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REASON #13: YOU DON'T KNOW THE RIGHT PLACES WHERE YOU CAN GO SO THAT YOUR DESIRED FUTURE HUSBAND CAN FIND YOU

There are many potential Mr Right or future husband out there in whatever country you are at the moment. You just have to be more outgoing and “shine your eyes.” Ask the Lord to guide your steps and also open your eyes.

Don’t say all the good ones have been taken. There are still many good, single men out there. You simply need to know where to look.

Once you are clear about the kind of guy you are looking for, you should ponder on the kind of places where such men are concentrated, and then go to such places. The kind of man you are looking for can’t be found everywhere. There are specific places where you can find him. That’s why you’ve got to go where your potential future husband can easily find you.

It may interest you to know that during my research, I discovered at least 21 decent places where any smart and intentional working-class single lady can position herself so that her desired future husband can easily find her.





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REASON #12: YOU ARE TOO BUSY WITH WORK AND OTHER ACTIVITIES

If your schedule is so tight that from Monday to Sunday, January to December, you cannot create enough time to spend with a man who is interested in you, or go to places where the of the kind of man you are interested in can see you and approach you, then I think you have to change or modify your schedule.

If it is your job or business that is making you have such a crazy schedule, then you have to change it so that your desired future husband can find you.

I know that is easier said than done, but how on earth do you expect to successfully get found by your future husband if you are never available?




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SECRET #11: YOU HAVEN'T YET DECIDED TO GET FOUND BY YOUR DESIRED FUTURE HUSBAND

The truth of the matter is that you have to decide to get found by your desired future husband before he can actually find you. No, it won’t happen by chance or by luck.

If you are waiting for your desired future husband to find you by chance, I'm sorry to inform you that it won't happen.

What you will keep getting instead are guys you don't like or guys that are only interested in sleeping with you.

That's because nobody achieves anything worthwhile by chance.

If you are really serious about getting found by your desired future husband, you should decide today that you want him to find you. And you should prayerfully set it as a goal. As in, you should prayerfully set a deadline.

Sit down and prayerfully make a list of everything you can think of doing in order to achieve your goal. Come up with a sound plan. And start working on your plan immediately.




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REASON #10: YOU HAVE BEEN TRYING TO MAKE YOUR FUTURE HUSBAND SHOW UP IN YOUR LIFE ON YOUR OWN (YOU HAVEN'T INVOLVED GOD)

Although God has not reserved a particular man out there for you as your future husband, He know the exact man with whom you will spend the rest of your life and He also knows where he is at the moment, because God knows the future; He knows your future.

What you and I call the future is not the future to God at all, because He lives in eternity.

Therefore, does it not make a lot of sense to ask God in prayer to help you and guide you so that your desired future husband can show up in your life, instead of you trying to do it on your own?

God is much more passionate about your future husband finding you than you can ever be. So, let Him help you and guide you. He will save you a lot of stress, time and energy.

However, note that although God will guide you, if you ask Him, you will still be the one to do the choosing. God won't choose your future husband for you.

God doesn't do for us what He has given us power/authority to do for ourselves.



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REASON #9: YOU DON'T KNOW THE 10 BASIC QUALITIES YOU SHOULD LOOK OUT FOR IN A SINGLE MAN

During my research, I discovered that there are 10 basic qualities every man must have before he can be taken seriously or considered as a potential future husband by a working-class class single lady.

Ignorance of the 10 basic qualities has made a lot of ladies find themselves living a life of avoidable sorrow, pains and regrets in their marriage.

Your job is to discover the 10 basic qualities as soon as you can and let them guide you to choose the right man for yourself.




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REASON #8: YOUR STANDARDS/EXPECTATIONS ABOUT THE KIND OF MAN YOU WANT ARE TOO HIGH

While I think it's okay for you as a working-class single lady to have high standards or expectations when it comes to the kind of man you want to spend the rest of your life with and not settle for anything less than the very best, because you truly deserve the very best, you should also make sure that the high standards that you have set for herself are not unrealistic.

Otherwise, you may find yourself walking past your future husband every day, without knowing it, simply because he doesn't "look anything like it" at the moment.

