₦airaland Forum

Spyker:
Chei, see correct woman for Nairaland. Thank you for this comment, Nwa yi Oma.

@Poster, dump that lazy girl before you begin wash pant. Afterall, you don dey cook already. Wetin come remain (Chestfeed the baby?)

My guy this thing no fear you? Anyway, my father wasn't a chef in his own house why should I be?

neily:
The cooking and other house works are the woman's responsibility. It does not mean that the husband should not help, if he can. My advise to u is to tell her mother or anybody she listens to, so that the person can help u talk to her. Don't make it look as if u re reporting her.

The mother reason the same way she does. The father has been cooking for her mother since Israel left Egypt.

brutal:
Don't u reason!quit d relationship,cos she will not make u happy. .which part of d world u dey sef?

My guy na the same planet earth. The truth is that she is everything but this issue na waa. Wetin person no go see for this world.

sophianah:
As far as I am concerned, cooking and domestic chores are the main duties of the wife, the husband provides finance for the family, the husband can assist the wife if there exist a dire need for the assistance, if not, the husband is not supposed to be seen in the kitchen cooking

God bless you my sister. I said exactly the same thing to her but it is like she is programmed to believe that way. This is becoming a real issue.

I and my girlfriend has been into relationship for some years and it is heading towards marriage. But the problem is who do the cooking and the housework?

To her she believes that a caring man always cook for his woman. When I say “always", I don't mean three times a week, I mean everyday i.e wake up in the morning and prepare breakfast for her and the children and also do some of the house work.At evening you should rush back to cook the dinner because the wife and children need to eat. The truth is, it is the way she was raised to understand. She is really a nice girl but I will be sincere with myself. I can't see myself doing housework at alone at the cookings.

As a man, I see it as bring myself so low. I need advice on how to make her understand this.