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Dating And Meet-up Zone / Re: The Help You Needed To Quickly Meet Your Future Husband Is Finally Here! by Haykaymos(m): 6:51pm On Oct 19, 2021
you a working-class single lady who is seriously thinking of getting married as soon as possible?


Then this is strictly for you!


At last, you can now quickly meet your dream future husband who will love you just the way you are, shower you with care and attention, understand you, and also cherish you for the rest of your life; and whom you can also truly love back with all of your heart!


Connect with us now on WhatsApp to quickly meet your dream future husband, even today ==>


2348149985435



See you inside!



(For instant access, send a message that reads: "My own future husband"wink
Romance / Re: The Help You Needed To Quickly Meet Your Future Husband Is Finally Here! by Haykaymos(m): 6:42pm On Oct 19, 2021
Are you a working-class single lady who is seriously thinking of getting married as soon as possible?


Then this is strictly for you!


At last, you can now quickly meet your dream future husband who will love you just the way you are, shower you with care and attention, understand you, and also cherish you for the rest of your life; and whom you can also truly love back with all of your heart!


Connect with us now on WhatsApp to quickly meet your dream future husband, even today ==>


2348149985435



See you inside!



(For instant access, send a message that reads: "My own future husband"wink
Dating And Meet-up Zone / Re: The Help You Needed To Quickly Meet Your Future Husband Is Finally Here! by Haykaymos(m): 10:32pm On Aug 05, 2021
HAS GOD RESERVED A PARTICULAR MAN OUT THERE FOR YOU AS YOUR FUTURE HUSBAND? (Part 2)


"So you are saying God can't tell a sister or brother that, this is your spouse, right? I find that hard to believe because God gave Eve to Adam."

The above was the interesting comment of one of my clients here on WhatsApp after reading the part 1 of this write-up.

And this was my reply to her comment:


"Of course, God can tell a brother or sister that, this is your spouse. And the brother or sister won't have no other choice than to comply. I mean, He is the Almighty God!

But He doesn't do that.

Why?

It's simply because He has given us free will. That is, the right to choose. And He doesn't tamper with people's free will.

What He does, instead, is that He guides people on request to find/meet their right spouse. And He also presents people with different options or if you like, His own recommendations, like He did in the case of Adam and Eve.

So, God didn't give Eve to Adam, contrary to what many people believe.

According to Scriptures, Eve was not the first candidate/recommendation God presented to Adam as a potential wife. And neither was she the only one.

But Adam didn't choose any of the other options God presented to him . He chose Eve, as opposed to the other options.

By the way, the event that took place in the above Bible passage was not a naming ceremony, contrary to what many Bible scholars and preachers say. It was actually a matchmaking ceremony.

'... But for Adam, no suitable helper was found...'

And when a suitable helper was eventually found for Adam, he exclaimed, 'This is now the bone of my bones and flesh of my flesh... '


NOTE: You can carefully study Genesis 2:I5-23 and see for yourself. And I suggest you use a contemporary English Bible version like NIV, for instance."


How did you find the above write-up? Did you get value?

Remember, the help you needed is finally here, so relax and put a smile on your face!
Romance / Re: The Help You Needed To Quickly Meet Your Future Husband Is Finally Here! by Haykaymos(m): 10:18pm On Aug 05, 2021
HAS GOD RESERVED A PARTICULAR MAN OUT THERE FOR YOU AS YOUR FUTURE HUSBAND?


"Pastor Davies, I'm confused!" Sandra said suddenly, almost in tears. "Three handsome, god-fearing and financially stable men are interested in me; and they are also very serious about getting married to me. But I don't know who to choose among them. Please, pray for me." She continued.

"I really want to know, sir, which of them exactly has God chosen for me? Is it Femi Williams, Kunle Adewale or Emeka Nwankwo? Or is it that God has reserved somebody else for me out there, somewhere as my future husband?" She asked, waiting eagerly for Pastor Davies' response...


What Sandra doesn't know is that contrary to what she believes, God has not reserved or ordained any particular man out there for her as her future husband, and neither will God choose her future husband for her.

Dear Future Wife, yes, contrary to what you may believe, God has not reserved or ordained any particular man as your future husband. That’s one of the reasons why He has given you free will. The same thing applies to every one of us.

If you study the Word of God well, you will discover that God does not give people husbands or wives. Every man or woman is expected to choose his or her own husband or wife, and then face the consequences of his or her choice, whether good or bad.