There are certain basic qualities you should be looking out for in a guy that is interested in you, even if he doesn't "look anything like it" at the moment.

REASON #7: YOU DON'T KNOW SPECIFICALLY WHAT YOU WANT IN A MAN

It is very important that you know specifically what you want in a man so that you will be able to make the right choice.

Let me even ask you. What specifically do you want in a man you want to spend the rest of your life with as your future husband?

What is he like on the outside (i.e. the container) and on the inside (i.e. the contents)? You may want to write the answers to the above questions in your notebook or jotter, so that you can be as clear and as specific as possible, because according to Jim Rohn, America’s foremost business philosopher, “A well-defined dream works like a magnet. The better you describe it, the harder you work at achieving it and the stronger it pulls you in its direction.”


Your desired future husband is not a perfect person. Nobody is perfect. Or are you?

However, he should be someone who has accepted your past, supports your present and encourages your future.





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REASON #6: YOU HAVE BEEN WAITING FOR GOD TO GIVE YOU A HUSBAND

Contrary to what you may believe, God has not reserved a particular man out there for you as your future husband. That’s one of the reasons why He has given you free will. The same thing applies to every one of us.

If you study the Word of God very well, you will discover that God does not give people husbands or wives. Every man or woman is expected to choose his or her own husband or wife, and then face the consequences of his or her choice, whether good or bad.


However, God being a loving God and because He knows that a person’s choice of husband or wife can either make or break him or her, He still guides us if we ask Him to, so that we can make the right choice.

Therefore, the kind of man you spend the rest of your life with is entirely your choice. And whether he is going to show up in your life or not, is up to you.



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REASON #5: YOU DON'T KNOW WHAT YOU WANT IN LIFE

You’ve got to know exactly what you want and where you are heading in life if you truly want to successfully get found by your desired future husband. The reason why this is absolutely important is simple. When you know what you want and where you are heading in life, you will be able to easily recognize and differentiate from the rest, a suitable man who shares in your passion, who is going in a similar direction as you and who will also most likely inspire, encourage and assist you in achieving your goals.




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REASON #4: YOU DON'T EVEN KNOW YOURSELF

Getting found by your desired future husband or your dream man begins with you. You’ve got to first of all discover and get acquainted with who you really are. You’ve got to have a better understanding of yourself. It’s the first and single most important thing you need to do.
Knowing yourself will help you to easily recognize the kind of man you want to attract into your life - someone who compliments you; someone you can walk with; someone whose leadership you can willingly follow. It will also help you to identify what areas of your life you may need to change or work on.




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REASON #3: YOU DIDN'T KNOW THAT THE STEPS INVOLVED IN GETTING FOUND BY YOUR DESIRED FUTURE HUSBAND ARE ACTUALLY SIMPLE

Unknown to many working-class single ladies, getting found by their future husband is not rocket science. That means it is not something complex. It can be incredibly simple if only they can discover the simple, realistic and proven secrets (or steps) involved.

All you need to make it happen for yoursefl is the right mindset, the right information and the discipline to carefully apply the right information with expectation.




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REASON #2: YOU HAVE SOME WRONG BELIEFS/MENTALITY ABOUT GETTING FOUND BY YOUR DESIRED FUTURE HUSBAND


For instance, you wrongly believe that all the good single men out there have been taken.

On the contrary, there are still many good single men out there in abundance. As a working-class single lady who wants to get found by her desired future husband, you simply need to know the right place to look.

For your information, your future husband is out there looking for you too, and he is probably having sleepless nights because he is yet to find you. You better believe that, because it’s true.

And it may interest you to know that you don’t have to have any special talent, a stunning figure or a pretty face like a movie star or a music star before your future husband can successfully find you, start a marriage-bound relationship with you, and then get married to you.

Don’t forget that success in anything you want to do in life begins in your mind. The battles of life are either won or lost in the mind.




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REASON #1: YOU HAVE LOST HOPE OF GETTING FOUND BY YOUR DESIRED FUTURE HUSBAND

Successfully getting found by your desired future husband in a world full of so many fake (pretentious), cheating and selfish, but very good-looking men can be very depressing, if not impossible. I know.


You may have waited for your desired future husband for many months or even many years without success, but I want you to know that there is still hope for you.

