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*EVERY MAN DESERVES A 4G WIFE*
(Interesting and worth sharing)

I have met 1G wives, 2G wives, 3G wives and 4G wives, but only the 4G wives are making lasting positive impacts.

Some sisters would say but I am not married yet... You are supposed to be a wife material before marriage. The Bible says, "he that findeth a wife..." Therefore, let's learn one or more from these to add values to our lives.

1G Wives:
The First G stands for Good. Every Man deserves a Good wife. I will explain what I meant by being Good. The Bible says "he that findeth a wife findeth a good thing..."

Prov. 31:12 says,
"She will do him good and not evil all the days of her life."
A Good wife does 6 things to her husband. The dictionary defines being Good as having desirable or positive qualities. How do you recognize a good wife?

1. She is kind to her husband. She speaks kind words and do kind things.

I was with a wife one day and I called her a witch to her face. I said "You don't have to be flying to be a witch, you are behaving like one already" do you know what she did?

Her husband came back from work and the man was still outside with dirty clothes and body and she was screaming that he brought money for food home what about money for school fees?

I said "this man has gone out since morning, he has worked hard and is tired already, can't you be kind enough to give him water for bathing and give him food before collecting money and screaming at him?

Some wives treat strangers better than they treat their husband.

2. A Good woman is a true Help Meet.
She doesn't put the burden of the family on her husband alone.

Some women want their husband to pay house rent, give them household allowance, take care of their family and his family and still pay school fees.

The poor man will still buy them clothes and shoes and he is in trouble if he forgets to pay electricity bills or renew DSTV subscription. Kukuma kill the man.

Women should take time to study Proverbs 31 diligently. A virtuous woman is not lazy and dependent on her husband alone for survival.

3. A Good woman is loving to her husband and appreciates her in-laws. She loves them because they are the reason she has a great man who loves her.
Someone trained that man, sent him to school, teach him manners and how to treat a woman well. You are enjoying the fruit of other people's labour. Don't call them pests or parasites.

4. A Good wife is a peaceful woman. She treats her neighbours well and hospitable.

5. A good woman is a good cook and a good caretaker.
She understands that the way to her Man's heart is through his stomach. Men love good food.

6. A good woman grooms her home and tend her garden.

When she is Good she has 1G, we all know that 1G cannot get you anywhere, hence, the need to upgrade.

2G Wives:
The 2nd G is Gorgeous.
Psalm 45:10-11
10. Listen, O daughter,
Consider and incline your ear;
Forget your own people also, and your father’s house; 11. So the King will greatly desire your beauty; Because He is your Lord, worship Him.

Prov. 31:22
"She makes tapestry for herself;
Her clothing is fine linen and purple".

There was a period that I equated Holiness with wearing oversized clothes and wearing colour riot. Thank God for knowledge.

A Gorgeous wife:
1. Dresses beautifully to attract her husband
2. Wins him over and nurture his affection
3. Reverence her husband and places him on a pedestal. Yes, she is biased and partial to her husband because they have got each other's back.
4. She is charming and pretty
5. She fascinate her husband
6. She knows and maintain her place in his heart
7. She knows that the way she dresses is the way people will address her husband.
When a wife is Good & Gorgeous, she has 2G. We all know that 2G cannot do much for you as well, you need more than that.

3G Wives:
The 3rd G is GREAT.
The dictionary defines Great as achieving Distinction and Honor. A Great wife is a distinctive wife not a destructive wife.

A Great Wife does the following:

1. She honours her husband publicly and privately.
I know a woman that used to call her husband her lord. How will you feel as a husband if your wife calls you my lord? Will you beat such a woman or starve her?
2. A Great woman Praises her husband, she does not put him down.
I was with a couple one day and I told the wife jokingly while admiring her new phone that "Your husband is trying O! How many husbands will buy their wife a phone at this time when the economy is hard?" She said "Se iru phone eleyi lawon egbe e n ra fun iyawo won?" Meaning is this the type of phone his Mates buy for their wife?

3. A Great woman preserves her husband by giving him peace of mind.
A man has gone to work since morning and when he comes home at night what you use to welcome him is "Thank God you are home, I would have killed somebody but trust me Sha, I showed her pepper"
There are too many Madam pepper working around parading themselves as wives, God will save men.
Many men are so fed up that they are praying for death.

4. A Great Wife romances her husband and seduce him.
We were told that as a Christian woman, you must be ready to be your husband's prostitute. If you can serve him dinner in the bedroom and in the sitting room you can do anything with him.
5. A Great woman guide her husband into greatness.
She dusts him up and encourages him.
We know that 3G is great but nothing can beat 4G because it is much more better.

4G Wives:
The 4th G is Godly.
Every man deserves a Godly wife.
Prov. 31:30 says,
"Favour is deceitful and beauty is vanity but a woman that fear the Lord should be praised".
A Godly wife:
1. Has a Christlike character and humble disposition.
2. Guard her tongue and does not use it to inflict pain on her husband.
3. Put God first in everything she does.
4. Builds her home prayerfully
5. She honours her husband
6. She forgives her husband
7. Train her children in the way of the Lord and gently groom her husband to love the Lord more.