However, God being a loving God and because He knows that a person’s choice of husband or wife can either make or break him or her, He still guides us if we ask Him to, so that we can make the right choice.

The kind of person you spend the rest of your life with is entirely your choice. You are free to marry whoever you choose to marry. And that choice can either make you or break you.

Therefore, it’s important you know specifically what you want in a man so that you will be able to make the right choice.

Remember, the help you needed is finally here, so relax and put a smile on your face!

What do you think about this post? Did you get value?
Romance / Re: The Help You Needed To Quickly Meet Your Future Husband Is Finally Here! by Haykaymos(m): 6:05pm On Aug 05, 2021
ESANMEA:
Oya nar.. I'm searching with red eyes o



Smiling...

There's no harm in trying, but make sure you shine ya eye and also meet in a public place if or when the time comes to avoid stories that touch grin

Good luck!
Romance / Re: The Help You Needed To Quickly Meet Your Future Husband Is Finally Here! by Haykaymos(m): 5:56pm On Aug 05, 2021
Remember, the help you needed to quickly meet your future husband is finally here, so relax!
Romance / Re: The Help You Needed To Quickly Meet Your Future Husband Is Finally Here! by Haykaymos(m): 1:05pm On Aug 05, 2021
It will be sooner than you ever imagined, because the help you needed to quickly meet your future husband is finally here!

So, relax. Don't be discouraged. Don't lose hope. Put a smile on your face.
Romance / The Help You Needed To Quickly Meet Your Future Husband Is Finally Here! by Haykaymos(m): 11:25am On Aug 05, 2021
"When, God? When? When will it be my turn? Now that I am 39 going to 40, will I still be able to meet my own future husband, talk less of getting married to him?" Jane prayed bitterly in her heart as she unconsciously took off the lovely dress she wore to Mabel's wedding, trying hard to avoid shedding tears so that her kid sister, Sandra, who was with her in her room that evening would not notice.

And it's not the first time something like this would happen. It happens almost every time she gets back from a wedding ceremony. She doesn't like feeling this way, but she can't seem to help it. If she had her way, she would stop attending weddings.

Mabel was Jane's school daughter back in secondary school. Jane was obviously happy for her.

During the wedding reception earlier that day, Jane had seen a few of her old schoolmates who are now married and with children.

Jane is a successful, brilliant, beautiful and godly lawyer in a reputable law firm in the city of Port Harcourt, who seems to have it all except for the fact that she currently doesn't have a man in her life.

She has had five failed relationships in the past. The one that still lingers in her memory is her last failed relationship with Bode, which she had sincerely hoped would lead to marriage, because of how much they both loved each other and how long they had been together before things started to gradually fall apart between them.

What Jane does not know is that there is still hope for her and also that the help she needed is finally here.

Successfully meeting your future husband in a world full of so many fake (pretentious), cheating and selfish, but very good-looking men can seem very depressing, if not impossible.

I know…

You may have searched for your future husband for many months or even many years without success; and some men may have even deceived, used and dumped you in the past; but I want you to know that there is still hope for you.

You may be in your 30s or even in your 40s at the moment, but if other single ladies who are about your age could find their own future husband, then you can, and you will find yours too. It is absolutely possible!

It is not true that all the good ones have been taken. There are still many good single men out there.

The interesting fact is that, your future husband is out there looking for you too, and he’s probably having sleepless nights because he’s yet to find you.

Don’t laugh.

You better believe that, because it’s true.

Another interesting fact is that, you don’t have to have any special talent, a stunning figure or a pretty face like a movie star or a music star before you can successfully find, connect with and marry your future husband.

All you need is the right mindset, the right information (or secrets) which I will be revealing to you and the discipline to apply the information with anticipation.

Locating your future husband is not rocket science. Meaning that it is not something complex as many people wrongly believe. It can be incredibly simple… if you discover and apply the simple, practical and proven secrets.

So, don’t be discouraged. Don’t lose hope. Put a smile on your face. Relax. The help you needed is finally here! You will find and connect with your dream man. And it won’t be long! In fact, it will be simpler and faster than you ever imagined!

You will see..