You may be in your 30s or even in your 40s at the moment, but if a lady like you by the name Mabel could be found by her future husband when she was 45 years old, then you can, and you will be found by yours too. It is absolutely possible!

So, don’t be discouraged. Don’t lose hope. Stop being skeptical. Put a smile on your face. Relax. The help you needed is finally here! You will get found by your own future husband. And it won’t be long! In fact, it will be simpler and faster than you ever imagined! You will see!







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HAS GOD RESERVED A PARTICULAR MAN OUT THERE FOR YOU AS YOUR FUTURE HUSBAND? (Part 2)


"So you are saying God can't tell a sister or brother that, this is your spouse, right? I find that hard to believe because God gave Eve to Adam."

The above was the interesting comment of one of my clients here on WhatsApp after reading the part 1 of this write-up.

And this was my reply to her comment:


"Of course, God can tell a brother or sister that, this is your spouse. And the brother or sister won't have no other choice than to comply. I mean, He is the Almighty God!

But He doesn't do that.

Why?

It's simply because He has given us free will. That is, the right to choose. And He doesn't tamper with people's free will.

What He does, instead, is that He guides people on request to find/meet their right spouse. And He also presents people with different options or if you like, His own recommendations, like He did in the case of Adam and Eve.

So, God didn't give Eve to Adam, contrary to what many people believe.

According to Scriptures, Eve was not the first candidate/recommendation God presented to Adam as a potential wife. And neither was she the only one.

But Adam didn't choose any of the other options God presented to him . He chose Eve, as opposed to the other options.

By the way, the event that took place in the above Bible passage was not a naming ceremony, contrary to what many Bible scholars and preachers say. It was actually a matchmaking ceremony.

'... But for Adam, no suitable helper was found...'

And when a suitable helper was eventually found for Adam, he exclaimed, 'This is now the bone of my bones and flesh of my flesh... '


NOTE: You can carefully study Genesis 2:I5-23 and see for yourself. And I suggest you use a contemporary English Bible version like NIV, for instance."


How did you find the above write-up? Did you get value?

Remember, the help you needed is finally here, so relax and put a smile on your face!

HAS GOD RESERVED A PARTICULAR MAN OUT THERE FOR YOU AS YOUR FUTURE HUSBAND?


"Pastor Davies, I'm confused!" Sandra said suddenly, almost in tears. "Three handsome, god-fearing and financially stable men are interested in me; and they are also very serious about getting married to me. But I don't know who to choose among them. Please, pray for me." She continued.

"I really want to know, sir, which of them exactly has God chosen for me? Is it Femi Williams, Kunle Adewale or Emeka Nwankwo? Or is it that God has reserved somebody else for me out there, somewhere as my future husband?" She asked, waiting eagerly for Pastor Davies' response...


What Sandra doesn't know is that contrary to what she believes, God has not reserved or ordained any particular man out there for her as her future husband, and neither will God choose her future husband for her.

Dear Future Wife, yes, contrary to what you may believe, God has not reserved or ordained any particular man as your future husband. That’s one of the reasons why He has given you free will. The same thing applies to every one of us.

If you study the Word of God well, you will discover that God does not give people husbands or wives. Every man or woman is expected to choose his or her own husband or wife, and then face the consequences of his or her choice, whether good or bad.

However, God being a loving God and because He knows that a person’s choice of husband or wife can either make or break him or her, He still guides us if we ask Him to, so that we can make the right choice.

The kind of person you spend the rest of your life with is entirely your choice. You are free to marry whoever you choose to marry. And that choice can either make you or break you.

Therefore, it’s important you know specifically what you want in a man so that you will be able to make the right choice.

Remember, the help you needed is finally here, so relax and put a smile on your face!

What do you think about this post? Did you get value?

ESANMEA:
Oya nar.. I'm searching with red eyes o

Smiling...

There's no harm in trying, but make sure you shine ya eye and also meet in a public place if or when the time comes to avoid stories that touch

Good luck!

Remember, the help you needed to quickly meet your future husband is finally here, so relax!

It will be sooner than you ever imagined, because the help you needed to quickly meet your future husband is finally here!