The Benefit of having a 4G wife.
3G is better but 4G is the best because it connect to the heart of God and her husband efficiently and consistently.
A 4G wife is
1. Good
2. Gorgeous
3. Great
4. Godly

May God give you such a wife as a man if you are not married, and if you're already married, receive grace for upgrade in your marriage.
Also, if you are a lady and not on the 4G network yet, connect with your maker and receive the grace to
upgrade to 4G now in Jesus' Name

�You can add more bro

DanseMacabre:
I guess they can marry the 'panel-beater' who'd turn them to a punching bag then. Your list no complete o.

4 Types of Men You Should NOT Marry

Getting married is a serious commitment, but some people do not take it seriously. You should, of course, marry the best person for you. You should marry a person who you can count on in good times and in bad...someone who will always “have your back.”


Women, with that in mind, here are the four kinds of men that you should definitely not marry:
1. The broke bloke

You have to ask yourself why he is always broke. Does he hate working? Does he spend all of his money on frivolous things? Whatever the case, you probably do not want to marry someone who can’t hold on to his money. It is much smarter to marry someone who is financially stable. This does not mean you should only “marry rich.” This means you should “marry responsibly.” Responsibly handling one’s finances is not the same thing as saving every single penny and become a cheapskate, but the guy should be able to save! If he can’t pay for a date now, he probably will not be able to do much in the future. Before you decide to become serious about someone, it is critical that you look at how they currently handle their money.

2. The mama’s boy

You do not want to marry a mama’s boy because you will always and forever be competing with his mother. He will always compare you to his mother, who can do no wrong in his eyes. You will be expected to do his laundry and do it exactly like his mother. A mama’s boy is used to being taken care of and expects it not only from his mother but from his girlfriend or wife, as well. He has probably never done chores in his life, does not know how, and does not intend to do them in the future. Never marry a man who does not know how to clean up after himself.

A mama’s boy won’t hesitate to run home to his mom after the two of you get into arguments, yet another reason to steer clear of this type.

3. The sad sack

Some people are always unhappy. No matter what happens, they always find something to complain about. If the guy you are dating is always downbeat, it’s probably not a smart idea to marry him if you want a happy marriage. A miserable guy might be content now and then, but for the most part, you will have to listen to his constant litany of complaints and his continuous blaming of others. He likely will not take much action to change what he does not like. Someone who likes to complain, but will not make changes, is not the ideal husband by any stretch of the imagination.

4. The master manipulator

A man who uses manipulation to get what he wants is not good marriage material. Even if he only does it now and then, it is no better than doing it all the time. The fact that he has the skills to manipulate and is willing to use them when he needs to is a very bad sign. The problem with manipulators is that you either give them exactly what they want or you will most certainly incur their wrath. You will end up walking on eggshells to make him happy and avoid being manipulated. That is no way to live. If you are already dating a manipulator, marrying him will ensure more unhappiness.


If you are dating any of these types of men, it is important that you consider the effect this person is having on your life. These personality traits can spell disaster for your happiness. Tune into your “gut feelings.” Will your life be better if you marry him? If not, run while there is still time!

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CollinsWeGlobe:
Why do y'all always rush to answer the country that I am all the time?

I laugh sha.

Greece

Acrofab:
which country are you cos I envy the environment

Every soul will taste death..... it is quite unreasonable to celebrate the death of a fellow mortal who should have been given a medal for living far above the predicted life expectancy age of an average Nigerian(54.5years) . There are 1000 ways to die, we live in a country where almost every way a man could die abound due to one singular reason ‘ LEADERSHIP ‘.... A good health system will only do well to further increase the tendency to survive health challenges that can be remedied by the presence of well equipped hospitals and qualified personnel’s which we already have in the country. What do you think will happen to an ambulance on an emergency mission faced by an arm robbery operation, road blockage due to police demand for bribes or accidents caused by deadly potholes?
My point::: Nigerians die on daily basis due to the overall failure of the government in all sectors. Covid 19 is just a popular assassin, Failed Leaders(both past and present)are the real killers.

Madness is inherent in every individual......

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That Leaf is used to cleanse bacteria infection on babies/children ......the leaf is boiled until it turns pure red and it is used to bathe the child.....it is very effective

Good development....I hope other regions can do the same especially to honor Awolowo who was the brain behind the fight for the existence of Nigeria

No be one party system we Dey run for Nigeria? Which one is APC and PDP again

nonsense

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I see Buratai as the next president.....

the last one is real

ok....We don hear......At the end of the election, this man will have 9,540 votes .....

I believe this guy is lieing .........I just imagine how the soldiers will listen to his crap.........They can only listen after he has been trashed

Life is Hard but begging can never be the solution...

After waking up this morning, I quickly rushed to the kitchen to check if my house mate hav not started cooking with the only available hot place....I quickly place my modulated pot on it to reserve the space, I checked my cupboard and found out that the beans I was hoping to cook had bin consumed by the ever galant Rat officers in my house....Basking in my disapointment, I checked nairaland to for succor and here I am as a First to Comment on a thread that I did not read at all......

my mind is telling me that this guy still dey bed-wet

pls who has gotten screening invitation?

we dont have any reason to see this as an achievement.....Rather we should see it as a failure in comparison with the schools abroad......

plan B

Unfortunately,,He did not die like a galant Soldier.....He died like a bloody civilian.....
...Death is inevitable, He chooses who he wishes, He left the weak and carted away the strong....Oh death!!!!

I opened this thread just to check if She will not hide her face.....I Am not disappointed afterall

this one has a bad memory o

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