P. S. Watch out for more useful secrets on this interesting, life-changing thread.

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Dating And Meet-up Zone / Re: The Help You Needed To Quickly Meet Your Future Husband Is Finally Here! by Haykaymos(m): 9:44pm On Aug 04, 2021
*HAS GOD RESERVED A PARTICULAR MAN OUT THERE FOR YOU AS YOUR FUTURE HUSBAND?*


"Pastor Davies, I'm confused!" Sandra said suddenly, almost in tears. "Three handsome, god-fearing and financially stable men are interested in me; and they are also very serious about getting married to me. But I don't know who to choose among them. Please, pray for me." She continued.

"I really want to know, sir, which of them exactly has God chosen for me? Is it Femi Williams, Kunle Adewale or Emeka Nwankwo? Or is it that God has reserved somebody else for me out there, somewhere as my future husband?" She asked, waiting eagerly for Pastor Davies' response...


What Sandra doesn't know is that contrary to what she believes, God has not reserved or ordained any particular man out there for her as her future husband, and neither will God choose her future husband for her.

Dear Future Wife, yes, contrary to what you may believe, God has not reserved or ordained any particular man as your future husband. That’s one of the reasons why He has given you free will. The same thing applies to every one of us.

If you study the Word of God well, you will discover that God does not give people husbands or wives. Every man or woman is expected to choose his or her own husband or wife, and then face the consequences of his or her choice, whether good or bad.

However, God being a loving God and because He knows that a person’s choice of husband or wife can either make or break him or her, He still guides us if we ask Him to, so that we can make the right choice.

The kind of person you spend the rest of your life with is entirely your choice. You are free to marry whoever you choose to marry. And that choice can either make you or break you.

Therefore, it’s important you know specifically what you want in a man so that you will be able to make the right choice.

Remember, the help you needed is finally here, so relax and put a smile on your face!

What do you think about this post? Did you get value?
Dating And Meet-up Zone / The Help You Needed To Quickly Meet Your Future Husband Is Finally Here! by Haykaymos(m): 9:00pm On Aug 03, 2021
"When, God? When? When will it be my turn? Now that I am 39 going to 40, will I still be able to meet my own future husband, talk less of getting married to him?" Jane prayed bitterly in her heart as she unconsciously took off the lovely dress she wore to Mabel's wedding, trying hard to avoid shedding tears so that her kid sister, Sandra, who was with her in her room that evening would not notice.

And it's not the first time something like this would happen. It happens almost every time she gets back from a wedding ceremony. She doesn't like feeling this way, but she can't seem to help it. If she had her way, she would stop attending weddings.

Mabel was Jane's school daughter back in secondary school. Jane was obviously happy for her.

During the wedding reception earlier that day, Jane had seen a few of her old schoolmates who are now married and with children.

Jane is a successful, brilliant, beautiful and godly lawyer in a reputable law firm in the city of Port Harcourt, who seems to have it all except for the fact that she currently doesn't have a man in her life.

She has had five failed relationships in the past. The one that still lingers in her memory is her last failed relationship with Bode, which she had sincerely hoped would lead to marriage, because of how much they both loved each other and how long they had been together before things started to gradually fall apart between them.

What Jane does not know is that there is still hope for her and also that the help she needed is finally here.

Dear Future Wife, successfully meeting your future husband in a world full of so many fake (pretentious), cheating and selfish, but very good-looking men can seem very depressing, if not impossible.

I know…

You may have searched for your future husband for many months or even many years without success; and some men may have even deceived, used and dumped you in the past; but I want you to know that there is still hope for you.

You may be in your 30s or even in your 40s at the moment, but if other single ladies who are about your age could find their own future husband, then you can, and you will find yours too. It is absolutely possible!

It is not true that all the good ones have been taken. There are still many good single men out there.

The interesting fact is that, your future husband is out there looking for you too, and he’s probably having sleepless nights because he’s yet to find you.

Don’t laugh.

You better believe that, because it’s true.

Another interesting fact is that, you don’t have to have any special talent, a stunning figure or a pretty face like a movie star or a music star before you can successfully find, connect with and marry your future husband.

All you need is the right mindset, the right information (or secrets) which I will be revealing to you and the discipline to apply the information with anticipation.

Locating your future husband is not rocket science. Meaning that it is not something complex as many people wrongly believe. It can be incredibly simple… if you discover and apply the simple, practical and proven secrets.

So, don’t be discouraged. Don’t lose hope. Put a smile on your face. Relax. The help you needed is finally here! You will find and connect with your dream man. And it won’t be long! In fact, it will be simpler and faster than you ever imagined!