So, relax. Don't be discouraged. Don't lose hope. Put a smile on your face.

"When, God? When? When will it be my turn? Now that I am 39 going to 40, will I still be able to meet my own future husband, talk less of getting married to him?" Jane prayed bitterly in her heart as she unconsciously took off the lovely dress she wore to Mabel's wedding, trying hard to avoid shedding tears so that her kid sister, Sandra, who was with her in her room that evening would not notice.

And it's not the first time something like this would happen. It happens almost every time she gets back from a wedding ceremony. She doesn't like feeling this way, but she can't seem to help it. If she had her way, she would stop attending weddings.

Mabel was Jane's school daughter back in secondary school. Jane was obviously happy for her.

During the wedding reception earlier that day, Jane had seen a few of her old schoolmates who are now married and with children.

Jane is a successful, brilliant, beautiful and godly lawyer in a reputable law firm in the city of Port Harcourt, who seems to have it all except for the fact that she currently doesn't have a man in her life.

She has had five failed relationships in the past. The one that still lingers in her memory is her last failed relationship with Bode, which she had sincerely hoped would lead to marriage, because of how much they both loved each other and how long they had been together before things started to gradually fall apart between them.

What Jane does not know is that there is still hope for her and also that the help she needed is finally here.

Successfully meeting your future husband in a world full of so many fake (pretentious), cheating and selfish, but very good-looking men can seem very depressing, if not impossible.

I know…

You may have searched for your future husband for many months or even many years without success; and some men may have even deceived, used and dumped you in the past; but I want you to know that there is still hope for you.

You may be in your 30s or even in your 40s at the moment, but if other single ladies who are about your age could find their own future husband, then you can, and you will find yours too. It is absolutely possible!

It is not true that all the good ones have been taken. There are still many good single men out there.

The interesting fact is that, your future husband is out there looking for you too, and he’s probably having sleepless nights because he’s yet to find you.

Don’t laugh.

You better believe that, because it’s true.

Another interesting fact is that, you don’t have to have any special talent, a stunning figure or a pretty face like a movie star or a music star before you can successfully find, connect with and marry your future husband.

All you need is the right mindset, the right information (or secrets) which I will be revealing to you and the discipline to apply the information with anticipation.

Locating your future husband is not rocket science. Meaning that it is not something complex as many people wrongly believe. It can be incredibly simple… if you discover and apply the simple, practical and proven secrets.

So, don’t be discouraged. Don’t lose hope. Put a smile on your face. Relax. The help you needed is finally here! You will find and connect with your dream man. And it won’t be long! In fact, it will be simpler and faster than you ever imagined!

You will see..


P. S. Watch out for more useful secrets on this interesting, life-changing thread.

*HAS GOD RESERVED A PARTICULAR MAN OUT THERE FOR YOU AS YOUR FUTURE HUSBAND?*


"Pastor Davies, I'm confused!" Sandra said suddenly, almost in tears. "Three handsome, god-fearing and financially stable men are interested in me; and they are also very serious about getting married to me. But I don't know who to choose among them. Please, pray for me." She continued.

"I really want to know, sir, which of them exactly has God chosen for me? Is it Femi Williams, Kunle Adewale or Emeka Nwankwo? Or is it that God has reserved somebody else for me out there, somewhere as my future husband?" She asked, waiting eagerly for Pastor Davies' response...


What Sandra doesn't know is that contrary to what she believes, God has not reserved or ordained any particular man out there for her as her future husband, and neither will God choose her future husband for her.

Dear Future Wife, yes, contrary to what you may believe, God has not reserved or ordained any particular man as your future husband. That’s one of the reasons why He has given you free will. The same thing applies to every one of us.

If you study the Word of God well, you will discover that God does not give people husbands or wives. Every man or woman is expected to choose his or her own husband or wife, and then face the consequences of his or her choice, whether good or bad.

However, God being a loving God and because He knows that a person’s choice of husband or wife can either make or break him or her, He still guides us if we ask Him to, so that we can make the right choice.

The kind of person you spend the rest of your life with is entirely your choice. You are free to marry whoever you choose to marry. And that choice can either make you or break you.

Therefore, it’s important you know specifically what you want in a man so that you will be able to make the right choice.

