said guy in question felt hurt but he is in London.. what can he do ..

My friends said he didn't want to marry, that just baby mama, Bec his working place is full of that practices.. married ladies fucking colleugues in office. The guy vow not to marry Bec he is a jealous type..

How do husband and wife cope in this situations.?

Matured opinion please..

Sucre6:
That would be giving too much information sir.

how

helinues:
The over billing don't worth the stress

I tell you

Sucre6:
Yes, I received mine 4 days ago and my ministry is under IPPIS Abuja

which ministry are you

Sucre6:
Double salary as in for June and July or they are just dishing out extra salary for june ?

I got a news from a friend in Abuja

Anonymoususher:
I finished secondary school 14yrs ago but 3yrs ago me at the forefront made a move to connect with most of our class mates.

I linked up with 5 pple and we created a whatsapp group and so far we have risen to about 70 in the group

It's amazing to see how we corporate, we do donations for any of our mates that is wedding, anyone that puts to bed or loses a loved one. So far we have had 2 get together parties and there was an impressive turn out.

Recently we played a football match between us and the set above us and it was fun to see our seniors and also old friends.

One joy I derive from this is the fact that these people know ourselves more than some family members. In their midst is where I feel like a child.

I go out looking corporate and serious, I come home seeking to be at my best and an example to my kids, in the neighborhood I comport myself to attract respect, no time to feel like a baby, to play, to laugh and to connect with people that know you in and out. But we my class mates, when we meet, nobody forms anything, we keep our social status aside and call ourselves those funny names, play and catch fun like we did in class 14yrs ago.

Omo it's mad fun

that is interesting, I love your write up. But my own group are full of pride stingy mates, if you request for help .. next thing they start to ghost you.. or see finish

akakurukukaku:
My parents are pensioners and they have been paid for the month of June. Will they pay pensioners when they have not paid workers. I believe workers have been paid

no workers have been paid

Diffen:
Some ministries have paid while some haven't. My friends got Thursday night,some Friday morning. It's still dropping but we are still waiting.

well I learnt that ippis are paying double salary

Samantha124:
The north.

I love everything about south Africa especially those trybes, lesedi, nzansi, Zulu ... But it this the issues of xenophobic I hate in south Africa.. very good country

Samantha124:
You know where I'm from.

lol .. which part in SA?

b3llo:
Friendship wanes over time.

Yu said it bro

Samantha124:
What's duka?

it means lol.. deer .. where are you from?

Edipet:
Yes. I find it hard cutting of relationship , I find it it relating with new too.

is that your nature

Ladiesdream:
look at this idiot, you have been noticed lowlife.

e no reach that nah ...

Opanka44:
Pls Sir, if u can help with anything, no matter how small so my children can eat, I will be glad Sir. Pls

sorry bro I wish I have, I have spent for ileya thinking new salary will enter.. till today nothing no vex. God go provide

Samantha124:
Maybe it's because you and the other guy were very close during those high school days and you guys have a lot in common.

I'm still close to two of my high school friends, I met the first one in primary school, while I met the other one in high school.

Dumela Samantha hope you eat a lot of duka.. lol.

Sonnobax15:

Omoh,not all........ First of all, hustle just his everyone........ Secondly, family stuffs......But I still relate well with my secondary school class mates...In fact,we do hang out together once in a while.......But as for the ones I had back in my poly days,omoh,this last presidential election just brought out their true characters.....So we don't relate like we used to do.

oh really.. I am with you, I understand you many factors will come in...

Opanka44:
Exactly. In fact, I just left the house where I teach now. The parents of my students are both federal government staff. They told me they hadn't being paid June salaries. At first, I doubted them but immediately I came on Nairaland, I saw same tragic news and had to believe them(parents). I was so sad and devastated, I had thought that I would return home with my money by now cos I can't bear the sight of my children crying for food. I'm pained right now

yes it is true am also not happy..

Samantha124:
Distance get in the way after high school and we start making new friends along the way.

true talk my sister... Maybe that is the cause but there is one out of my class mates we still relate till today as if we are still in school but done will just ignore you

Ed12:
Life happens sometimes

really because some will relate well, some will bine you another thing I suspect is that some of them have money and started classing them selves...