You will see...


P. S. Watch out for more useful secrets on this interesting, life-changing thread.
Romance / Re: OPEN SECRET: 21 Decent Places To Find Your Future Husband Here In Nigeria... by Haykaymos(m): 10:29pm On Jul 02, 2020
HOW TO GET A COPY OF THE FULL EBOOK


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And I will send the simple steps involved in getting a copy of the eBook to you as fast as possible.


(Kindly note that so you can be sure this is NOT a scam, you have an uncommon opportunity to pay for the eBook AFTER it has been delivered to you through email or WhatsApp and AFTER you've read it. And if after reading the eBook, you don't like it, or you don't believe the information it contains will help you to achieve what it promises, don't pay for the eBook. What do you have to lose?)
Romance / Re: OPEN SECRET: 21 Decent Places To Find Your Future Husband Here In Nigeria... by Haykaymos(m): 10:23pm On Jul 02, 2020
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“It’s as if the author was talking to me. It’s easy to read, concise and educative.”

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Romance / Re: OPEN SECRET: 21 Decent Places To Find Your Future Husband Here In Nigeria... by Haykaymos(m): 10:19pm On Jul 02, 2020
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Romance / Re: OPEN SECRET: 21 Decent Places To Find Your Future Husband Here In Nigeria... by Haykaymos(m): 10:16pm On Jul 02, 2020
WHAT YOU WILL DISCOVER INSIDE “HOW & WHERE TO MEET YOUR FUTURE HUSBAND EVEN TODAY: THE 7 SIMPLE SECRETS OF FINDING YOUR FUTURE HUSBAND, FAST!”


You will discover the following simple secrets inside the full eBook…

- The 7 simple secrets behind how and where to quickly meet your future husband

- How to get many handsome, caring, responsible, hardworking, financially stable and God-fearing single men to start noticing you and approaching you for a marriage-bound relationship

- 21 decent places here in Nigeria where you can quickly meet such single men, even today

- How to easily make the first move on any guy you like, if necessary, and how to start an interesting conversation with him, without you appearing desperate or indecent

- How to start and have a happy, fun-filled and successful marriage-bound relationship with your man

- How to get married to your dream man within one year


And lots more...





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Romance / Re: OPEN SECRET: 21 Decent Places To Find Your Future Husband Here In Nigeria... by Haykaymos(m): 10:13pm On Jul 02, 2020
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Romance / Re: OPEN SECRET: 21 Decent Places To Find Your Future Husband Here In Nigeria... by Haykaymos(m): 10:02pm On Jul 02, 2020
lefulefu:
seriously u added football viewing center and religious houses among the list grin grin
so u dont know even the born again brothers also have flings cheesy
dey dere cheesy
u might as well add naijabet houses cheesy and beer palour centers cheesy
and as for matchmaking internet dating sites most scammers have infiltrated it
they now tag is as come and marry hustle.
the only matchmaking programme that will be safe will be the physical matchmaking programme organised by churches.at least scammers will find it difficult to infiltrate that one.but any internet dating site just run from those ones.




And as for football viewing centres...

Let me ask you a simple question: When was the last time you saw a single lady (whether pretty or ugly) walk into a football viewing centre to watch a football match? Maybe once, twice or never. Yet, that's one of the many places where eligible, good single guys are concentrated. Well, depending on the caliber of people you will find in the football viewing centre in question; because there are football viewing centres and there are also football viewing centres; if you know what I mean...
Romance / Re: OPEN SECRET: 21 Decent Places To Find Your Future Husband Here In Nigeria... by Haykaymos(m): 9:50pm On Jul 02, 2020
lefulefu:
seriously u added football viewing center and religious houses among the list grin grin
so u dont know even the born again brothers also have flings cheesy
dey dere cheesy
u might as well add naijabet houses cheesy and beer palour centers cheesy
and as for matchmaking internet dating sites most scammers have infiltrated it
they now tag is as come and marry hustle.
the only matchmaking programme that will be safe will be the physical matchmaking programme organised by churches.at least scammers will find it difficult to infiltrate that one.but any internet dating site just run from those ones.





Smiling...


Maybe you missed the part where I said this about religious houses...

"You should be very careful of pretenders, however, especially in religious houses. A religious house, like a church for instance, is one of the best places to find your potential Mr Right, but it can also turn out to be one of the worst. Some guys go to churches, pretending to be saved, only to start taking advantage of naïve and desperate single ladies. So, be warned..."