Remember, the help you needed is finally here, so relax and put a smile on your face!

What do you think about this post? Did you get value?

"When, God? When? When will it be my turn? Now that I am 39 going to 40, will I still be able to meet my own future husband, talk less of getting married to him?" Jane prayed bitterly in her heart as she unconsciously took off the lovely dress she wore to Mabel's wedding, trying hard to avoid shedding tears so that her kid sister, Sandra, who was with her in her room that evening would not notice.

And it's not the first time something like this would happen. It happens almost every time she gets back from a wedding ceremony. She doesn't like feeling this way, but she can't seem to help it. If she had her way, she would stop attending weddings.

Mabel was Jane's school daughter back in secondary school. Jane was obviously happy for her.

During the wedding reception earlier that day, Jane had seen a few of her old schoolmates who are now married and with children.

Jane is a successful, brilliant, beautiful and godly lawyer in a reputable law firm in the city of Port Harcourt, who seems to have it all except for the fact that she currently doesn't have a man in her life.

She has had five failed relationships in the past. The one that still lingers in her memory is her last failed relationship with Bode, which she had sincerely hoped would lead to marriage, because of how much they both loved each other and how long they had been together before things started to gradually fall apart between them.

What Jane does not know is that there is still hope for her and also that the help she needed is finally here.

Dear Future Wife, successfully meeting your future husband in a world full of so many fake (pretentious), cheating and selfish, but very good-looking men can seem very depressing, if not impossible.

I know…

You may have searched for your future husband for many months or even many years without success; and some men may have even deceived, used and dumped you in the past; but I want you to know that there is still hope for you.

You may be in your 30s or even in your 40s at the moment, but if other single ladies who are about your age could find their own future husband, then you can, and you will find yours too. It is absolutely possible!

It is not true that all the good ones have been taken. There are still many good single men out there.

The interesting fact is that, your future husband is out there looking for you too, and he’s probably having sleepless nights because he’s yet to find you.

Don’t laugh.

You better believe that, because it’s true.

Another interesting fact is that, you don’t have to have any special talent, a stunning figure or a pretty face like a movie star or a music star before you can successfully find, connect with and marry your future husband.

All you need is the right mindset, the right information (or secrets) which I will be revealing to you and the discipline to apply the information with anticipation.

Locating your future husband is not rocket science. Meaning that it is not something complex as many people wrongly believe. It can be incredibly simple… if you discover and apply the simple, practical and proven secrets.

So, don’t be discouraged. Don’t lose hope. Put a smile on your face. Relax. The help you needed is finally here! You will find and connect with your dream man. And it won’t be long! In fact, it will be simpler and faster than you ever imagined!

You will see...


P. S. Watch out for more useful secrets on this interesting, life-changing thread.

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You will discover the following simple secrets inside the full eBook…

- The 7 simple secrets behind how and where to quickly meet your future husband

- How to get many handsome, caring, responsible, hardworking, financially stable and God-fearing single men to start noticing you and approaching you for a marriage-bound relationship

- 21 decent places here in Nigeria where you can quickly meet such single men, even today

- How to easily make the first move on any guy you like, if necessary, and how to start an interesting conversation with him, without you appearing desperate or indecent

- How to start and have a happy, fun-filled and successful marriage-bound relationship with your man

- How to get married to your dream man within one year


And lots more...





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lefulefu:
seriously u added football viewing center and religious houses among the list
so u dont know even the born again brothers also have flings
dey dere
u might as well add naijabet houses and beer palour centers
and as for matchmaking internet dating sites most scammers have infiltrated it
they now tag is as come and marry hustle.
the only matchmaking programme that will be safe will be the physical matchmaking programme organised by churches.at least scammers will find it difficult to infiltrate that one.but any internet dating site just run from those ones.

And as for football viewing centres...

Let me ask you a simple question: When was the last time you saw a single lady (whether pretty or ugly) walk into a football viewing centre to watch a football match? Maybe once, twice or never. Yet, that's one of the many places where eligible, good single guys are concentrated. Well, depending on the caliber of people you will find in the football viewing centre in question; because there are football viewing centres and there are also football viewing centres; if you know what I mean...