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People just like to comment without noting the facts OP stated above. I do feel OP's pain. Everything needs a little bit of training and exposure before venturing into it.
I can guess what happened from courtship till now:-

1. You guys met and (like every other lady does) she tried her best to hide her flaws. The little you noticed you thought you could handle but you didn't know there were a whole lot she was hiding.
2. She's someone who is kinda stubborn and don't care much what people think about her in the 21st century even if we all do.
3. She's a bit lazy and she wants to hide under nursing her children so she'll have a perfect coverup for being lazy.
4. She's not interested in changing her status in this changing world and she's kind of dragging you back. (Imagine what Jonathan is facing with Dame)
5. More painful because you try to do the thinking for her but she still doesn't want to take it. (More frustrating).
I just enumerated that to make you aware that i totally understand all what you are going through.

*Frustration in marriage make people to think of divorce and if i suggest you give her a private computer teacher, she still may not learn (though its worth trying so i say try that option).
*Get her cloth size and start buying those type of cloth you want for her.Get someone who knows how to help you if you can't and gradually burn off those her 1960's clothing.
*Its not easy to do but force yourself to show her more love.
*Stop pouring the juice inside her,learn self-control yourself start withdrawing when about to cum or use a condom. It could be kinda easy for you since you have some money to spend.
*Start this foodstuff business for her in a small scale and learn to audit her so she can see her progress by herself.