And you probably also missed the part where I said this about matchmaking services...

"And just like in any other business, there are also some dubious matchmaking organizations out there that are out to swindle single people of their hard-earned money. So you should be on the lookout..."
Romance / Re: OPEN SECRET: 21 Decent Places To Find Your Future Husband Here In Nigeria... by Haykaymos(m): 9:29pm On Jul 02, 2020
Be right back...
Romance / Re: OPEN SECRET: 21 Decent Places To Find Your Future Husband Here In Nigeria... by Haykaymos(m): 9:24pm On Jul 02, 2020
Dear Future Wife,

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Romance / Re: OPEN SECRET: 21 Decent Places To Find Your Future Husband Here In Nigeria... by Haykaymos(m): 9:14pm On Jul 02, 2020
I believe there’s nothing wrong in you making the first move, as long as you don’t act desperate or flirtatious; and as long as you don’t send the wrong signals. It was John Mason, a great author, who said, “Do not wait for your ship to come in, swim out to meet it.” Do not wait for things to happen in your life, make them happen! Be proactive! Even in the Bible, Ruth chose to make the first move towards Boaz, the man she was interested in, and he married her eventually. You might just want to know that, men find women with confidence extremely attractive.

But then again, what do you say to this guy that you are interested in when you see him? How do you say it? How do you start a decent conversation with him? If you see him on the Internet, what kind of DM (direct message) can you send to him in order to get his attention? How do you confidently go about the whole thing without you appearing indecent or desperate? Or without it looking as if you are “toasting” him?

Easy.

First and foremost, you’ve got to approach the whole thing in a…







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Romance / Re: OPEN SECRET: 21 Decent Places To Find Your Future Husband Here In Nigeria... by Haykaymos(m): 9:12pm On Jul 02, 2020
A relationship expert once said, “Nice ladies don’t get Mr Right; smart ladies do.” I think he has a point. That explains why it’s the seemingly “bad” babes in your neighbourhood and while you were in school that got most of the good guys around and also ended up marrying some of them; while the “nice” babes just remain single. The reason is simply because those seemingly “bad” ladies are smart. They didn’t wait for their Mr Right or future husband to look for them. They went looking for him. And they also made the first move, when necessary.

Remain a nice lady. However, don’t just be a nice lady; you’ve got to also be smart. I encourage you to go out there and look for your Mr Right or future husband. And when you spot anyone that looks like him, don’t wait for him to make the first move so you can find out if he’s actually your Mr Right; because he may be a shy guy, at least initially.






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Romance / Re: OPEN SECRET: 21 Decent Places To Find Your Future Husband Here In Nigeria... by Haykaymos(m): 9:10pm On Jul 02, 2020
Shall we continue?

Good!



If you are in any of the 21 decent places mentioned above and you see a man you are interested in, study him from a distance. If you still like what you see, don’t wait for him to make a move to talk to you. Once the coast is clear, walk up to him, smile, give him a warm greeting, introduce yourself and start a decent conversation with him. If it’s on the Internet, send him a DM (direct message). He will most likely find it difficult not to positively respond to you.

Gone are the days when as a woman, you would sit and wait for a man you are interested in to make a move and talk to you. Your Mr Right or future husband is not likely going to knock on your door any time soon and introduce himself to you. If you want to find your dream man, you may have to go out there and look for him, and also approach him, if need be.

I believe there is a time and a place for waiting – that’s when you have done everything legitimate you possibly can do. Let me ask you a question: Can you honestly say that you have done everything legitimate you possibly can do about finding your Mr Right or future husband? If you can’t say you have, then I don’t think it makes sense to wait for him to show up any longer. You’ve got to go out there and look for your man.





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Dating And Meet-up Zone / Re: OPEN SECRET: 21 Decent Places To Find Your Future Husband Here In Nigeria... by Haykaymos(m): 10:17pm On Jul 01, 2020
What do you think about this post?

Does it make sense to you?

Did you get value?

Do you know any other decent place a single and searching lady can find her future husband here in Nigeria?
Let's learn from you, too...
Dating And Meet-up Zone / Re: OPEN SECRET: 21 Decent Places To Find Your Future Husband Here In Nigeria... by Haykaymos(m): 10:13pm On Jul 01, 2020
You can ask one of your close associates, friends or family members to introduce you to a quality, single man whom they believe will meet your basic requirements. Alternatively, you can engage the services of a competent and reliable matchmaking outfit in order to speed up the process.

