₦airaland Forum

Caleboha:
This insurgency is more political than ideological. Have you wondered why the spate of attacks has increased since Jonathan's declaration of interest in the 2015 race? There is an uncanning and persistent attempt to discredit his leadership. Unfortunately the old foool is too dull and stupppid to sanitize the nation's security apparatus. His level of corruption is unprecedented. This guy Jonathan is not pretending, he is not scheming anything, he has no hidden solution or strategy with regards to our current problems in Nigeria. What he has done in the last four years is exactly what he will reproduce in a lifetime. The guy is downright clueless! How can you sensibly explain this recurrent embarassment of our gallant military personel. You want to blame that on the opposition? You want to blame the low morale of our military and their old fashioned ammunition on the opposition? You think the opposition is responsible for our porous borders? You honestly believe the huge sums veted on security gets stolen by the opposition? Granted: terrorism is often difficult to quash, but no country has suffered such monumental embarassment of its military in open battle by riff raffs like boko haram. When Yar adua was president, boko haram felt the full weight of a well motivated nigerian army. They were defeated in one decisive swing in the week of 17th january 2009. It will be 2 years of silence before they rear their head again. If the tempo was maintained, boko haram would have been history. I know interests differ and some peeps would dump their votes for him again, they must however realise that even their fathers at home could better Nigeria's cause more than this clueless drunkard

True talk,,,that shoeless GEJ is as clueless as it gets, I said it when he got into power that he should have been left in the zoo to tend monkeys (he's a zoologist anyway)

Hello house, pls let's put things in proper perspective. I am not in support of promiscuity and sexual immorality, however If u love ur spouse yet feel no desire to make love with the person then there is a problem somewhere, the main focus now shouldn't be the desire but the self control excersised wen the urge comes on strongly. Desiring your spouse is a healthy feeling which indicates that your lovelife is complete as a human....I have been espoused to a vigin for 8 years no no love making since but that's not because I don't desire her, I nfact I desire her more these days but I just put myselfe in check to protect her chastity

NOTE: it doesn't mean I'd love her less if we make love tho.

Question: if sex is not a part of true love then why is it a problem wen ur spouse has sex with another person?