When a guy is introduced to you, learn to build a good friendship with him if he is someone you like, and see if it will lead to something more.

If it does lead to something more, fine. If it doesn’t, fine. If it doesn’t, it only means that you need to have someone else introduced to you. It’s as simple as that. It’s not rocket science.

Let me quickly add here that matchmaking, as simple as it can be, can also be a very delicate thing, if any or both of the parties involved are immature, too desperate or have expectations that are too high. Therefore, for you to benefit from matchmaking, you’ve got to be mature, not too desperate, and you also need to have reasonable expectations (That is, don’t expect too much too soon).

And just like in any other business, there are also some dubious matchmaking organizations out there that are out to swindle single people of their hard-earned money. So you should be on the lookout.







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Dating And Meet-up Zone / Re: OPEN SECRET: 21 Decent Places To Find Your Future Husband Here In Nigeria... by Haykaymos(m): 10:11pm On Jul 01, 2020
I also suggest that you should take advantage of matchmaking services in order to find your Mr Right. Matchmaking is simply an act of introducing a man and a woman to each other with the intention of marriage. The concept of matchmaking is not a new one. It has been going on in the world since the time of Abraham in the Bible, when his son, Isaac, was introduced to Rebecca for the purpose of marriage; to the time of Jesus when his father, Joseph, was introduced to Mary for the purpose of marriage; and up till this generation.

Many single ladies in Nigeria have remained unmarried today simply because they are either ignorant of the existence of matchmaking services in Nigeria or they have some misconceptions about it.

One of the misconceptions they have is that it is not scriptural. Another misconception they have is that, some of them feel that engaging in matchmaking will make them look desperate and redundant. I want you to know that none of these misconceptions is right.

I’ve just shown you that matchmaking is scriptural. Secondly, I don’t think it should make any lady feel desperate and redundant. But instead, you should see it as a wise move because it puts you in a position where you have a wide range of eligible, quality single guys to choose from, as opposed to now that you probably don’t have even just one guy to consider. It will also save you a lot of time and effort as far as finding your Mr Right is concerned, if done the right way. If you are in your 30s or in your 40s at the moment, I don’t think you have a lot of time on your side.





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Dating And Meet-up Zone / Re: OPEN SECRET: 21 Decent Places To Find Your Future Husband Here In Nigeria... by Haykaymos(m): 9:58pm On Jul 01, 2020
A Word On Religious Houses And Matchmaking Services


For starters, you can prayerfully go to any of the above places with a female friend, especially if you are a shy person, in search of your Mr Right or future husband.


You should be very careful of pretenders, however, especially in religious houses. A religious house, like a church for instance, is one of the best places to find your potential Mr Right, but it can also turn out to be one of the worst. Some guys go to churches, pretending to be saved, only to start taking advantage of naïve and desperate single ladies. So, be warned.







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1. Fitness centres

2. Seminars

3. Conferences

4. Training Programmes

5. Events for single people

6. Facebook groups/pages for single people

7. WhatsApp groups for single people

8. Bookshops

9. Book fares

10. Trade fares

11. Sports events

12. Football viewing centres

13. Sports clubs

14. Gaming clubs

15. Investment clubs

16. Dance schools

17. Music schools

18. Business schools

19. Leadership schools

20. Religious houses

21. Matchmaking services





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If you find someone of the opposite sex physically attractive but he doesn’t have the other basic qualities of your potential Mr Right, don’t waste your time with him. Continue the search. However, you two can remain acquaintances or friends.

If you don’t consider any of the members of the opposite sex you’ve come across, met or known to be your potential Mr Right, then you have to go where you can possibly find him. In the movie, Coming to America, Hakeem (played by Eddie Murphy) left his father’s kingdom in Africa for America to search for the kind of woman he wanted, having searched for her to no avail in his father’s kingdom. According to him, he wanted a woman who would arouse his loins as well as his intellect. He felt he could find her in America. And he eventually did.

In the Holy Book, when Abraham wanted to get a wife fort his son, Isaac, he asked his eldest servant to go in search of her in another country. And that was how they found Rebecca as a wife for Isaac.

You don’t have to go looking for your Mr Right or future husband in America. I only shared that with you to let you see how far someone can go to search for his or her Mr Right or Miss Right. There are many potential Mr Right or future husband out there in this country. You just have to be more outgoing and “shine your eyes.” Ask the Lord to guide your steps and also open your eyes.

Don’t say all the good ones have been taken. There are still many good, single men out there. You simply need to know where to look. Once you are clear about the kind of guy you are looking for, you should ponder on the kind of places where such men are concentrated, and then go to such places. The kind of man you are looking for can’t be found everywhere. There are specific places where you can find him – at least 21 specific places here in Nigeria. That’s why you’ve got to go where your potential future husband can be found. Examples of places where you can find your potential future husband include:





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Your Potential Future Husband


Your potential future husband is someone who has the basic qualities of your future husband, but may or may not turn out to be your future husband eventually. Time will tell. The following are the basic qualities you should look out for in your potential future husband, amongst other qualities you may consider basic.

1. He is physically attractive, at least to you (You feel physically attracted to him each time you see him or each time the two of you are together).

2. He is kind (He cares about other people, including you).

3. He is polite (He treats and talks to other people, including you, with respect, no matter how poor or unimportant they may seem).

4. He has integrity (He is a man of his words; he is honest).

5. He is considerate (He is not self-centred).

6. He is humble (He is not proud, cocky or unapproachable).

7. He is teachable (He listens to others, including you; and can be corrected whenever he is wrong).

8. He is a man of vision (He knows exactly what he wants and where he is going in life).

9. He is going in a similar direction as you in life (Your major dreams, goals and objectives in life are related with his own one way or the other).

10. He has a personal and cordial relationship with God (Most single ladies out there; and maybe, including you too; are looking for men that are God-fearing. But what they fail to realize is that, before a man can genuinely be God-fearing, he has to first of all have a personal and cordial relationship with God).



With the above 10 basic qualities and other qualities you may consider as basic, especially if he is teachable, your potential Mr Right can develop other qualities of your Mr Right or future husband.





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21 DECENT PLACES TO FIND YOUR FUTURE HUSBAND HERE IN NIGERIA


Dear Future Wife,

Thank you and congratulations for being interested in this life-changing, exciting thread. Successfully finding your future husband in a world full of so many fake (pretentious), cheating and selfish, but very good-looking men can be very depressing, if not impossible. I know.

You may have searched for your dream man for many months or even years without success, but I want you to know that there is hope for you. You may be in your 30s or even in your 40s at the moment, but if other single ladies who are about your age could find their own dream man, then you can, and you will find yours too. It is absolutely possible!

It is not true that all the good ones have been taken. There are still many good single men out there. The interesting fact is that, your future husband is out there looking for you too, and he’s probably having sleepless nights because he’s yet to find you. You better believe that, because it’s true.

Another interesting fact is that, you don’t have to have any special talent, a stunning figure or a pretty face like a movie star or a music star before you can successfully find, connect with and marry your future husband. All you need is the right mindset, the right information (which will be revealed to you through this thread), and the discipline to carefully go through this thread with an open mind and also apply the information it contains with anticipation.

Locating your future husband is not rocket science. It can be incredibly simple… if you discover the practical and proven secrets. So don’t be discouraged. Don’t lose hope. Put a smile on your face. Relax. The help you need is finally here! You will find and connect with your future husband. And it won’t be long! In fact, it will be simpler and faster than you ever imagined! You will see!

Wishing you the very best and God’s speed in your search for your future husband!




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Romance / Re: OPEN SECRET: 21 Decent Places To Find Your Future Husband Here In Nigeria... by Haykaymos(m): 9:33pm On Jul 01, 2020
When a guy is introduced to you, learn to build a good friendship with him if he is someone you like, and see if it will lead to something more.

If it does lead to something more, fine. If it doesn’t, fine. If it doesn’t, it only means that you need to have someone else introduced to you. It’s as simple as that. It’s not rocket science.

Let me quickly add here that matchmaking, as simple as it can be, can also be a very delicate thing, if any or both of the parties involved are immature, too desperate or have expectations that are too high. Therefore, for you to benefit from matchmaking, you’ve got to be mature, not too desperate, and you also need to have reasonable expectations (That is, don’t expect too much too soon).

And just like in any other business, there are also some dubious matchmaking organizations out there that are out to swindle single people of their hard-earned money. So you should be on the lookout.




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